For reference my directions are as viewed from the street looking at your house. The first pic, that's neighbor on L? The scar on R of fence is where your shed used to be? R half of 2nd pic is neighbor straight back...L half pic your yard (aiming toward neighbor with shed)? The third pic I know what is but I cannot differentiate levels. Sorry. Looks like that lot high, too? The neighbor directly straight back (w/2 large trees) looks like he's been high forever as if subd. created that way. The neighbor on you L side looks like his fill might be much newer. His grass has a new-ish look. (would have liked to seen a pic aiming further left...I'm trying to see where the drain path goes.) Aside from the water, he's dumping on you, where's the rest of his water draining? To his front? And the guy next to him (past power pole) where's his water going (other than what he's putting on you)? If the bulk of their water is going to the front...which you might be able to tell from standing in front of their houses, I'd guess one or both of them has blocked your natural flow. Which says that going to a lawyer for a consultation to discover your rights and make a plan is the place to start. Someone pointed out, what will you do with major rain like hurricane Irene type rain...or the hundred year flood? Your original plan will put you in jeopardy if such were to happen. Actually, with your drainage blocked, you're probably already in jeopardy. just won't be able to see it until that monster rain happens. I'm not trying to be an alarmist, but I think it's important to know where you stand legally...especially, if you can get the cause of your problems to pay for the solution. I would try to find out every last fact about where that water is draining...how it's draining for these neighbors...get out their during the next heavy rain. Take pictures. Make yourself knowledgeable about exactly how all these pieces of the the puzzle fit together...before going to lawyer. You don't want to go with just a few words and a complaint...to which he says, "we'll need to study your issues. That'll be $500 for our next hours worth of work." Go as prepared as you can be.

Lou, I am just now seeing this post. I am sorry for your loss. As many have said, no one should have to experience losing a child. I wish you strength and peace as you go through this time of grieving. My thoughts are with you and your family during this time. Lisa

Well, first of all let me congratulate you on your retirement! 36 years of teaching is quite an accomplishment! I like all your menu items, but I agree with Linda C. To me there are too many, and that's an awful lot of food for a luncheon-type party. I'd be ready for a long nap after that much food! LOL I categorized them below, as I see it. APPETIZERS Chex Party Mix Pretzels Chunky salsa and chips Spinach artichoke Parmesan spread w/assorted crackers Italian salami and crackers Chicken & apple sausage bites Meatballs (crockpot) SALADS Fruit salad Tossed green salad Vegetable "primavera" salad Mozzarella, basil, and Roma tomato "stacks" ENTREES Meat Lasagne Vegetarian Lasagne DESSERTS Peanut butter rice krispie treats Cherry cheesecake Chocolate mousse cake Key Lime pie I think I'd narrow it down to: *4-5 appetizers (Somehow the salsa and chips don't fit with the rest of menu) *one veggie salad and a fruit salad *two lasagnes as main dishes *two desserts I would also add some type of rolls and butter. Just my 2 cents because you asked. I am sure whatever you decide, it will be a wonderful party! Linda

Saying a prayer and wishing him all the best. Whatever the problem I hope he can feel good again soon. (And you, too, Lillipad. You're a good GM to care so much.)