I have already been deactivated, but I don't use it and would like to be sure it is removed from their listings or whatever they do with it. Jodi, I tried that, but it is still showing just the very tops of the letters in that row. I tried clicking on those bits of the letters, but it is just not enough to make the connection.

No I am not at all upset with you and I have not even said he was a beast, and yes I have admitted this is childish without question. Unfortunately we got along great for the most part of the first 17 years so I do believe I know how to treat someone when I am in a relationship as he had a breif affair when we were married almost 6 years and we survived it and came out stronger. I do not feel that he deserves respect when he is disrespecting me. In life what goes around comes around, I would never normally behave in this way but I am truly hurt by all this and I guess lashing out without it causing a big scene. My sister in law is furious with his actions and can't believe the fact that I haven't freaked. I am unaware of your marital status but have re-read your first post and don't know too many hubby's who would say ok honey let's go to the computer, when they are hiding stuff. For instance my hubby had a conversation during his lunch on facebook with his (fake..my acct.)ex-fiance while texting lovey dovey crap to my cell. I have no problem letting him go if that is what he wants but why play both sides of the coin. I do plan on telling him again cause he obvisiously doesn't get it that I am fine with this. I have held so much in through this time that I have made many wrong decisions. I truly believed when he bought me my SUV in March that he did want this marriage and I would have wholeheartedly gave it my all but it only took 2 weeks for me to see that he wanted to be single at least on his facebook. Please do not think for a minute that I do not love this man...as I truly do but I can not continue with this hurt and therefore I need to be gone. Am I going about it properly no but I do have the right to treat him as I have been treated...I know 2 wrongs don't make a right.

Hi again. This has been a good, well-rounded conversation. Other than a little concern on privacy issues, I liked Facebook. Take that for what it is worth from someone who was there less than two weeks. LOL. My personal experience was "you don't know if it's for you until you try it" and realizing that I prefer smaller, more intimate groups. As to wondering if there were any problems occuring with deactivation, I had read of those who continued getting email, especially ads. Thanks to those who said how much they love it. That is quite understandable if your family is spread far and wide; mine is not, we are fortunate to have most everyone very close at hand, easy for us to visit each other or to pick up the phone. That is far from true for most today. Am also not interested in the games features. Thanks also for the info on deletion. Admittedly, I did not know that deactivation did not mean all my information would be gone and appreciate knowing that. This is a great place for hearing all angles and allowing one to make more informed decisions. You are all terrific!

Oh, you'd be surprised at how much info Facebook can glean from you, even if you don't use it much: I Downloaded the Information That Facebook Has on Me. Yikes. NY Times by Brian X. Chen April 11, 2018 When I downloaded a copy of my Facebook data last week, I didn’t expect to see much. My profile is sparse, I rarely post anything on the site, and I seldom click on ads. (I’m what some call a Facebook “lurker.”) But when I opened my file, it was like opening Pandora’s box. With a few clicks, I learned that about 500 advertisers — many that I had never heard of, like Bad Dad, a motorcycle parts store, and Space Jesus, an electronica band — had my contact information, which could include my email address, phone number and full name. Facebook also had my entire phone book, including the number to ring my apartment buzzer. The social network had even kept a permanent record of the roughly 100 people I had deleted from my friends list over the last 14 years, including my exes. There was so much that Facebook knew about me — more than I wanted to know. But after looking at the totality of what the Silicon Valley company had obtained about yours truly, I decided to try to better understand how and why my data was collected and stored. I also sought to find out how much of my data could be removed. Full article: https://www.nytimes.com/2018/04/11/technology/personaltech/i-downloaded-the-information-that-facebook-has-on-me-yikes.html?hp&action=click&pgtype=Homepage&clickSource=story-heading&module=first-column-region&region=top-news&WT.nav=top-news ======= After reading this article, I used the download tool and it was quite eyeopening. I use FB very rarely; have maybe contacted 3 people directly in 10 yrs. I have nothing personal posted on FB, not a photo or birthdate, no employment or personal history. I have used FB to sign in on perhaps a dozen websites at different times - and in fact, there is one forum that I participate in that can only be accessed through a FB or Google log-in. In just a 15-second look: - 314 advertisers downloaded my contact info, including: * Top Kickstarter Games - I never play games. Ever. On anything. * HolyClothing - Never heard of 'em, and altho I buy clothing by mail, that's not a brand name or website I recognize. * Tabletop Games Crowdfunding Videos * John Chiang (Dem currently running for CA governor) * Sears PartsDirect - Haven't dealt with Sears in 10 yrs since I bought one range from them. * Americans for Prosperity - Florida. Sounds GOP or right wing. Not gonna win any votes from this lifelong Dem. Note my info was also downloaded by the same organization but from Mississippi, Alaska, Arkansas, Montana, Nebraska, New Jersey, New Mexico, Kentucky, New Hampshire, North & South Dakota, Georgia, Tennessee. * AFP Foundation - Mississippi. Umm.....Mississippi?!? Seriously? The furthest South I have gone in the US is New Mexico, LOL. * Chandini Chowk. No idea. * Jewel-Osco. Could have sworn they aren't in CA at all, but who knows? * IPad Pilot News. We have no Apple products at all. * Affordable Pharmacy Action Network. No need, we belong to Kaiser which provides all medications for $10 a refill. All of them - no exceptions. * A New Missouri. Don't care about the old one, and won't be visiting the new one either, LOL. * New England Regional Council of Carpenters. Oh, I loved this one....don't live in NE, hardly ever visit (2x in 35 yrs) so why would I need a carpenter? * Protect Dialysis Patients. Sure thing....just explain to me, exactly what are we protecting them FROM? * Pennsylvania Coalition for Civil Justice Reform. I'm all in on this one, too. Do they let Californians vote for reforming Pennsylvanians? Ah, such power! Okay, I'm being rather facetious here; but you must admit, you'll probably find some equally strange names in YOUR Facebook records if you use their "archive download" tool!