I think a sage green would look lovely... it looks like the walls in that last picture might be green.

Take a look at BM Acorn, I think it would work well.

I have SW Believable Buff and Camelback in my house (the colors above and below Whole Wheat). I love both colors.

If you're looking for something with more green, the BM Baby Turtle in my powder room and laundry rooms are adjacent to the Believable Buff and they do complement each other.

I have a hutch painted Baby Turtle on a Believable Buff and I like the subtle contrast, although the BT is lighter on the furniture than it is on my walls.

i agree that a sage green would complement both the whole wheat and the bedding!!

I have Whole Wheat in my family room. Adjoining kitchen and sunroom in BMs Ivy Lane..not sage green but looks great together.

Here are some greens that I think will compliment the bedding nicely: BM Grecian Green, BM Saybrook Sage, BM Nantucket Gray, BM Tree Moss, BM Mosaic Tile.
Also, looking at the patchwork pillow on the bed in the first pic, there is blue that could work if you introduce it elsewhere. The blue works nicely in that pillow with the rest of the colors.

Are you trying to change the bedding to match the paint? (What your topic & last part of post convey) Or are you trying to change the paint to go with your bedding? (What it kinda seems like).

I have Camelback (one darker than Whole Wheat) in most of my house. I have two adjoining rooms done in SW San Antonio Sage, a dusky sage. The difference is more subtle than I expected. Camelback (IMO) pairs itself very nicely with any deep earth tone, cream, most blues, black, white... it's as neutral as khaki pants.

Thank you everyone for your suggestions! I apologize if I did not make it clear in my post what I am trying to do....the bedding is brand new and I am looking for a color to paint my master bedroom. (Currently the master bedroom is painted off white because the previous owners never painted an actual color). I want to paint my bedroom a color that will go beautifully with the bedding BUT whatever color I paint the bedroom, I want it to flow well with the whole wheat out in the hallway. I am afraid that whatever color goes well with the bedding, might clash with the hallway.

Many of you are mentioning sage green...downstairs in my living room I have BM's Dried Basil which is a very nice sage green and it goes very nice with the whole wheat foyer.

I do have that small block pillow shown in the pic above (the one with the blue square on it) however I don't have anything else blue in the room. I am not sure choosing blue for the walls would work. There is absolutely no blue in the rest of the fabrics. It seems to make sense to go with either gold or green...I just have never seen a green room with bold red fabrics before. Will it look like Christmas?

I don't think it will look like Christmas if it's a muted lighter green

Alright so thanks to all of you (I love this place because it always steers me in the right direction!!) I am definitely considering green for the walls in my master bedroom. I played around with some paint swatches and it seems like the Benjamin Moore card with Apple Blossom on it blends in very nicely with the greens that are in the bedding. And when I hold that card up in the Whole Wheat hallway it looks like it goes together. I need to go buy samples of the color and put it up on the walls to help decide what shade on that card to use. Does anyone know anything about Apple Blossom or the other colors on that card?

My other option would be to use Dried Basil (Benjamin Moore)...I have Dried Basil in my living room downstairs and when I hold the bedding shams up in that room it seems to look nice as well.

We have SW Whole Wheat in our family room and kitchen. In the foyer leading to the kitchen we have SW Ivore. We also have SW Blonde in our spare room and that too goes well with the Whole Wheat color.

If you're looking for a green, we have SW Clary Sage as an accent wall next to the Whole Wheat. Looks nice too!

This was bedding my mother bought us that similar in colors to yours. I loved it with the green walls. Never looked Christmas-y to us and we kept it for several years.

Thx chocolatebunny! I always wondered if Blonde coordinated with Whole Wheat because those two cards are next to each other in Benjamin Moore.

itltrot - I like that combination very much and my bedroom furniture is very similar to yours in color and style.

Keeping in the greens but clearer and lighter is BM Dune Grass which might give the perfect backdrop.

Here is a link that might be useful: Dune Grass

I am going to suggest two RH colors, Sycamore or Silver Sage.
The Sycamore is a great green that looks neutral and blends with lots of colors. I have it in my basement and get many comments on it. The Silver Sage is an oft-mentioned color, I saw it used with quite a similar bed set in a neighbor's house. It's more of a contrast, show-off the bed set color rather than a blend.

Dear NutMeg,

I am laughing over here reading this for a couple reasons.  Keep reading. This is the exact problem I have been stuck on for a quite literally years and I decided to just bite the bullet and tackle wall repairs and paint finally.  I have now started and I am still stuck and at a loss halfway through.  I have SW Whole Wheat throughout the common rooms in our open floor plan with the exception of the keeping room.  The trim in those are all darker (something like SW Farrow) which looks yellow against the grays the previous designer/owner chose in the dining room and bathroom which also makes the grays look green to EVERYONE, but one person.  My personal issue with that is that my red and deep red/orange (favorites) decor make it look like Christmas so I can't use my favorite pieces in those rooms!!!  Besides having all of the same colors, issues, and feelings about the green colors (and Christmas) we have the same name/nickname... NutMeg!!!

I hope it all turned out well for you and I would love to know what you decided and what ultimately worked.