What to do?
Hi, I am looking for some advice... I have now been with my boyfriend for 1 year and he has a 5 year old girl from previous relationship. No contact issues and she is a very happy little girl, the mother is brilliant and I have bonded with the little girl very well.
My boyfriend has now turned around and said he doesn't think he wants any more children in the future as he is worried it will have an impact on his current child and he would feel too guilty setting up a 'new family'. He is also scared that he will be in the same situation again in the future i.e has a child not with the mother.
We would not be thinking about children for another 4 -5 years and I honestly think his opinion will change once she has grown up and the ex has probably set up another family of her own.. I am worried that I may be waiting for something that is never going to happen. I honestly do want children but I love my boyfriend and couldn't imagine my life without him.