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I really need to vent. My sd has lived with us for years and her bm has not been very involved. She rarely sees or calls her and she moves all over constantly. She has more kids and a new bf.
Her and her bf decided to move one town over from us. They have not yet moved but she called today to tell my sd all about it. Told her how they will be packing up their vehicle in October and moving nearby. Then she told her all about how she will be spending Thanksgiving and Christmas Break with them. She said how she will be coming to all her school functions this year.
Then she asked her what size clothes she wears now. My sd mentioned that we cleaned out closets and packed away clothes that no longer fit her and my dd. BM told her that she could bring her old clothes to her house for her little sister! We buy all the clothes and bm buys nothing and pays no child support and she thinks we are going to supply her with clothes for her other child?? LMFAO!
I am just so irritated. My dh says I should not be and that he doubts she will move nearby. But I keep thinking what if she does and then what if she really starts going to school functions and really visiting her? I know this is selfish but where does that leave me? I am the one who has been helping raising her for years and now I feel like her bm is just going to shove her way into sd's life and sd will be so happy to finally have bm back that I will be pushed away. If we all go to school stuff who will sd end up going to after? At sporting activities who will sd want to come to after?
How do other stepfamilies deal with this? I have never had to! With my dd my dh and ex get along so it is never awkward. And with my ex's work schedule he is not able to attend most afterschool stuff so it is usually just me and dh.
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