Is it okay for cats to feel "off" after vaccines?
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Comments (9)Ricky's Best Pumpkin Pie Recipe This is the finest pumpkin pie recipe I have ever made. The original recipe (from a 1912 cookbook) used regular pumpkins, the cheese pumpkins used here have more meat and more real pumpkin taste! While you may have to do some searching to find cheese pumpkins, it's worth the effort. I have also increased the amount of spices and decreased the amount of milk to yield firmer pies. 2 cups strained and mashed pumpkin (use cheese pumpkins for the best results, 12" diameter) 1/4 cup maple syrup 1/4 cup dark brown sugar 1 egg beaten well 1/2 teaspoon ginger 1/2 teaspoon cinnamon 1-1/2 cups whole milk or 1 cup whole milk and 1/2 cup cream 1 9" diameter deep pie crust per pie Cut pumpkin in half (12" diameter) place inverted over a cookie sheet or large bowl. Heat in oven at 325 degrees or microwave on high until top starts to collapse (skin will turn dark brown) or steam in a lobster pot. Scrape out pulp and strain well. Allow to dry and cool before using! The drier the pulp the firmer the pie. A good quality food processor can be used to really mash the pulp into a smooth mixture otherwise chop and mash the pulp by hand. Mix syrup, sugar, egg, cinnamon and ginger together. Slowly add milk and blend well. Add pumpkin mixture and blend well. While the mixture is blending, sprinkle some cinnamon on the pie crust and let it bake in the oven for 5 to 10 minutes. Fill the pie shell to capacity and then bake at 325 degrees in 9" pie crust until firm, about 1 hour. Check to make sure the pie shell does not overcook. Cool on racks for 1 hour and then refrigerate. Pumpkin pie is best when refrigerated overnight and served cool. A regular 12" diameter pumpkin will yield 3 pies, a 12" diameter cheese pumpkin will yield 2 pies. Serve with fresh whipped cream!...See MoreOkay guys - off topic but please introduce yourselves...
Comments (31)Hello, It is really neat to read about everyone. I am feeling really young. I am 31, married and have 3 girls and 1 more on the way. I live in the country near Clay Center Kansas. I am an elementary teacher. This year I moved schools and moved up to Middle School Math. I grew up on a farm raising livestock (Cattle and Hogs) and crops. There was not enough $$$ on the farm to support more families, so I went my own direction. Now I am starting my own "farm" as my wife says. I have around an 1 acre garden. I grow alot of our produce for sale at 3 small farmers markets I attend. I started to make jellies to add to the produce that I sell. It also helps me use stuff that I don't sell or isn't perfect. I work very hard at what I do and enjoy every minute of it. I don't have a tractor, (I wish I did) and I am expanding every year. Everything is done by hand, usually mine. I get the kids involved as much as possible. They are great at somethings, but not everything. Next year I am putting up two hoopbuildings,(12 by 45ft each) to grow tomatoes and cucumbers in. I want to capture the most $ for my labor. I have time in June and July, but once August roles around, it is back to school and I don't have that much time to spend in the garden. I am not into gardening for the $$, I am into it for good produce and flavor. I also love to grow things that people have never seen before. Black tomatoes, Lemon Cucumbers, Chocolate Bell peppers, Strange Squash, etc, etc, etc. I usually don't sell lots of these things, but they do keep bringing people back. We have a small flock of chickens, started out as a 2nd grade chicken egg hatching project. Those chickens were some tough 'ol birds. We use alot of eggs and sell the rest at my market stand. Future plans? To continue the garden and probably expand by another 1/4 acre. Maybe try using floating row covers for squash. I enjoy gardening more and more. I wish I could do it full time year around. Kansas weather doesn't allow that to happen! I want to expand my pepper jellies and sell online and to local shops and I wish I could win the lotto so I could do it all. It just isn't possible or is it? I will still come back here and read about everyone and find new recipes to try. Thanks for the support and Keep up the good work! Jay...See MoreCat died days after teeth extracted
Comments (44)Had a routine check-up for my 14 yr. old cat, Chloe in Oct. Her blood tests were all normal, but she had gingivitis and needed some teeth removed. We felt we should do this and could prolong her life. Never were we told of what the consequences could be. She was perfectly healthy. Had good appetite and was loving her KD. She almost died 4 yrs ago, of some kind of poisoning. This could have affected her kidneys. They brought her back then. After surgery, they gave her the opiated meds, stayed over night, no antibiotics. She was lifeless when brought home. Two days later, I knew something was not right. She didn't move. Sat. we took her to vet again. They administered G-SubQ fluids, and noticed the suture had come out. So, they gave her antibiotics then and gave us the meds to take home. She was a basket case. They had said to give the pain meds 12hrs apart but after 7 hrs. at home they said give her more. We didn't want to but we did. By Sunday, she was still not responding. Brought her in again on Mon., they gave her fluids and more meds and this time a shot of anti-biotics that lasts 12 days. By Tues, we brought her in again and she stayed over night where they put IV in and did blood tests and had an ultra sound to see what was going on. They thought she had kidney stones blocking but it turned out to be an enlarged heart. How did this happen? We brought her home on Wed. and had questions for the Dr. Called 4 times and never returned a call. She had pooped and peed and we thought maybe thats a sign. We stopped giving her the opiate. We administered a different antibiotic they sent us home with. Meanwhile she had stopped eating the whole time. By this time we felt we should feed her through a syringe, since the vet never mentioned anything about feeding her. Later we gave her the fluids at home and then gave her the antibiotic they had given us. By this time she was lifeless. Thurs., and Fri came and went. No call from the vet asking how she was doing, NOTHING!! We were on our own. Chloe passed Sat. morning peacefully at 4am. She became so weak couldn't even stand.We were with her till her last breath. We are so sick now. We brought her in to prolong her life and this is what happened. Never did they tell us what the consequences could be. Doing research now and the opiate meds they gave her, say not to give to cats with kidney problems. I feel they overmedicated her and gave her the wrong meds. She was great before we brought her in. Had a healthy appetite, showed nothing of any pain. Still no word from the VET!! I think they know what they did. I truly believe this was malpractice. We miss her so much. It's so hard....See MoreIs it okay to just not feel any connection to a step-child?
Comments (63)There is a colossal barrier to bonding in stepfamilies, and that is the expectation to share and possibly lose a primary family member to a complete stranger. It often causes tremendous fear and hesitation. That fear manifests in rejection or the unwillingness to accept the new person, on either side. Nobody seems to know how to talk this out, so everyone is reacting to behaviors/body language/subtle messages. Both sides jockey to assume the priority status in the man's life. Then he feels "stuck in the middle". There is no motivation to accept a stranger who, from the start, presents as a threat. This new person is poised to take the father's time, love, attention and assets from his original, "blood" offspring. There is no shared foundation of memories, love or a relationship to build on. The relationship is tainted from the start. One of my grown stepchildren told me never to forget that she came first and that she is #1 to my husband. Another of his family members told me never to forget that blood is thicker than water. Just the most barbaric, uncivilized comments were made to me out of their fear of sharing my husband or losing him to me. I really wanted to win the challenge and prove that I had the strength to work through it, to wait them out, to remain hopeful for a successful blended family. After 20 years, they win. I no longer spend time trying to empathize with how they were raised, how they feel, what makes them tick. Their message, even if based in their own insecurity, has been consistent. My problem was not listening to it. As much as I never wanted to be seen a stepmother, that is precisely what I am. I am not their counselor, a blood relative, a coach or friend. I am the target of their childhood disappointments. The best thing I ever did was accept my title, along with all the disdain and judgment that comes with it. It makes no longer caring easier for me. I disengaged, and through lots of failed attempts, I finally was able to shift my focus away from trying to win them over. They are no longer headlines in our family, the one they have rejected for over 2 decades. So no, I don't think it's a sin not to bond with stepchildren. I also don't believe that stepmothers should actively try to carve the children out of their father's life. I do believe that if a family can not ever blend after many years of trying, the people involved need to make healthy decisions for themselves. Life goes on....See Moresylviatexas1
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