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Genealogy Question: Any Experts Here?

15 years ago

My grandfather (long deceased) was married and had 2 children before he married my grandmother. Whether he was divorced or deserted the earlier family is unknown.

I'm trying to do some research on his first family. He married the first wife--I have the certificate--in 1896. I also located the birth certificates for their two daughters, one born in 1897 and 1899. The 1900 census lists them as a family living in Chicago. The next record I can find for my grandfather is when he married my grandmother in 1910.

What happened to the earlier wife and two daughters is a complete mystery. There are no public records whatsoever for the wife and two daughters after 1900. I have searched under the wife's maiden name and my grandfather's last name. Possibly, she married again and changed her daughters' last name to that of her new husband. But again there are NO records of any marriage; also no death or social security certificates, no listing on other censuses, etc. The wife and two daughters just disappear.

My question is a pretty general one, I'll admit. What did a divorced--or deserted--wife do with her name around the year 1900? Did she keep the husband's? Did she go back to her maiden name? If she remarried were all traces of the earlier names simply erased from public records? And what do you do when the genealogical trail goes so cold?

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