Well, his heart was in the right place....

20 years ago

My husband and I have been married for 40 years, and together for 3 years before that. We don't exchange gifts between the two of us. If he came home on Valentine's day with flowers and a card or even candy, I would be ticked off that he wasted the money on something like that...I'd rather go to a specialty nursery and buy a shrub or go to a cemetary and take a cutting. The things I like, you don't find in regular department stores. Not to say that he doesn't give me gifts...and he has a knack to know just what I like too.

Anyway, in anticipation of some remodeling to the house, I have been wanting a soaking tub for the bathroom. As a junk afficienado of many years, I have some clawfoot tubs...um, 4 as a matter of fact, but none are big enough for what I want. I was looking at some tubs in a magazine...one was over $3,000 and the other was over $5,000, and that didn't include the faucets. Of course, I had no plans to ever pay any kind of price like that. Today when he came home, he brought me a tub...it is huge...old...

about 6' long and tho it doesn't sit on feet, it has a base, which is kind of interesting. He had it in the back of his truck, resting on a 2 x 6, so it wouldn't get scratched. As he tried to move it forward, he lifted it and told me to move the 2 x 6 a little bit. When I did, he set it down on my right index finger! It is smashed...I don't think broken, altho I am sure I will lose the nail. It didn't bleed hardly at all...must've cauterized the blood vessels by the pressure!

I know better than to not be careful when working around him...he can be very dangerous. He once called me over to the edge of the pond to help him untangle a minnow seine, caught in some weeds. Just as I walked up, he jerked on it, and it came free and hit me in the mouth with the broomstick that it was tied to. Chipped three of my teeth.

Anyway, I don't know when the bathroom remodel will take place...and actually, he bought me two of the tubs...will bring the other one home tomorrow. I will pick out the best one to use, and I guess find another use for the other one.

Sort by:Oldest

Comments (9)

Cheri_C
20 years ago
I'm sure he felt terrible. What a great gift he brought home for you. Can't wait to see some pics!!!
marilyn_c
Original Author
20 years ago
My husband is a sweetheart. One of the kindest people I have ever known. I am still looking for the battery charger for my camera...I have a lot of new junk that I want to take pictures of to show you guys. I'm fortunate about the finger. It is sore but not nearly as bad as it could be.
Related Discussions
Hope I Got The Right Place
Q
Comments (9)
I am sorry for the sadness and physically difficulties you have faced and continue to face and glad that you are able to garden with joy and anticipation again. I have ws thousands of containers over the years but only 4 containers this year, just a bump in my gardening plans and am hoping to get more done later and I am not actively trading seeds at this time so haven't been reading the Seed Exhange page or paying much attention to the offers in other postings. A few suggestions to get responses to your seed exchange offers: 1. Post on the Seed Exchange Forum and the Round Robin Forum. 2. Post on exchange pages of this and other forums that you frequent. 3. Join group exchanges. There was a group Wintersowing Swap earlier this year. Sometimes there will be a post telling of a new swap and linking to it. 4. If someone has expressed interest in trading in a Discussion posting follow up with an e-mail to that person. It is easy to forget the offer if one doesn't go back to read the post again. I look forward to seeing your photos and reading more about your winter sowing experiences. Bobbie
...See More
A few questions from reading Right Rose Right Place
Q
Comments (57)
Thanks, Michael. I have remembered that you've mentioned that before for sandy soils and have been thinking about adding it into those beds. I think I read that someone has been using "nitrogen-enriched" kitty litter with good success. Do you know a reason why that's not a good idea? It seems like it would be a source of cheap nitrogen, anyway. Rosefolly, as I've looked at the nutrient availability chart related to pH there's something else that happens with boron at high pH. I think I understand that at low pH plants uptake too much boron but at high pH boron become inaccessible so you get a deficiency. But I don't quite understand because at pH 9 and above it looks like it uptakes well again. Here's a link to one of those pH nutrient-availability charts. Thanks for the birthday wishes! Here is a link that might be useful: pH nutrient chart This post was edited by harborrose on Thu, Sep 19, 13 at 20:34
...See More
right place--right time
Q
Comments (19)
Luvs, that was a good price for a thrift, even at a yard sale I'd have paid that. I strongly urge everyone who likes "stuff" to shop at yard sales as the prices can be really, really good there. It is more fun to go with someone, not sure if I'd go alone as often. DH and I always go together and also bring visiting relatives and guests if they are interested. It's a fun way to spend 2-3 hours on a Saturday morning. I often find people having a yard/garage sale, especially for the first time, are also nervous but will respond in a friendly way if you say good morning and make some pleasant comment (weather, how early it is, etc). Since I've held yard sales myself I know how much work it is to set things up nicely so if they have done that I compliment them. I also sometimes say, at some point, that DH and I go to a lot of YS's so have a lot of things. I also might say that I really shouldn't go to sales anymore but should have one of my own but find YS's fun. That way if I don't buy much they will hopefully understand. I also sometimes mention (with a laugh) our little rule of only buying what we can't live without. Then wish them good luck with their sale and on to the next. Of course there is sometimes the grouchy person who got up on the wrong side of the bed that morning and I just leave them alone! I must say I am less likely to buy from the grouch unless it's really something I can't live without. I rarely haggle anymore altho used to when we bot to resell but we bot a lot then. If things are priced too high I just walk away altho if it's something I really want I might ask if that's their best price or if they could go lower. Some people are not realistic in pricing so when everything is too high there is not much point in discussing it. If I am buying a lot of things I might round down and offer an even price. You know if it adds up to $22.50 I might just offer a $20 bill and ask if that's OK. Most people say sure as they are happy to have sold several things. If they hesitate I just pay the full price. The more I spend the better deal I often get. If you fill a box people are happier to give a bargain than if you are only buying one thing. Sometimes I've actually paid more than asking price when I know they have no clue about pricing especially older people who may not know the value of what they are selling. That can be as difficult as I don't want to offend but I just say it's worth $xxx to me and give that to them. I like the sales where people are selling their older parents or grandparents stuff and just want it gone. Then it's often fill a box and you can have if for $5. That was great when I bot glass for totems. However if they call it an "estate sale" I find prices are often high even on the junk. I know for sure I have too much stuff and will be giving away or selling some things eventually. I think I am being more selective because I have little storage space remaining but also my tastes have changed over time. I will still buy things if I love them tho, regardless.
...See More
Sewers have BIG hearts, right?
Q
Comments (6)
how is matt and how is his family? prayers being said by many, i am certain...
...See More
Cheri_C
20 years ago
Can't wait to see all your "goodies." Glad your finger isn't to bad.
ashli
20 years ago
Marilyn...are you sure that your husband didn't time those "accidents" ...?...ha...Joking!

My husband is very kind too...but...when he starts that chainsaw in the fall/winter months...he doesn't seem to recognize a hedge bush from a Clematis vine, or the little Rose of Sharon trees that I set out in late summer...when I heard the noise, I rushed outside...too late!...they were laying on the ground...and he said, "I thought they were just wild trees sprouting."... Wild?...hmmmm.
One thing is certain...it's not easy to hide a chainsaw.
Any ideas?
stella_2006
20 years ago
Ohhh, I'm sorry about your finger! His heart was in the right place...he must feel so bad. You could always use the second tub as a flower planter in your yard. It sounds weird, but I have seen it a few times. It's a pretty cute idea if you like country style.

-Stella
princess_mimi
20 years ago
I have a clawfoot tub sitting in my yard waiting for spring. I'm going to plant it with white bubbly looking flowers and put a water feature in the drain end that will look like a shower. I love cottage gardens and have all kinds of "junk" sitting around in mine!

~~Mimi
williamsburgjane
20 years ago
Ouch! But glad to hear it isn't as bad as it could have been. Hope you can post some pictures. I had never heard of a "soaking tub" until the other day. Is it like he old fashioned bigger bath tubs we used to have around?
marilyn_c
Original Author
20 years ago
Ashi, my husband is the same way with the tractor. When he mows, something always gets "sacrificed". I had planted live oak trees on the graves of two of my cats. I chose live oaks because everyone loves live oaks, and I figured if we ever sell this place, no one would cut down the live oaks. Well, he did...said he didn't see them. Fortunately, both came back up, but when he mows, I have to be out there watching or something else will be lost...if only a garden hose or whatever. I figure the way I will meet my demise eventually is when he runs over a chunk of concrete or a brick, and it is thrown and hits me in the head. I don't think he is doing these things on purpose...we really don't have any money...so no reason to want me dead.

The tub looks just like this one in this thread at the bathroom forum. Mine is old, and close to 6' long. I wish it was a little deeper, but this will be okay....at least I can stretch out and soak.

By the way, yesterday I saw a green toilet at a junk shop. I am going to see about it tomorrow. It is kind of jadite green. I think it will go okay with my white tub, and I have a friend whose mother paints sinks and they fire them in a kiln, so I will get her to paint a sink for me using some jadite green colors...like leaves, and maybe some pink roses. I was told that you can buy new "guts" for old toilets. I don't think this one is antique...but it is kind of unique. I just love junk.

Here is a link that might be useful: Bathtub
ashli
20 years ago
The first house we bought, many years ago, was an old fixer-upper in town. In the small bathroom sat this huge bathtub with sides that curved over and fancy claw feet.
We could of taken it with us when we finally bought a house outside of the city limits, but I chose to leave it, along with many other items...that I have since regretted leaving.
(throw out the old...bring in the new!) My standard size tub can't compare with soaking in that old one.
When I first saw your post, it reminded me of another one that I read about. I was just looking for plants on the net when a link brought me to GardenWeb...and some were writing about a funny post they had read and were asking if anyone had saved it...it was called, "He meant well"...about people's "unusual" decorations in their yards...seems there were over a hundred replies to that one...I would like to read them...Anyone remember that post?

Well, his heart was in the right place....

Comments (9)

Cheri_C

marilyn_c
Original Author

Related Discussions

Cheri_C

ashli

stella_2006

princess_mimi

williamsburgjane

marilyn_c
Original Author

ashli

COMPANY

BUSINESS SERVICES

GET HELP

CONNECT WITH US

Well, his heart was in the right place....

Comments (9)

Cheri_C

marilyn_cOriginal Author

Related Discussions

Cheri_C

ashli

stella_2006

princess_mimi

williamsburgjane

marilyn_cOriginal Author

ashli

COMPANY

BUSINESS SERVICES

GET HELP

CONNECT WITH US

marilyn_c
Original Author

marilyn_c
Original Author