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Comments (14)Hi Candy, just had to try to post again . I have tried a couple of times, but then when I hit review message, I lost it. I can relate to how you were feeling so well. Like you, and I believe several of us, I am in my second marriage and can tell you from both experiences that men and women are totally different in what is important. My pet peave is my DH getting hungary about an hour before mealtime and making a sandwich )or 2 or3 lol) and then not being hungary when I get the meal ready, or going to tell him dinner is on the table only to find his truck or my car gone when he has just thought of something he needed from town or some other fool erand. We have had more words over this than just about anything else in our 19 years together. He knows when mealtime is and I feel like if I cook, he should respect my effort enough to be here when it is ready.Right know, with this dementia going on, sometimes I think he forgets that he has eaten. He is always hungery. he can get up from the table and walk outside and come back in and ask what we have to eat, he is starved. Hang in there, friend,it probably won't change, but knowing that most of us deal with the same issues should give you, and the rest of us a little feeling of not being alone. Love your springy table with the frogs and cattails. I have always loved cattails. Have then growing in a damp area of our yard up on the mountain. My SIL brought some jeans to me the other night to cut off and called me when she got home to tell me she heard Peap frogs at a pound down the road from my house on her way home.. maybe spring is on the way. I saw 2 robins in my yard this morn. We have had a mild winter, but I am still so ready for spring.TFS and although I haven't been posting lately, I still read every post. This is my go to spot when life gets to hard/ Thanks Candy and everybody else for being a bright spot in my days. Janet...See MorePity party is OVER-I'm a new mom!!!
Comments (6)Four years ago we went to get a female Mini-labradoodle. She was the runt of the litter, apricot in color. She was shy but very smart. My hubby went in the pen and squatted down - over comes one of the siblings - a black male. He "lays" himself over my DH who looks up at me and says, you should always take the one that picks you. Three hours and many dollars later, we signed contracts for both. It was our wedding anniversary so we gave each other a puppy. They are both here by me now. Andi, the female is still smarter (she's on the soft bed). Amos, her bro, is on the floor. They are the best natured dogs - always wanting to please and so loving. They are totally different in some ways - Andi will pull and tug on a toy. Amos has the soft mouth of a lab and will not tug but will retrieve a ball 1000 times a day if you throw it for him. Training two at once was interesting - to say the least but I wouldn't trade them for the world. Good luck with yours. Would love to see pics....See Morepity party
Comments (10)It sounds like DH should go without dinner and be sent to bed too. The more Dh tries to 'defend' this child, the more problems DH ends up causing. Dh is sending so many mixed messages to his son, why can't DH see this? That little smile behind dad's back towards you should be speaking volumes to DH, yet DH seems clueless to how he plays a major role in what is happening. And by running hot and cold with the child, hour to hour, day to day.....I don't suppose you could talk DH into a good parenting class? I think it may help if someone other than you helps 'teach' DH how to deal with the son, when it's coming from you the DH is just turning you into the bad guy. You're the guy trying to raise the boy into a functional well developed child/teen/adult and Dh's the one who turns to mush at the slightly sign of protest from the child. Is dad going to be lurking in the corners all this boy's life to jump out and make the bad guys (school, the boss, the future wife ect) stop picking on the child/man? Frankly, with the dinners, I think I might try compromising just a bit. For example, tonight I'd make dinner, cut the SS's food up at the counter prior to placing it in front of him (yeah, not necessary but one less thing to whine over and one less thing to get attention from dad to do--what the heck is dad thinking spoon feeding an 8 eight old!). Then I'd ignore if child was not eating and pretend to not notice or care, enjoy your meal and chatter with the girls. I'd do a dessert night with nice bowls of ice cream or whatever and serve it up to you, Dh and the girls who have eaten and when SS howls, simply say something about being sorry but kids who don't eat their dinner do not then eat dessert. Then excuse him from the table unless he decides to then start eating (if so he gets the belated dessert even if it takes an hour for him to choke that dinner down). But this would have no chance of sinking in as lesson unless DH grows a backbone and plays along. Daddy is not helping the situation when he turns to mush at the first sign of protest, the smiling child last night should have been like a club over father's head as in a wake-up call. This should not be to DH about defending son and chosing 'blood', this should be about a dad with kids who need parenting and he's failing them. With your DH's statement of defend and blood, I think it clearly shows DH looking for someone to blame for his lack of consistent proper parenting skills....See MoreEric's back (my rather long pity party)
Comments (10)Good luck, sweetie and I hope Eric feels a lot better today. Things are always worse at night, maybe you'll feel less worried and more optimistic today. It sure seems like you have a lot on your plates right now, but you're level-headed and smart and I'm confident you'll get thru this just fine. Smooch Stewie for me!...See More- 14 years ago
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