My post for the day (long! sorry)

12 years ago

I have been trying to put some perspective on the idea of passing laws to exempt "seniors" from paying taxes for educating our young. I am 75, and I believe I have lived "in the best of times". No other generation has had the benefits that I had. My family was not/is not wealthy. We raised a family without ANY inheritance or land....just the opportunity to better ourselves by taking advantage of the education we received and being in this place, at this time. No one promised us a rose garden....we made our own. Remember,the generation that followed WWII up to the 21st century. have had more than any generation before or that will follow us.

I thank, every day, the younger folks who pay my Social Security Check. I remember my grandmother in 1942-3-4-5 writing letters to my family on the West Coast, begging for just a little money to pay for food for herself. She lived her life using an out house, and pumping well water to her sink in her kitchen. She trusted GOD to provide and it was a very meager existence. No books, no tv, no transportation; only a church to walk to and a belief in the goodness of her fellow man. And her Bible. She died in 1960 and knew no other life altho her last years were in a nursing home.

My point is....that is where I could be today, if not for our government being sure that we do not end out years like that. It was only 20 years ago that we were able to buy a house and think about saving money for retirement and that was only because of a career change that worked out well. That does not always happen. As a country, we need to make sure that we provide the opportunity for those behind us to be educated...to make improvements in our world...to build things and accomplish great and wonderful things. Do we want the younger generation to be unemployed, unemployable, uneducated, without motivation and the ability to earn a living and support their own children....and grandparents via Social Security every month instead of begging.

The Children being educated today, 12 and 13 years old....in 10 years they will be contributing to many things that make a difference in the lives of those 'seniors' who feel they are being pinched by the economy. I think struggling middle class (now lower middle class) families are really the ones that are being pinched and many of the problems school districts are dealing with are related to the stresses that families are dealing with.

The Economy. DD is still living with us due to this economy...another child (also DD) really struggling to keep up with it all. NO One....only the rich....is not just keeping their heads above water.

It will get better, I believe that. (and then, I almost delete it)

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sheilajoyce_gw
12 years ago
Well, I remember trying to pass a bond to build more schools. We were one of the fastest growing school districts in the nation when my kids were in school, and if we did scare up some construction money somehow, we would be on double sessions in a few short years. But we knew that the senior citizens vote in large numbers, and they would defeat the bond because of the tax reequired to service it. So, we exempted them under a law unique to our state. No matter. They turned out in huge numbers and voted against it anyhow. Somehow they did not trust the exemption or perhaps they did not even read about it. So I do understand why districts consider expempting seniors from the obligation, but it doesn't always help.
gemini40
12 years ago
School funding should not be put on the backs of home owners, through real estate taxes.There has got to be a better way.
If we could have any say in the way the School Dept. spends it's money that would be one thing, but we don't.
They spend, and we have to foot the bill.
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I agree that school funding should not be on the backs of homeowners, through real estate taxes...and it is not fair to take the meager incomes of seniors to pay for school funding.

My father will be 90 in May and is living on Social Security. Because his income is small, his real estate taxes are reduced dramatically. I think that's a wonderful program, and if it isn't nationwide, it should be.

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Sorry, nanny, I didn't mean to hijack your post. I'll get off my soapbox now....
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Thank you, nanny. I agree completely. We are all in this together. Or should be.
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Recent-generation kids have come to be in global competition for many varieties of work, and it'll become wider and deeper, especially in the knowledge-based part of business and commerce, for much of that can be shipped from computer to computer easily, wherever in the world.

Not so with slinging hash in a restaurant, making hotel beds, not well-paid situations ... or repairing sewer pipes, as lazypup just alluded to ... and many of those skilled jobs do pay well.

It seems to me that our kids need to have their skills developed and sharpened, in order to compete - and our school systems aren't the best in the world.

I'm somewhat unhappy that, while basic educational services are usually covered, many of the peripheral needs of schools aren't met and must be covered by local fund-raising, which causes difficulty for schools in less affluent neighbourhoods.

I'm a suuporter of democratic rights enough to believe that every kid should have the same educational opportunities in life.

But even then, kids in poor neighbourhoods are somewhat behind the 8-ball, from the first day of school, for they often have received less training, education and encouragement at home, so find it hard to keep up.

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