Take a look at BM Stonington Gray. I don't personally have it in my house to show any pics but did try a sample when I was looking to paint my living room (ended up going with the darker one on the strip) and on my walls it was a light silvery blue. If you google it you can find a good selection of pics and see if that is similar to what you are looking for. Good luck in your search!

If you like blue check out BM Sterling; I used it on a powder room that is literally too small to photograph! But it's a light grayish blue that reads perfectly in a room w/o much natural light. I'm not sure I'd like Silken Pine next to your Saybrook Sage room, unless you really love green. I'd like to see a little contrast, with a blue or maybe a cream/tan that is not at all yellowy. Dunmore Cream and ***something? Silk (someone here will know the one I'm thinking of) come to mind as creams with greenish undertones. Good luck! Mary

Grey Wisp is Restoration Hardware Silver Sage. I always loved walking in RH when they had it painted that color. I thought it might be too pale, but I will go pull it out now. Barvnvabeach, I do like Sea Salt. I have that paint chip. I like several on that strip. I like Wythe and Woodlawn. Wythe reads so differently in the pictures above. In one it looks brighter turquoise and the other (basement) more muted but deep. I kind of light the muted effect better for my room, but both are pretty. I am not sure if Quiet Moments is too pale. I like the depth of color in Wythe. Did anyone ever see BM Beach glass or Ellen Kennon H20 Ahh or Oasis? I will also check out Blue Smoke.

Our exterior is painted BM Charlotte Slate and have had many ask about the color. It is absolutely more blue than gray. If you use: for trim, white looked harsh with CS. We used a light gray (the name escapes me); it looks almost white, but much, much better than the white did.