ajwillys: What do you think of the brick on the upper right? It's one of the red ones--but darker as it's a flash brick with some charcoal around it? DH and I are leaning towards that one. lamalu: I didn't think about using the bricks in a pattern as there is variation in the stone itself; but your idea sounds interesting. I wish I could visualize the overall effect better. Maybe I have to pick out more bricks! I also am concerned about bringing in too strong a red color, at the same time want some contrast to the bluestone. Is there a rule a thumb about patterning bricks--like a set of three. We like the red brick on upper right, then there is a grey one and after that?? Anyone else like the idea of using more than one color brick?

I had my only grandchild every weekend until she started school and became involved in activities. I never hear from my daughter or grandchild. I asked why she doesn't come to my house any more (she's 8) and she replied, "She doesn't like the long drive" (30 minutes away) However, she can drive to her aunt's home (father's side of family) which is 1 hour away. I find this very strange, as we have always had a good relationship. I live alone and am the caregiver for my mother, so it is very difficult to get away, not knowing when they are home (both work in town). The father's mother has always been there raising the child from birth. They come and go daily for meals and or whatever else they need. We have always exchanged gifts at Christmas and I treat them both the same. This year, I didn't even get a thank you nor the usual gift card that has been given in the past. This might sound petty but I am telling you this to show how distant they have become. I'm not in their business and on the rear occasion when I do talk to my daughter about activities of my grandchild, the activity is on that day or has past. It appears the only communication is on Facebook and this is only when she wants something. It's like I'm on F/B so I must be OK. She's not involved with any family activities on our side of the family. It's just beyond me. I am considering just cutting her out of my life because it is so hurtful....am I wrong to do this.

Thank you! Emily, I can promise you they are not going anywhere. They've all been redone (by me) - new wires, hangers, etc. I questioned DD2 about it when she said she wanted the pictures over the crib. The bed is now pulled out from the wall about a foot, so if something does fall, it falls between the wall and the crib. imo, the abacus would be more tempting for a toddler to reach for - which I addressed farther up. Thank you for your concern. When I was 19yo, I hung a huge antique mirror over my bed. Mom about had a cow. Said she was going to get "the call." lol

marti, Personally, I wouldn't put any additional beams on. I know what you are saying, you think it is missing those beams, but I think it emphasizes the main focal point in the room if you don't put those dark side beams on that back wall, it leads your eyes right towards the fireplace. The fireplace is the focal point, not the ceiling. But, you know what, it's your home, and if it really bothers you, put them up if you think it would look better. Beautiful room by the way.