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17 years ago

My son wrote and asked that I share his thoughts with my friends, and since I consider you my friends :)

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Wed 12:46am

I just wanted bring some attention to an issue that I feel is important. This is year has been tough for everyone. The economy is in bad shape; jobs are scarce, money is tight, and the cost of living seems to be soaring. We all are feeling the pinch right now, but there is a segment of the population that is hit especially hard during these tough times.

Countless people will go hungry this holiday season because of the current economic crisis. The collapse of the housing and financial markets has created a situation where many have cut back on donating to organizations that help the needy. Often, during times like these, we ask ourselves how we can possibly make donations when we ourselves are feeling strapped? I would like to propose that each of you could make a difference in the lives of those who are in need by doing one simple thing. Donate food.

There are many non-perishable items that one can donate that cost about a dollar. The next time you go to the grocery store, pick up an extra can of tuna, corn, or beans and deposit them into the food bins that you see when you are on your way out of the store. Each item donated is a step toward helping a family have a nutritional meal. These families are struggling to make ends meet and rely on the good will of others to be able to pay their bills and keep roofs over their heads.

So please, if you buy a coffee or tea every day, consider forgoing that and using that money to buy a canned good for a hungry family. If you spend for lunch or dinner every day, try to find an item that is a little cheaper and see if you can use that savings to buy a jar of peanut butter or a box of muffin mix to be placed in a food bin. With each of us making a small donation to food deposits in our area, we can help to alleviate a major source of stress for those who are in need this holiday season.

Thank you.

~Gabriel

Comments (14)

  • 17 years ago

    Gabriel, This is very timely as we just returned from working a shift at our food bank which is affiliated with the national America's Second Harvest. I joined in 1998, and can say that I've never see such a depletion in supplies this early in the season.

    Thanks for your words encouraging everyone to chip in to help with hunger relief.

    Cathy

  • 17 years ago

    Gabriel,

    I agree with Cathy. It's very timely. DH & I worked at our local Food Bank on Thanksgiving delivering meals to people unable to physically attend the dinner. We also picked up two women without transportation, kept them company while they ate their meal, & saw them safely home.

    Our entire holiday budget has been donated to our Food Bank this year (I've made several posts here on the Forum about the severe need). I'm pleased to report that our community really pulled together this year & we were able to feed everybody wanting/needing a meal Thursday. We actually had enough food to send everybody home with doggie bags including pie.

    We need to keep giving throughout the year though...not just during the holiday season. People need food every day & our Food Bank is experiencing record requests. We'll start assembly on Christmas food baskets next week.

    /tricia

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  • 17 years ago

    I agree this is a real priority this year. We made a donation at the start of Nov. and will make another one this month. I'm telling family that this is what we are doing so there will be less gift giving.

  • 17 years ago

    Many of the clients at the food bank where DH and I volunteer live in old hotel or motel rooms rented by the week or month. No kitchen, no stove, occasionally a small microwave but usually a one or two burner hot plate for cooking.

    No spice rack, electric mixer, food processor, or most of the other appliances, cutlery, cookware, and condiments we use on a daily basis. Imagine that your kitchen consists of one burner, one pot, one frying pan, a couple of bowls and plates, a paring knife, a spatula and a big spoon to prepare all your meals.

    If you think about it in that perspective, donations that can be heated up or cooked in one pot are the most desirable - chunky soups or chili, canned vegetables or fruits. Hamburger or tuna helper of boxed mac and cheese are good choices because they can be cooked in one pan and that can of tuna can be added to it for protein.

    That's why many food banks may not seem as appreciative of a box of cake mix as they are of a can of SPAM. It's not always a case of the recipient not knowing how to cook certain items but rather living in a physical setting where it's just not possible.

    Please keep this in mind when you are purchasing items to donate to your local food banks. Thanks.

  • 17 years ago

    At DGS' high school, his family living class always goes out on a 'scavenger hunt' before Thanksgiving. And several of the other classes, the teachers will actually give extra credit to kids who bring stuff.

    I buy extra cans of tuna and extra 18-oz plastic jars of peanut butter. It doesn't cost me a lot to donate, and both are high-quality protein and can be eaten right out of the container, if need be. While it's true that these items aren't the usual Thanksgiving fare, there are several organizations that provide a free Thanksgiving meal. Thanksgiving is just one meal out of many.

    Another thing to think about is that if you have fruit trees in your yard and you do not put up the fruit, there may be places in your community that make a noon meal for people who would otherwise not eat, that would be most grateful for that fruit.

    Another thing that I would like to say is that some people go to those free dinners who can well afford to provide their own meal, or pay for one. So if anyone reading this is one of those people, please consider that you might be denying a meal to someone who hasn't eaten in several days.

  • 17 years ago

    Deborah, what a wise and kind young man you have there. You can be very proud of him.

    Two local churches sponor food drives. One leaves you a paper bag the week before Halloween and does a trick or treat for foood items, the other just nocks and asks right before T-Day. Both have told me they are seeing less in the bags.

    If your own wallet is tight, check your pantry for those "what was I thinking" items that are sitting there.

    And remember, many of the recipeints also have pets, so toss in some dog and cat foods too!

  • 17 years ago

    I for one had not thought about people living with only a hot plate, so will take that into consideration.
    And had never thought to provide pet food...what a terrific idea!!!!

  • 17 years ago

    We are doing something different this year. When I went in to pay my propane bill last week they had a small Christmas tree decorated with cards with names on them .The names were people who were having a hard time paying for their heating bill. ItÂs nothing real organized the girls in the office put it together. So I am paying half the bill for a woman about my age that lost her husband a few months ago. When he died she lost his pension and now only has social security. If I can help her stay in her house for the winter and give her time to figure out what to do I really feel like I helped someone.

    Claudia

  • 17 years ago

    Claudia that is a really great thing. Those girls are doing a lovely thing as long as the people know their name is on the tree. I would bet that some people would need and like the help but prefer to be anonymous. Or maybe they are using "pen names" for some of the people.

    I rarely give food donations, I give cash instead since I figure the food banks know the greatest need. But sometimes groups ask for food and then give a discount. I give tuna, peanut butter, nice jam, and things like jars of boullion. I figure many of these people not only don't have real kitchens but also have health problems that make cooking difficult.

  • 17 years ago

    I teach food/nutrition/cooking classes at our local Food Bank and I can say the struggle is real for many people. More often than not, the children are doing the food preparation and will attend the classes with a parent.

    If you have some good used kitchen towels or you have a penchant for knitting dish rags like I do, donate them to the Food Bank as well. You'd be surprised how many of those they give away as well. Any pans, foil pans, etc. will also be readily distributed.

    I've noticed at different times of the year it goes from mostly drug-abusers to families that are just down-on-their-luck, and the Food Bank helps EVERYONE. We've had a lot of layoffs in town, so the latter is now the larger user of the Food Bank right now.

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    When folks have tortillas (which they can get inexpensively) and can make the bean flour into "instant" refried beans, they have a "meal" that is a complete protein, filling, and easy to fix. I teach the bean flour class over and over....

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  • 17 years ago

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    I hope people remember the less fortunate this year. That one or two extra food items in your grocery cart can make a difference.

  • 17 years ago

    granjan.....

    I only know her first name and that she lives here in the valley. ItÂs anonymous on both sides she will never know who we are either.

    Claudia

  • 17 years ago

    I would be hesitant to give pet food. Mainly because there's so much in the news about people, especially the elderly, eating pet food themselves. I would be afraid, if I gave some, that the persons who put together the bags would leave them out for fear the recipient would misunderstand.

    When I was a kid we lived in a little town right on a busy highway and people were always dumping their cats in front of our house. We never bought pet food. They caught mice and we would give them scraps from our table. Now, dogs, I guess that would be another matter.

    I heard that the animal shelters were getting pets turned in to them right and left from people who couldn't afford to keep them.

    That might be something good to do, as well, to temporarily adopt someone's pet until the owner could get back on their feet. They'd know where their pet was and could visit, and there wouldn't be any danger that it would get euthanized. In hard times, giving up your much-loved pet is just another heartbreak. I don't know what I'd do if I had to do that. My dog came from a shelter and I think going back there would be misery for him. My cat is old and is afraid of other cats. They'd probably euthanize her right away. --Ilene

  • 17 years ago

    What a good reminder, Gabriel. We always donate food, as this is something that so obviously helps people in need. Yes, our local food banks have been depleted as well, because it seems like the need is so great this year. We used to write a check to Harvesters, but quit when they kept asking us relentlessly for money. I'd rather give them food instead, and have no trouble buying extra groceries to drop in the bin or leave at a drop-off.

    For those who might like to donate pet food, the local shelters will always appreciate anything you can give, whether it's cleaning supplies, bedding, food or toys.