KISS military salute

monarae_gw

12 years ago

That was so cool!!!!! Thanks for posting it!

MonaRae

nanny98

12 years ago

Yes, Thank you so much and I have sent it to my Grandsons in the military.

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Thanks I passed that on to my nephew...He has two children that would really enjoy going. My nephew has been dropped into enemy lines to look for special enemies many times...He was part of a special force. And has spent most of the last four years in the war Zone as a comander of a helicopter unit. He has really given over and beyond. I think he will get to retire (if he will) in a years time. patti

phyllis__mn

12 years ago

Thank you......it was great.

Jodi_SoCal

12 years ago

It brought tears to my eyes.

bengardening

12 years ago

Yes i am sitting here crying too

KISS military salute

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