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sharley_gw

New Here. Need opinions. Thanks!

18 years ago

Hi. I am 25 and I have a 7 year old daughter. Her father and I had a really really terrible relationship. We have been apart for over 2 years. I have been at the same job for the last six years. Here is were I met my new love. We have worked together for six years now. We were always close coworkers nothing more. However 10 months ago things changed between us and we have been in an exclusive dating relationship for the last 8 months. He is so wonderful to me. He adores me and I him. We would probably be thinking about getting engaged, however we have two huge issues. One: is he knows alot of my past history with my ex, which as I said earlier was real bad, so he hates him. Issue because he, my ex, is in contact with my daughter, mostly, and I. Two: is he tried to get close to my daughter who was completely not going for it. She has soften some in the last month or so but now he feels uncomfortable to be around her. He doesn't try as hard anymore or as often, but everynow and again he checks out the scene. He too feels that I spoil her, in some way I do. She is a good girl no behavior problems. We just have different ideas. Could just be our difference in background. Can we make this work? I know that things worth having aren't easy to aquire, but am I being unrealistic. Anyway long message, I know but to those who read this and choose to respond thanks so much and trust that your opinion is greatly appreciated.

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