the perfect home in the not so perfect neighborhood...???????????
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16 years ago
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Comments (26)Ahhh, the question to end all questions. I am househunting as well, and have asked myself the same question many times, so I don't know that I have the best answer for you. Plus you factor in the differences in opinion between the family members and that makes it even more complicated. It is different for every person out there that is house hunting based on their needs. Here is one thing that helped me a bit when my mom pointed it out based on something that I said about one particular house....think of how you live and your day to day activities. Now think of doing all that in that house. How does it work? Are you struggling to find a place to put your coat and shoes without a coat closet? Is that important to you? Are your kids bikes in the way of backing out your car when want to navigate that tight driveway? When you wake up in the morning, do you want to have a quiet place away to drink your coffee and check your email like that loft? Or will that just be wasted space that you feel that you have to furnish and wont ever use? If you want to have children, what happens with the 3 bedroom thing? What if your teen kids don't want to share? Just sit back and imagine yourself living there. Reality is, some things will drive some people crazy, when it is embraced by somebody else. The house hunt is obviously filled with give and take, but what matters the most is what works for you....See MoreHow to find the perfect house
Comments (10)Go ahead and send out the e-mail, telling them that you are not interested in anything that does not meet your specific qualifications. Tell them the specifics. Try to be as specific as possible. You might mention that you would consider buying ONLY if something meets the following requirements..... be specific. Tell them that you are not going to buy anything that does not fit those requirements. And ask for the addresses to do a "drive by" of any houses they suggest. Many can be dismissed simply by looking at the outside. Especially if you are looking for a specific type of house. I would also call a realtor and aks them if they have a VA list. The VA (Department of Veteran's Affairs) guarentees loans for the military and when a loan would go into forclosure steps in and pays the loan off, then resells the house for the payoff amount. There's a bit more involved than that, but.... they are not on the MLS and unless specifically asked, I have not had a realtor mention a VA home. They also may not even have a realtor sign outside. Generally only a 8x11 sheet of paper in a front window. Is it worth a shot? Definately. The realtors make their money on rentals each month and a larger amount the first month they rent it, so they may be willing to flip through their listings to see what would fit your requirements. Personally, I feel that the realtor is working for you. If they are not willing to work with you, and your needs, then I don't think that they need the $$ for a commission. We have only signed with a realtor when they have found a house that we wanted to buy. I made it clear that I had contacted other realtors, and if they found a house and contacted us first, that we would go with them. I'm not playing around. I'm not willing to go to every inappropiate house in town. I'm also not looking to waste their time, which is why I ask for the addresses and check out the house first. Perfect is relative. Knowing what you want and those things on which you are willing to compromise is essential. I have never sent out an e-mail, but I have made the phone calls. IMO it is fairly easy to ignore an e-mail, harder for someone on the telephone, and almost impossible in person. Rentals, as far as I know, are handled by individual companies, and are not shared between different offices. The owner of the house is under contract with a specific office, and there is no incentive for others offices to rent their houses out for them. No $$ to the realtor who rents another office's house. Good luck. Mil...See MoreNot-so-perfect glass tiles, grouted.
Comments (18)Thanks everyone! The architect insisted on the windows above the cabinetry. He wanted to make sure we had maximum natural light. And, I think it really helps. In hindsight, I may have tried to go with ceiling height cabinets, but I've got some ideas on how to decorate the space that don't involve ceramic chickens and fake ivy, so I think it'll end up being cool. We had our flooring all picked out. It was supposed to be a very monotone bluish-gray slate. BUT, it ended up being backordered, so we've switched to a Brazilian slate that is a lot more multicolored. I was a little nervous about adding another texture/color to the room, but we've got about half of it installed and it looks great and kind of gives something 'earthy' to balance the glass and granite sleekness. I'll get some pics when it is all installed. The floorplan is really open. I wanted to be able to see through the diningroom to the view outside, so we have separated the areas with just the peninsula cabinets. The cabinets are cherry made by KraftMaid in the cinnamon color. We wanted something that would match the redish-oak colored furniture we've got. The doors are a shaker style, but I'm not sure what it was called exactly. The cabinets are really nice. But, we had designed the house for custom cabinetry, so figuring out how to make the standard pieces 'fit' the island was a huge chore. Thankfully, my father in law is a great carpenter. We fell in love with the way the seafoam green granite looked with the cherry cabinets and picked the backsplash, paint and flooring based on them. I don't know exactly what type of door hardware we are going to do. We had originally though black, but we may go stainless. I'm not sure right now, but we'll be picking something next week (I may need your input!). The pendant lights are blue/green mason jars. They fit really well with our modern farmhouse feel. I probably went a little overboard on putting them over the peninsula also, but I like them. The sink is the 39" double bowl Shaw sink. It's gorgeous. Today the plumber installed the drain and garbage disposal...and no cracking! Thank goodness. Another worry wiped off the list....See MorePoll: perfect house
Comments (21)Great point made my beth4. I was watching a video of myself made 20 years ago in our first house. The kitchen was functional but ugly, the family room dark and old fashioned, even for that time. But you know, it was our first home and we were in love with it. We knew we would need to make updates, but we also were fine with living in the house the way it was, for as long as we needed to save, in order to make updates. And we aren't talking about MAJOR work. Over the next 8 years we stripped wallpaper, changed our flooring, painted and repaired and added on to a deck. Granted we did remodel the kitchen right before we sold, but it was an inexpensive remodel that hardly made a dent in our finances. My teenaged daughter (who was born after we sold the house) was horrified as she watched the video with me and could not believe I would be willing to live in such an "old" looking house. My, how things have changed. Yes, a lot of this has to do with the remodeling industry. But I also think that we were in a different place (before the most recent crash) economically as a country, than we were 20-25 years ago. We had about two decades of prosperity, incredibly escalating real estate values and the mindset that things would continue this way. In 1994, when we sold that old house we made a puny $35,000 profit on the sale ( after owning it for 8 years). In the following two years, our new home increased in value over $100,000! With such a rapid escalation, it no longer seemed a stretch to start pouring money into our homes and making them our own "mini-castles." After all, we knew we would get every penny back and even more. Why not remodel and enjoy the results AND make a profit? It was a no brainer. That no longer is the case. However, we still haven't been able to give up the mindset of the booming past. The younger generation grew up in perfectly updated surroundings and they are the ones now looking to purchase their first homes. They aren't willing to compromise because of the way they grew up. They don't know anything different. So we have created our own monster. I think we have entered a period of time in home ownership where there are no set answers and uncertainty overwhelms us all. Of course you do not spend money on a house if you don't have the money to spend. That is what got us into this mess in the first place. Today, I am 5 years away from paying off my mortgage and still have many, many years before I hit retirement age. My house is still worth a considerable amount more today than when I purchased it. I do not feel guilty about spending money to remodel that home. But then again, I can AFFORD to remodel. If we live within our means, the quality of our lives becomes inmeasurably improved. Hopefully, we can instill that idea into younger generatation. Jeez, what a rambling message this has been. Sorry....See Moretheroselvr
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