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WWYD-sensitive subject - deciding when to put cat to sleep.
Comments (51)I'm so sorry for the grief and stress you've felt throughout this time. You've done a kindness -don't forget that. It was difficult, but you did it because you loved Keo and wanted her to stop hurting. I've had to do it a number of times, and it's always so incredibly difficult, and always followed by weeks of melancholy. But I've never regretted it. Right now I know of a kitty, about 17 years old, who weighs about 3 lbs., and is truly suffering every day from many ailments. Her owners believe they'll 'know' when the time is right to put her down, but to everyone else, it looks like the time is right here, right now, and we feel such sorrow and pity for this poor, frail, hurting kitty..... You did the right thing. I don't know whether you're familiar with this poem, or whether it will resonate with you, but I thought I'd pass it on... The Last Battle If it should be that I grow frail and weak And pain should keep me from my sleep, Then will you do what must be done, For this " the last battle" can't be won. You will be sad I understand, But don't let grief then stay your hand, For on this day, more than the rest, Your love and friendship must stand the test. We have had so many happy years, You wouldn't want me to suffer so. When the time comes, please, let me go. Take me to where to my needs they'll tend, Only, stay with me till the end And hold me firm and speak to me Until my eyes no longer see. I know in time you will agree It is a kindness you do to me. Although my tail its last has waved, From pain and suffering I have been saved. Don't grieve that it must be you Who has to decide this thing to do; We've been so close "we two" these years, Don't let your heart hold any tears. - Unknown...See MoreMy cats pees all over
Comments (9)As suggested by elly_nj, get her to the vet right off. She could have cystitis, which is extremely painful and can kill her. And PLEASE spay her! AFTER her vet clears her, take a look at the cleaning products that you use. You could be poisoning her. Think about it from the cat's perspective. You stated that you take pride in a clean home that smells good-so I'm guessing that you are using toxic things with the added problem of heavy fragrances. Remember, cats are built low to the ground. Fumes are difficult to escape. Also, your cat washes herself with her tongue, thereby ingesting whatever she washes off of her fur and feet. There are many ways to clean and disinfect your home without using such potent toxins. She may simply be offended by the cleaning products that you use. Cats don't tolerate perfumes. Are you using scented litter? Don't. You clean the litterpan daily anyway, so you don't need rubbish to mask any smells. Scented litters are a marketing ploy designed to make you think that your home reeks of cat. They are repulsive to cats and can even be harmful to sensitive cats. Oh, and don't fall for the all-to-common misconception that 'green' or 'organic' or 'natural' cleansers are safe. They are still comprised of concentrations that can be very harmful. Next step is to clean the peed-on places thoroughly to remove all traces of urine. There are excellent enzymatic cleansers on the market for that purpose. I tried everything from plain white vinegar (which seems to entice male cats to pee where it's been used) to cheap vodka (which made the place smell kind of funny for a long time but the cats stopped paying attention to the spots where it had been used) to several of the available enzymatic cleansers. Enzymatics win hands down. I urge you to treat the spots, let them dry then treat again. They actually have a pleasant light fragrance that isn't as offensive as the heavy cleaning products. For most cleaning, plain hot soapy water is great, and baking soda is little short of miraculous for smell control. Next. You cat would rather use door jambs than her scratching post. You have a few options. Apparently she likes the feeling of wood under her claws and a tall stretch when scratching. You can get her a log and set it upright. I have cats who won't touch a carpet covered post but are thrilled to have a log to dig into. I have others who prefer sisal fabric and sisal rope wrapped round a post. Make certain that the post is large and sturdy. The teensy posts you get at the big box stores aren't worth a hill of beans. You can buy simple little boards covered in sisal that are cheap and much loved. You can hang them from the door knob, you can lay them flat, you can place them on a step so they're slanted. See which placement you cat likes the most. Some cats like to stretch vertically (yours probably does) so a good stout tall post is ideal. Scratching is exercise and a natural behaviour. Once you have addressed these steps, and inappropriate littering issues are still a concern, then it's time to examine the psychological aspect of your cat's surroundings. Is she assailed by the children when she'd rather watch from a distance? Does the noise level upset her? Does your cleaning routine bother her? Does she have a favourite person in the home with whom she prefers to play and snuggle? Encourage that person to give her plenty of attention. There are so many possibilities. These tend to be the most common factors that result in cat littering problems. I hope that this is helpful. I learned the hard way about toxic chemical use around the home. I'd like that it not be so traumatic for you. Good luck, and please don't get rid of the cat without giving her a chance....See Morewhy is my cat pee'ing in hubs office?!
Comments (14)We had adopted Pearl who we thought was the best cat in the entire world. Over time I realized she prefers to be the only cat and let me know by spraying the carpet in three rooms. Each of the rooms had a history that Pearl insisted on masking. The den area carpet was where our dog had laid for her final moment . I dragged the area carpet outside, saturated it with water, and then applied a mixture of dawn, vinegar, baking soda and hydrogen peroxide in stages. The second bedroom had housed my daughter's cats for a weekend so Pearl let me know she was Queen of this room. The last carpeted room had a puppy accident and Pearl insisted that she reigned this territory . My gut thinks that sometime during installation there was a accident and your cat is now masking the odor. I found that washing the area in stages with the above routine rid the carpet of the issue. I applied a mixture of dawn , water using a carpet vacuum to remove the water. I then let it dry . I added white vinegar to the carpet and again soaked up the moisture. The last is sprinkling baking soda all over a larger area then needed and pouring the hydrogen peroxide . I then squeegeed as much moisture out. Hydrogen peroxide has never stained my silk . wool or nylon rugs but it did turn the beige polyester carpet a funky yellow. There is a history in your den carpet that she does not like at all!!!!...See MoreFemale Cat Peeing on my bed :(
Comments (6)I know this post is old, but I thought I'd add a tip, for any one new who finds this during their search. The general rule of thumb is 2 litter boxes PER CAT, I know that is not feasible in all homes, I have 3 cats and can only do 3 litter boxes, I personally do not have room 6 litter boxes they'd be sitting side by side - if I did and that just doesn't seem like it would work as it's supposed to. The reason for this general rule of thumb, is that cats supposedly don't like to potty where other cats go potty!, I can't say that I believe that 100% as my 3 cats use only 2 of the 3 boxes, and they have their "favorite" all boxes have the same litter, and basically the same size the one they don't use is actually the biggest.. But if 2 or all 3 have to go at the same time instead of each one going to their own box, they actually will "wait in line"! for the one using it to get out!. Also cats are extremely finicky when it comes to their litter box, they want a spotless, odorless box or they'll refuse to use it (not all cats, some just don't care, but most do). I have 1 when the boxes are not spotless and odorless of any of their own scents, she will not use it, she will go on the bed, the floor, clothes left on the floor, the couch, any where but any box. So we make sure to clean the box at least 4 times a day, with a complete dumping out into the outside trash once a week, and after we dump it all out, we scrub it clean with dish soap and water, dry it, then I put a thin layer of baking soda (even if my litter already contains it), then the litter. I also have a male cat who is very picky about the brand/type of litter we use, if it is not to his liking he will kick it all out and just go in the box after he empties all the litter - much better than going on our furniture, but to be honest he makes a bigger mess for me to clean up, I'd rather wash bed clothes or a fake leather futon couch/bed off than to always sweep up cat litter. And I agree with getting them outside time - they may be doing it out of being bored they're locked in a room (think of it like this, that room is their jail cell, would you want to be locked in a jail cell 24/7 and only get out 1 time a week if that for ''recreation'' ). I have built a fully enclosed cat kennel for my cats I used an old metal dog kennel and added wire to the top as well, They have 2 decent sized logs in it from a cut down tree to sit on and scratch on, they have one long branch that had broken off my tree in there at an angle, they've got a large cooler that has a hole cut into it and it's full of old clothes, straw, and old foam (from outside furniture), this is their "house" they go in when it's raining or gets a bit cold (I have 1 male who prefers to be outside he's happier outside than inside) they also lay on top of it, they have their own cat nip growing in there as well. They love this kennel! Plus they get fresh air, and the vitamins they desperately need from the sun they are unable to get from being cooped up in a house. No cat should ever be strictly an indoor cat - I'm not saying allow your cats to roam your town (if you live in the country and there is not a high chance of them being hit - and you know they'll come home every night - then feel free I did it when I lived out in the country) but every cat needs to be outside for a few hours every day, rather its in an enclosed kennel they can't escape, or wearing a harness and on a lead they can't escape from. But they need outside time! Also they need to spend time with their entire family, cats are social animals, being jailed up all the time is not good for them mentally , physically, or on their over all internal health...See Moremoonie_57 (8 NC)
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