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An update on DH's grandfather (and another story...)

17 years ago

Thanks everyone for your prayers for DH's grandfather. He is doing GREAT. He had his ventilator removed earlier this week and hasn't shut up since. He's a bit dilusional at times, but other times, he's sharp as a knife. They were able to drain some of the fluid off his lung and was taken out of ICU yesterday. Not sure when he'll be coming home, but probably soon. They've arranged to have a caretaker at home with him 24 hours a day so his 87 year old wife doesn't have to take care of him. She is relieved for that.

And another story I keep thinking about. This bothers me so much. When we went to visit the other day, I noticed a very large family around the ICU waiting area. They were all distraught and looked worried. I later found out their story. Their elderly grandmother had a heart attack over the weekend and wasn't expected to live. Her DH was so upset, he said he couldn't live without her. He shot and killed himself in the ER back parking lot. His wife/the grandmother is not pulling through and going to be fine. She keeps asking where her husband is and they hadn't told her yet. This story just breaks my heart. I can't imagine...poor family.

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