Lily, I haven't been watching it but I watched most of it last week and watched it last night. I couldn't believe she let Sean go. To me...he was the first choice....then Artie (is that his name...the race driver??) and finally...Jeff...the guy from Utah. I agree, he looks 14. I must have missed a lot because he would have been my last choice. Just sayin'.

my order exactly, Marilyn

well she isn't in it for money if she doesn't chose the race car driver...but then i wouldn't for sheer fear he'd crash, and be back to square one...and if he's any good, wins races, he aquires "hanger-ons" like any sports figure...

maybe the guy from utah has family values?

I think he's a Mormon, but he still looks 14.

I've been watching it. Jef does seem like a little kid to me.. so I don't really see the attraction there. I do like Arie though.

I'm surprised that she hasn't let her daughter meet any of the guys yet. If Emily plans on getting engaged in a week, I'd think she'd want to be sure her daughter liked and got along with her future step-father.

My daughter and I think Arie is hot, but maybe Emily thinks he's a playboy and wouldn't make a good father. She said Jef is 27. I wasn't crazy about Arie's family. I really liked Sean's. Her parents will meet the final two, you would think Ricki would too.

I was stunned she let Sean go, but I was surprised she kept Jef around instead of others. He makes her laugh and the tv show showed him asking definite questions about their future as a family.
I sure don't see the appeal over Sean ..and I thought it'd be Sean for a long time.

We'll see ...the real part starts after the rose show ends ..fitting their lives together and how the everyday things work out.

IMHO, and I only listen while I'm on the computer and haven't seen the faces of any of the guys--I hope they all run far, far away. I think, and this is just from listening, that that girl is a nut case. Cute, yes. But other than that, what is her attraction?

I liked Sean and was sorry to see him go. As a couple I did not see a strong connection. Something was missing. Maybe he'll be the next bachelor.

I see more kissing between Emily and Ari than talking. It's obvious thier relationship is more physical. I wonder if his connection to racing is also a factor in her keeping him around.

Jeff looks so darn young, so it's difficult to watch them together. I did like the questions he asked her last night. I don't see either one of these guys ready for fatherhood.

Nice to see the fantasy suite used for something other than sex lol

I think Emily should date newly divorcing Chris Harrison. They make a cute couple!

No, I do not watch it. :)

Sue

Count me in as another one who liked Sean the best. I think she missed the boat by letting him go! Jeff would have been my last choice of the three. I think the attraction with Ari was physical since when comparing her thoughts about them, her comment about him was " he's just so hot!".

I think Sean was the most mature (except for the silliness at the visit to his family's home). He really seemed concerned about being a good husband and father. I was sorry to see him go.

I visit the boards at abc site and it has been stated that Jef has been "coached" by someone "in the know" on what to say and ask. His conversation with her last night seemed to show that possiblility.

I don't think Arie is ready to settle down and be a dad. His lifestyle wouldn't be a match for how she has been living in NC. I know Ricki's dad was a racecar driver but that's not what she has been used to in her short life.

From the previews, which they edit to bring drama, it seems she is still confused. Some on the boards are saying that the ATRC is being shown live because she doesn't agree to an engagement at the FRC but does at the ATRC.

There's talk on sites that Em is dating Chris; she didn't pick anyone. Not sure if it's true, but I wouldn't be surprised. The way he looks at her is different than anyone else. He said she is the most beautiful girl he's ever seen. We'll know for sure shortly. I think Sean would have been good for her.