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caroline94535

My family in the ice storm, long week of suffering, long

17 years ago

When it rains ice, it pours tragedy, and ends with my brother's house burning.

I'm sure everyone has heard and seen the disastrous ice storm that is still holding portions of Oklahoma, Missouri, Arkansas, Tennessee, and Kentucky in it's cold, dark grip.

Most all of my immediate family were in the thick of it in northern Arkansas. I couldn't reach anyone by phone for nearly a week. My oldest brother and SIL - niece and her two kids - nephew, his son, his wife, and her two kids - an Aunt, second brother, his wife, FIL, and two children, and several friends were all without power, phones (no land line or cell), water, and most were without heat.

It was horrible. I couldn't contact them. I didn't know if they had any heat sources in their homes, or any food. I didn't know where they were. I've been frantic. I couldn't stand the thought of eating and not knowing if they had food.

As of yesterday, some of them now have sporadic phone service, and the power is still going on and off. Since Sunday I've spoken with everyone and it's eased my mind to a degree. As of today, most still don't have power, but they've gotten water, have some food, and didn't freeze. All are thankful.

And then...Sunday night...my brother Charlie's house burnt down. He and Mary were not hurt, but they've lost everything and with the Red Cross and Salvation Army already stretched to the limits. They are staying with one of her daughters for right now.

My poor SIL, Mary. Last year she lost her 39-year-old son-in-law, her oldest daughter's husband, to an unexpected heart attack. Two weeks ago this daughter's son-in-law, Mary's grandson-in-law, dropped dead, at age 28, from a heart defect no one knew he had. So Mary's granddaughter, Jennifer, age 30, lost her father last year and her husband this year. She has two children, ages 2 and 4. She, her children, and her widowed mother were also stranded in the storm.

Mary and my niece get home from this funeral in Missouri the same day the storm hit Arkansas. She endures a week of dark, cold, and hunger, and then her house burns down. And here I was in North Dakota with no way to help.

They did have insurance on the house, and they do have a temporary place to stay, and will be back on their feet...but still.

Can I ask for a prayer for my family? We seem to be under a cloud of bad karma right now.

I'm so worried for my Mom. She didn't lose power, but she's so worried about her kids. She told me "the National Guard is there, and there are shelters." What good were shelters when no one knew about them for several days? Where my folks were, they had no power, no radios, no phones, no useable roads, for the first few days. They dug in and held on.

The NG is searching the outlaying areas, and taking water to people now. My aunt had no water for days. Mary (who lost everything later that night) took her some food and water.

My nephew was breaking ice off the trees and melting it in a pan next to their tiny gas heater to keep enough water for him and "the girls" to drink. He was so thankful that even though "It was so scary and bad. I know there are many people far worse off than we were." They got out and to town Saturday for food. That was the first time they'd heard news, or seen a paper, or witnessed the destruction. He was so shocked to learn how widespread the suffering was.

Some parts of Mountain Home now have electricity, but of my family, only my Aunt has power. Some of the schools are starting back tomorrow.

I hope everyone will take "disaster preparedness" more seriously after this, think ahead, and pack a kit of items that will make any future storm more bearable.

And please say a prayer for all the people still without power or heat. I know Kentucky is suffering even worse than northern Arkansas did. I hate to think they'll be forgotten in the back wash from the next media/celebrity event.

Thanks for letting me rant. I'm still numb. Helplessness is not something I wear well.

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