Thank You All !!!!! Camelot is now a true fairytale.

20 years ago

To all that have supported and took the time to address my problems, I will never forget you all and in my prayers I will keep you in mind. Always !.You are good people. I am doing fine. For sometime I have gone away to relax, that which I needed, I did what I had to do to take care of myself. I will not defend that. Last night I came back to this forum after a well needed rest only to find one poster, I will not say who because, I will not go that low since he/she was quick to attack. It was clear he had not read the post from the start. Time has come to go, and once again I Thank You All. I will not post again. After the "PILL'S" quote. You casted your stone. Do you feel better now? You want to hear my wife's side of the story? I guess we should all second guess everyone who posts !!! Now I turn the other cheek and, I am not J.C. People like you prove to all that most are cynical. Pointing out. Are you perfect? Have you done no wrong? Sad, yes sad. You can respond but, I will not, I will not give you the pleasure to an answer!. To all that have helped when I was down, you deserve the credit for keeping me strong. I'm now stronger then ever. Confidence at a high. Feel great. To you who judge me " I could care lesssssssssssssssssssss." Good-Bye

to you all.

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argon
20 years ago
Best of luck to you. I hope life takes a turn for the better. Sounds like you are off to a good start in taking care of yourself.
donethat
20 years ago
Westwinger, you don't make any sense to me. You want us all to judge your wife and her kids but you don't want us to hear her side. That just doesn't seem fair or beneficial to you or them. You two loved each other or you wouldn't have gotten married. She is probably fragile and scared. Do you tell her things or talk to her. Do you accuse her or listen to her. Even if she doesn't make any sense she needs to feel heard.
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Oh, Thanks everyone. I'll be honest. After all my spruiking yesterday about not being overwhelmed, I woke up this morning, got out of bed, and just burst into tears. The house is fine really, but just looking at all the unpacking of 5 weeks, the hospital gear, the bookwork to catch up on for our business, the medical paperwork, the washing to be done, the groceries to get... Waaagh,,, I had a bit of a sook, and thought how nice it would be to go have a shower in a bathroom that is sterile, and come back to pristine white sheets made by the nurses with hospital corners, and have my chosen meals brought in on a tray!! Anyway reading your posts got me off the pity potty in a hurry, and how could i ever want to go back in hospital again? Yikes. DH and I tackled the paperwork yesterday, because I could do that lying in bed, so at least we know the bills are up to date, our banking and mail are sorted, and that's a good feeling. I loved your three D's Jannie... dinner,dishes, duds. That got my priorities sorted. Good food, no scummy sink, and clean undies and pj's. Who needs more than that for a few weeks, and I can cope with that. DH is great when it comes to mowing, and sweeping and carrying etc, so I'm really lucky. He keeps reassuring me that we'll get to the rest little by little. I'm just such a fusspot that even a messy bed gets me down, even when I know it doesn't matter at a time like this. Thanks again for all your encouragement, and yes, 5 minutes at a time, I know. I need a neon sign in my brain flashing that at me all the time. Kind regards Lily
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brass_tacks
20 years ago
Westwinger,
I will be thinking of you often. Best of everything to you!!
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callmerae
20 years ago
was he talking about me? I mentioned it would be interesting to hear the story from his wife's perspective as we all look at situations differently and sometimes that is half the problem in itself. I posted him several times asking how he was doing and had been thinking about him......this post confuses me as I myself didn't cast any stones but recommended a herbal product to help him sleep...did I piss him off or am I missing something?
verenap
20 years ago
Callmerae...if you go pack to the original thread, one of the last posts (from another poster) basically implies that westwinger was lying and then abusing drugs instead of dealing with the problem... "something sounds fishy about your story. I, for one, would like to hear her side. Your taking pills!!! Solutions don't come from pills."
I don't think it was aimed at you at all...westwingers last post on that thread included this, "Callmerae, "If you saw me work the bag for the last few days I think you would run and hide. It might have to be replaced soon"." (Response to your comment about joining the gym because they have punching bags) "[I just laughed, been awhile] Nice to know you have been thinking about me though."
Hope this clarifies it for you. :-)

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dirt_yfingernails
20 years ago
Best wishes Westwinger.

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