Is there anybody in the indiannapolis area that can help my son?

16 years ago

My son is there waiting to start a job tomorrow and he is in the Lebanon area. He is stuck, and broke and hungry.

Poor kid, he really tries hard, and he is a good boy, I just hate when they need me and I can't be there to help. Thankfully he is in a motel, and has a paid roof over his head and a hot shower while he works. He does not get his travel money until Thursday. Does anybody in the area know of a place he might go to get a hot meal. Is there a loaves and fishes in the area or a salvation army depot?

I know it is Sunday, so many of these places may be closed.

He knows nothing about the area, and needs a guiding hand.

Trin

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monica_pa Grieves
16 years ago
Why is he traveling without any credit card or money?
Certainly he must have known that he wasn't getting any travel money until later in the week.
How was he going to buy gas for his car?

You could always call his hotel and have his charges put on your credit card.
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kathi_mdgd
16 years ago
Don't use western union to wire him money,too expensive!! You can wire him money thru wal mart for 11.46 for up to 200.00.They will give you a receipt with a # on it,call him ,give him the # and tell him to be sure to have his ID with him when he goes to pick it up.Easy,peasy.
Good luck to him.
Kathi

BTW,when you wire thru wal mart it's at the other store instantly.You do need to know the town and hopefully the zip code of the town he's in.Also it's cheaper than overnight mail or western union.
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patti43
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No help, just wanted to give you a (((trinity))). You must be so worried about him. Hope he can find some help to tide him over. How old is he?
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gwanny2three
16 years ago
I'm with Patti43....the feeling of not being able to help your child at any age is awful, no matter what the situation. I'm sure there is a reason for not being prepared for this. It doesn't make it any easier for you being so far from him and helpless. I hope you got some food or money to him by now. Good luck to him!
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whidbeykathy
16 years ago
I know Trin..my boys were the same. They never want to worry Mom until you find out the kid isn't eating and has zero $ in his pocket.
Wire him some money, tell him you love him and are so proud of him starting a new job. Then nag him next time you see him! and then hide $$ in his backpack.. Kathy
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good36
16 years ago
I feel for you, I would be the same way. We never want our kids to be without anything do we?

You can order Pizza right on line from Pizza hut! I am sure there are lots of other places to do so. Maybe he can find a hotel with a free breakfast. Otherwise maybe have some food delivered from a major grocery store chain. They might be willing to help.
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pattico_gw
16 years ago
Well Trinity.....Did you get some food or money to him???

Just thinking about it and wondering.

patti
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trinitytx
Original Author
16 years ago
I can't thank everybody enough for all your kind words, and understanding the situation without harshness. I remember well the days of being without a car or a place to call my own. It only made me stronger and more compassionate for others. No one ever wishes for hard times, and I am proud to say that if my son can do nothing else, he is a hard worker, and will go to any lengths to work wherever the work is at. He is not lazy, not even close, but hard times do fall and help is sometimes needed.

I would like to say that there is a K.T angel among us. I won't call anyone out, but I received an email this afternoon that brought me to tears.
This angel has offered to help my son get what he needs until he gets back on his feet. You know who you are and you will always hold a special place in my heart. Thank you for your kindness.

Trin

Trin
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gwanny2three
16 years ago
That is so nice of whoever you are! Angels do lurk around here! Glad someone was able to do something for him. We shouldn't be here to judge or ask how and why! Good for you whoever you ARE!
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minnie_tx
16 years ago
Three cheers for the KT Angel!!!
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patti43
16 years ago
Good to know there are so many good friends here. Know you must be relieved and God bless the KT'er who is helping your son. You REALLY are an angel!
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Mickey15
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Ditto to what patti43 said.
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liz
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just another reason as to why after 10 years...I still call this place THE best place on the entire WWW!!
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pattico_gw
16 years ago
Thank you to that Angel...

I know of another one who offered to help my grandson when he was stuck in Tex. I think of that every now and then...
Thanks to another "you know who you are" the offer was much appreciated.

Some here just take the extra step...

patti
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nodakgal
16 years ago
What a wonderful person! I don't need to know a name to say thank you to someone who must be very special!!! I'm glad you found some help for your son Trinity!!

There are some mighty fine people here at the KT.
I've met a few angels here also over the years!!!
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hale_bopp
16 years ago
Wow! I got chills just reading about the KT Angel. :) Thanks to that special person!

Blessings,
Haley
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dirt_yfingernails
16 years ago
Brings tears to my eyes. I know how much I'd worry if it were my son. Thanks from a mom to the KT angel!
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sandy_in_ia
16 years ago
WOW! That is why the KT is just the greatest place!! I have seen some of these wonderful KT Angels too! Some I have never met...and some don't even understand what they have done me/family!! What a great place this is!!
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grammahony
16 years ago
Oh wow. I know your relieved trinity. Blessings and hugs to the angel among us. And thank you too.
Leslie
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tannatonk23_fl_z9a
16 years ago
There most definitely are angels among us and I'm so glad one found you Trin! Best wishes to your son. He sounds like a fine young man.

~Betsy
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jenni_ca
16 years ago
Isn't it nice to know that there are people here who will help without asking why he is in this situation.
Things will work out for him and he will get back on his feet. He just needed a little assistance for now and he's getting it.
When you talk to him be sure to tell him that there are alot of 'KT aunties' wishing him well!
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deemarie5500
16 years ago
What a blessing this site is. So glad there was an angel to feed and comfort your son.

[[[[[[[[[[HUGS]]]]]]]] and prayers to all who need them today.

Dee
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trinitytx
Original Author
16 years ago
I just spoke to my son, and wanted to share this.
He wanted to know how I knew so many people all over...I did my best to explain the K.T. and all the people that reached out to help him.
He was at a truck stop with some of the work crew, and said " Mom, I am going to call you later, I am fixin to cry"
He has been touched by all of you.

Trin
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grammahony
16 years ago
Awww Trin, that's touching. Lots of prayers for a good outcome in his job.
Leslie
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Linda Wayman
16 years ago
Trin, I'm so glad someone was nearby to help your son. The nicest people hang out here.
Linda
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grinch_gut
16 years ago
That is why the KT is the best place ever!! And with him I guess traveling trust me...with Brian on the road we use the walmarts to send money alllll the time. IT is cheaper then Western Union and faster I think.....minutes.....Also there is a card you can fill out (I believe the company is called money gram) for frequent users and it gives you a little bit of a discount. Hugs to the Angel...Stacy
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Jamie_MS
16 years ago
From another Mom whose son is away from home.... special blessings to the angel that was able to help this young man. I hope blessings come back to you triplefold!
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tannatonk23_fl_z9a
16 years ago
Sounds like good karma all around! We all benefit from random acts of kindness!

~Betsy
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noocha
16 years ago
Just wondering about these 2 posts about people in need. People that we don't know. And the different reactions to these 2 situations.
I'm not saying either one of these situations are scams or put-ons. Just showing the different responses to them.

Here is a link that might be useful: different?
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Mystical Manns
16 years ago
Trinity, I'm so very relieved for your son, and echo your heartfelt THANK YOU to the KT Angel.
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Mickey15
16 years ago
Noocha, I would say the difference is that Trinity has been at the KT for a long time and many of us have known her from here for years. Even though we haven't met her in person, we know her on a different level and it's different than giving money to a complete stranger who we've never had contact with before. That's my take on it anyway.

Tammy
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paulawin
16 years ago
Difference is a complete stranger

and someone people feel connected to via the internet

quite simple,yes?
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nodakgal
16 years ago
Mickey15 hit the nail on the head!
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Linda Wayman
16 years ago
noocha ~ Trin has been here a lot longer than I and we do feel we know her. If she has ever been to a get together there are several people that would know her personally. If a family member of a regular KT poster had a relative in my area who was stranded I would gladly help out.

I have helped out strangers in the past, but the longer I live the more I hear about con artists. If a stranger approached me in a store asking for money to help purchase medicine I would have probably told them I couldn't help them; I'm not sure. After reading the other thread someone mentioned going to the pharmacy with the person to help pay for the medication. If I had the means to help I think that would have been a wonderful idea. I honestly don't know if I would have thought to do it though. I'll keep it in mind in case that ever does happen to me.
Linda
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talley_sue_nyc
16 years ago
also, note:

Trinity didn't ask for a cash handout. She asked if anyone knew of a soup kitchen, salvation army, etc.
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lynn_d
16 years ago
Isn't that wonderful!! There are so many really good people in this world. Thank you to whomever helped this young man and did not judge him. Trinity, how is he doing now?
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curlysue
16 years ago
My son is also far from home and I would like to think that someone would be there for him if for any reason I couldn't be. Bless our angel (one of many here at the KT)
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gwanny2three
16 years ago
Ditto Tammy!

I just think it's so nice to know we can turn to the KT to help in a time of need....that someone here would care enough to help without question or judging how he ended up this way. What a great place to hang out! I love this place, just for this reason! Just prayers and kind words make someone's day so much brighter! The question's and judging can make one afraid to come back and there is no need for it if it's a well known person around here and not a lurker trying to scam us.
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whidbeykathy
16 years ago
You said it gwanny! Perfectly as a matter of fact..Kathy
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sheilajoyce_gw
16 years ago
My son and his friends were out in our old family van on a month long band tour of the Southwest. They were trying to launch their band, and were not even making gas money. They were in their early to mid 20s, and driving up and down hills in the very hot desert, the van gave out. They did not have that much money among them (of course) to pay for the repair, and a nice mechanic at the local garage fixed it for them free, seeing who they were. He too had a young son and understood their situation. That man was their angel too. Heaven bless him.
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glenda_al
16 years ago
Chiming in late.
KT'ers are just the bestest!
((((Trinity))), you are a very caring mom!
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noocha
16 years ago
I agree with all of you. There are some people on a quilting forum that I've never met but would definitely help if I knew they needed something. I just find it interesting that we are like that. A flesh & blood person stands in front of us needing help & we're questioning whether she's running a scam or not. Someone we can't see, don't know, can't hear tone of voice or see facial expressions asks for help - of whatever kind - & we jump in with all 4 feet to help. Don't you find that interesting? We trust the internet more than we trust our gut instincts with a real person standing in front of us? We don't even know whether these people are male, female, old, young, etc. on the net but we take their word for whatever it is they're saying.
Making an observation here.
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User
16 years ago
God Bless our KT Angel. It's all about community and taking care of each other, together. There is more kindness in this world, it just doesn't make headline news.
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trinitytx
Original Author
16 years ago
Hi everybody,
I am greatful to everyone who posts here, and although I do know some of you better than others, I consider this my family.
I completely understand that posts that seem to be "needy"
can be taken on several levels. There are so many scams out there now a days, that we are now more apt to look at the dark side of things more often. It is just human nature.
I can say with all of my heart, that I read your responses to noochas post with an overwhelming sense of feeling loved. You really do all know me well, and yes, I have been here for a long time, in fact one of my first posts was almost 6 years ago when my sons (same son) wife and daughter were in a car accident. His wife did not survive.
You did not know me from adam back then, but the outpour of
deep concern and sympathy was overwhelming. I knew from that day on, I had found my family. You all mean the world to me, and I would never think twice about getting in my car, or sending something big or small to help anyone here that I could help, be it them or any member of their family. That is what families do.
My son doesn't ask for help often, he has come a long way since 6 years ago, some good, some not so good, but I just
put out a cry for help, because I did not know what else to do. I was only looking for advice.
You all knew that, because you know me. And I know with positive certainty that I can post here anytime for help, or just fun, and we all are here for each other. That is what the K.T. is all about. Always has been, always will be.
My son is doing very well, and was truly touched by each and everyone of you. If nothing else, you have all taught him a valuable lifes lesson, that people do care, and want to help when they can. Even complete strangers. I hope he remembers this hardship and passes this lesson learned to someone that needs his help someday. I know he will.

Trin
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kacram
16 years ago
(((((((((Trin and son)))))))))

great news, trin
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Eliza_ann_ca
16 years ago
Thank God for angels!
I know that if it were my son,I would be frantic knowing he may be going hungry.God bless whoever has reached out with a helping hand.But for the grace of God,it could be any one of our children.
You sound like a very loving mother Trinity!
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Kathsgrdn
16 years ago
I'm glad someone stepped up to help your son.
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Pieonear
16 years ago
What a wonderful story. We all love happy endings and it serves to remind us all to continue to "pay it forward."
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kathi_mdgd
16 years ago
I'm also glad someone stepped up to help him.Angels walk among us!!
Kathi
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Happy_Go_Lucky_Gayle
16 years ago
OMG! This is the first time I've read this post. I've got tears running down my face.

God Bless our Angels! We all need to "Pass it On".

Gayle
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Is there anybody in the indiannapolis area that can help my son?

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