Peace lilies are INDOOR plants; house plants in other words - household light conditions are generally adequate. They will overheat and wilt in direct sunlight. If the soil is moist, it should perk up on it's own and not need watering again until either the foliage starts to droop slightly or the soil feels dry when you insert a finger to at least the first knuckle. Over watering is not a good thing for this plant either.

Sounds like time to separate Summer_Rose -- Not from Greg, but from your parents. You're now a grown adult with a full share of adult responsibilities. And when your parents ask you for money and it puts you behind on your own bills, that makes it really hard for you in turn not to ask them for money when you're low. A vicious circle that someone has to break. Next time they make some comment about growing up or being more responsible or being more independent or taking money from them or not taking money from Greg -- and that shouldn't be too long -- Take that as your springboard, and tell them "You're right -- From now on, I'm going to be financially independent. Totally! No more of this borrowing back and forth. When you said I shouldn't mix up my finances with anyone else, you were right. No more borrowing and no more lending for me." Refuse to listen to any arguments, repeating only variations on the "You're right -- no more mixing" theme. Then stick to it. Next time they hit you up for a loan, tell them you can't do that and still meet your own commitments, and how much you'd hate to let them down by failing to live up to your responsibilities. I totally agree with Vicky about Greg's apology to your parents. They were both wrong, but between the two sides, he seems to be "the bigger person" -- so lob the ball back into their court. If you want, you could tip your parents off that since Greg is the man you want to spend the rest of your life with, they may want to make an effort to mend fences.

I will not have to worry about talking to my boyfriend before tomorrow nite so I will keep thinking on it and decide what to do. I am just worried cuz so many people think my dog would not be acting like this unless my bf did some thing to him. My dog is my most responsibility and I take it very serious and want to do the right thing. Deb18 I am glad you did not listen to your dog and fell in love and got married. Munkos I did give my dog less attention for a while but I am back to his routine. We walk 3 times a day and my landlord walks him too. We have a very long walk in the evening and if my boyfriend is here he goes too so it is not like my dog is getting forgotten. I take my dog every place besides work but on Saturday nites I do go off without him but I always have. I take my dog shopping to the park to friends house. I live in a small town and everybody knows my dog and he can go almost every place except for like the doctor office. I am not going to talk to my brother about it cuz if he seems happy I would dump my boyfriend it will hurt me and I might not forgive him just yet. Munkos I did talk to my boyfriend about my dog not liking him and he does not know why and has tried to make friends with him again and I am hoping that he really did not do something to my dog and is not telling me. Yes I am young but not that young. I am 23 but have a developmental disorder and I hate that you can see it in my writing which I do really well at but I know what guys want. And if I am leader of the pack my dog will always be beside me. He is my life but I do have fun having a boyfriend.

Your BF never should have gotten into a relationship until he had worked out the issues he had with his ex-wife. It's not fair to you, him, or his daughter who is emotionally invested in you now. I suggest looking into getting him some kind of counseling. Meanwhile, while it is real easy to place all the blame on the ex-wife, just remember there are two sides to every story. I mean, many many people are emotionally and physically abused and yet they are able to start new relationships and are able to utter the words "I love you" with no problem. So it just seems a little too convenient to blame the ex-wife for all the hurtful things your BF says and does. This post was edited by Amber3902 on Fri, Feb 15, 13 at 18:27