Stepmom's storytelling
Hey, I've got another issue that I could use some advice on.
As a background, my stepmother and I never got along. She had a lot of issues when her and my father got married, had a lot of children but couldn't take care of them and they were left to me to take care of.
Anyway, throughout recent years she has started to become a bit more balanced.
And now, she is rewriting history or trying to. In family settings, she will bring up things that happened in the past and lie about her involvement or lack of. Her children were too young at the time to remember and of course, my father doesn't care to correct her or doesn't want to rock the boat. Anyway, it's one thing at family gatherings, it still hurts but doesn't affect me one way or the other. It is probably a reason why the younger children treat me the way they do, but I hope in time they will be able to see for themselves.
Anyway, the big problem is in professional settings. My father and I are in the same professional circle. Two weeks ago we were at a dinner party where she started this story telling again. One, I can't understand why she brings these things up, it is a professional atmosphere. However, I do realize she is socially awkward and has never had a professional career, so on some level I feel bad for her. And two, these aren't always harmless stories. There is usually something in it to embarass me or to degrade me. Such as the first time I got my period. Not to mention it brings up hurtful memories, because the first time I got my period her delusional self took me to the doctor to make sure I was still a virgin.
So, any advice? I'd like to nip it in the bud without stooping to her level.
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