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UPDATE...Ken passed away (JoAnn_fla)

15 years ago

Ken passed away this morning 9/4 at around 3:00.

Thank you for your support and all the prayers sent to JoAnn and her family!

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User
15 years ago
So sorry to hear this news. Sympathies to JoAnn and family
lynn_d
15 years ago
JoAnn, you and your family have my deepest sympathy.

Perhaps they are not the stars, but rather openings in Heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us to let us know they are happy. ~Author Unknown
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My dad, in his eighties, had a bad stroke, eventually going to hospice. We expected him to pass away, but he improved, went home and continued to improve. That was almost two years ago and he is still doing okay. I know Ken is in good hands, and it helps so much that you are by his side. I wish the very best for you both!
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My husband passed and I immediately called my friends and asked for help. They picked me up the next day and went with me to make all arrangements having done the same themselves a few months before. I don't know how close you are. Does she have friends & family around who can help her get through the next week, going to the funeral home with her, making arrangements? Did she call you or did somebody else tell you about it? A friend lost an adult child last year. She called me so I knew that it was OK to step up to the plate. I immediately went to her house and made all the phone calls, checking prices and talking with her about it. She couldn't handle it alone. Is there somebody to do that for your friend? If she has somebody helping her with those things you can either ask that person, or just wait until after the service and visit and talk to her and her children. Next thing, buy her some healthy frozen dishes, preferably home made, for her freezer. Some Shepherd's pies or quiches for example. No matter what you do, I think the worst time is the months afterwards. When you offer to help make a suggestion -- drive the kids to their grandmother? Bring a dinner? I'm really tired myself tonight. I'll think about it.
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patti43
15 years ago
We're all thinking of JoAnn this morning with heavy hearts. I'm saying prayers for strength for her.
Nita__AZ
15 years ago
I am so sorry JoAnn.
pam_25f
15 years ago
I am sad for JoAnn. Thank you for letting us nkow.
Georgysmom
15 years ago
Just came on line for a minute. I am so sorry to read this. My deepest condolences for JoAnne and the family.
moonie_57 (8 NC)
15 years ago
I am so sorry for JoAnn and her family. Such a difficult time for them all.
maire_cate
15 years ago
That is sad news. I'll remember JoAnn and her family in my prayers.
mamatoad
15 years ago
My sympathy and very special thoughts for JoAnn and her family. I will continue to keep them in my prayers.
jannie
15 years ago
Sympathy and prayers to JoAnn and family.
phyllis__mn
15 years ago
Special caring thoughts going out to JoAnn this day.
monica_pa Grieves
15 years ago
Prayers and sincere condolences to JoAnn and family
JennaVaNowSC
15 years ago
Joann.. so very sorry for your loss.
heather_on
15 years ago
My thoughts and prayers are with you JoAnn.
brightonborn
15 years ago
JoAnn so sorry to hear of your beloved Kens passing. My prayers are with you and your family..

Jan
minnie_tx
15 years ago
HUGS to JoAnn and family
wanda_va
15 years ago
My heart goes out to JoAnn. The days ahead will be very difficult, and I hope she knows she can come to her friends here for support and encouragement. Hugs!
donna37
15 years ago
So sad for you JoAnn, special thoughts for you and family.
Jasdip
15 years ago
JoAnn, I'm so sorry about Ken. My thoughts are with you during this most difficult time.
(((JoAnn)))
liz
15 years ago
I'm so sorry for you and your family Joann...may peace be with you during this very difficult time...
petaloid
15 years ago
(((JoAnn)))
gadgets
15 years ago
I pray for His peace to surround you and your family, JoAnn.

Shirley
matti5
15 years ago
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Hugs to you!
sleeperblues
15 years ago
So sorry, Joann. May Ken rest in peace.
Granlan_TX
15 years ago
I'm sorry to hear about Ken. Hope hospice could help to make his passing peaceful.

Thinking of you JoAnn.
Kathsgrdn
15 years ago
I'm so sorry. ((((JoAnn and family))))
schoolhouse_gw
15 years ago
My sincere sympathies to JoAnn and her family.
kayjones
15 years ago
Joann, I am sad to read this - will keep you in my prayers.
gardenspice
15 years ago
Sincere condolences to JoAnn and family. Peace be with you.
Marilyn Sue
15 years ago
I am so sorry to hear of your loss Joann, hugs and prayers to you and your family.

Sue
Vickey__MN
15 years ago
So sorry to hear this

Vickey
Jamie_LA
15 years ago
Soo sorry Joann! Thoughts and prayers for your family.
nanatricia
15 years ago
So very very sorry (lots of hugs)
dollydolots
15 years ago
Blessings to you and your family.
Dolly
lydia1959
15 years ago
So very sorry (((JoAnn))).
Momof6
15 years ago
Praying that the Lord will comfort you with his peace, surround you with his love ...encourage you with his presence...
User
15 years ago
Thank you everyone. I'll be back soon.
alisande
15 years ago
I'm so sorry, JoAnn. Sending special thoughts for you and your family.
bulldinkie
15 years ago
So sorry to hear this,you have my sympathy..
luckygardnr
15 years ago
My deepest sympathies, Joann. Hugs and prayers to you and your family.
ntt_hou
15 years ago
With deepest sympathy to you and your family JoAnn. Ken is no longer suffering. May this thought be of comfort to you as it did when I lost my dad.

((((((JoAnn & Family))))))
gazania_gw
15 years ago
JoAnn, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My deepest sympathy to you and your family.
OklaMoni
15 years ago
I am so sorry JoAnn. Please accept my condolences.

Moni
taigen_gw
15 years ago
So sorry for your loss ((JoAnn and family))
katlan
15 years ago
Heart felt sympathy to Joann and her family for their loss. May God bless them all.
trixietx
15 years ago
I am so sorry, you and your family are in my prayers!
evatx
15 years ago
JoAnn, I'm so sorry; I will be keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
ruthieg__tx
15 years ago
So sorry ....sending good thoughts for JoAnn and family.
sjerin
15 years ago
You have my deepest sympathy and prayers, JoAnn. Please try to take care of yourself (eating,) as you continue your physical healing. I hope you have loads of support!
sandiefl
15 years ago
JoAnn,you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless you.

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