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16 years ago

I was wondering what your thoughts were on Roselyn. I didn't believe a word she said. There were too many different "happenings" of her with the producer that other girls witnessed. She kept referencing the contract she signed that stated there would be hidden cameras, and if all this alleged stuff did happen, she wanted to see the tapes. Chris Harrison called her on it and said that the producers know exaclty where the cameras are and when filming is taking place. She still didn't get it.

I thought her last ditch jab at Chris was ridiculous, telling him that he came on to the producer's wife at a location shoot. Wonder if the producer was married when he and Roselyn were hooking up.

I thought the rest of the girls handled themselves well.

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lydia1959
16 years ago
I agree with what you said about Rozelyn. I think she's a liar.

Jake says he is happy with his final choice. I thought someone here had said that Jake and the one he chooses had already broken up?

Looking forward to the final show.
dotmom
16 years ago
I thought Rozelyn came across as the liar she is. Lets hope her 15 minutes of fame are over. I also thought Michelle seemed calm and normal. I, too am looking forward to next weeks show. If this show foes like most of the other seasons, who ever Jake chooses, they won't last long. Dottie
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sleeperblues
16 years ago
I, too, agree that there were too many independent sightings of Rozlyn and the producer for it to be not true. However, she really is a good liar. Perhaps she blacked out and doesn't remember? There seems to be quite the bit of alcohol available in that mansion!

As for the jab at Chris regarding hitting on the producer's wife--I wouldn't put it past him. Chris is a good looking guy and no matter how wholesome he wants to seem I just don't buy it.

I was thinking about the timeline on that supposed incident. Rozlyn said it was in New Zealand, so that would have been Jason's season, which was just last year. So the producer had a wife who was with him in New Z., and then didn't have a wife when he and Roz hooked up? Seems there's way more to that story that we are not hearing.
mboston_gw
16 years ago
I'm really thinking he picks one, probably Vienna but doesn't ask her to marry him yet. Yes, he said he was happy with his decision but he didn't say "We" were happy. On the shows website, rumors are that Ali will be the next Bachelorette. I'm not too happy to hear that, would rather have Gia. I think she has more class than most of the others combined.
matti5
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16 years ago
I too would love to see Gia as the next Bachelorette. Ali appeared on the Ellen show and remarked that she is considering being the next bachelorette. If ABC is looking for drama, then they should ask Michelle LOL.

Chris Harrison is supposed to be on the Joy Behar Show tonight. I've never tuned into her show, but may do so to see what he has to say.
wildchild
16 years ago
I believe Rozlyn over the hearsay and scripted pack-ratting. If Chris really knew she had done something why ask her back? Notice he didn't accuse her directly. He let the same little pack of mean girls do it for him. (probably to avoid a lawsuit?) Every accusation was so vague. Yeah sure. Just like they gang up on Vienna. They are like a bunch of little school girls. Unfortunately that's true of many women in general. They can't compete fairly so they use their sharp tongues, back-stabbing and gossip and crocodile tears to get what they want.

Both Roz and Vienna show a lot of class compared to some of those girls. I admire the way they hold their heads up despite the BS.

Ali is still a disgusting little tart who apparently learned to play the victim early on. The trembling lower lip sticking out, the fake wiping away of tears. All that talk about her "career" at Facebook which she had been at only a few months before the show. The apology to Vienna on TV. Sure. Wasn't she the one who preached to Vienna that sorry wasn't enough?

Then they hint she might be the next Bachelorette! Spare me. What about your career Ali you lying little drama twit.
pris
16 years ago
Does anyone besides me think that everything, and I mean everything, on this show is scripted?
Georgysmom
16 years ago
Yes, I think it is somewhat scripted but it can't be all scripted.....they're not bright enough to remember their lines so some ad libbing would have to occur!
matti5
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16 years ago
Scripted or not, I'll keep watching. Why I do is beyond me LOL
vicki_lv
16 years ago
And why I do, is beyond me too. I guess it is something to watch. Seems there are few shows that aren't reality shows.
susanjf_gw
16 years ago
i fall fo rit everytime but only watched bits and pieces..btw was there a girl who was preggers or not?
Lindsey_CA
16 years ago
"btw was there a girl who was preggers or not?"

No, there was not. There was a preview that showed Tenley saying to Jake, "I'm pregnant." BUT, the clip and/or actual scene never aired. Tenley wanted to tell Jake that she had been married and divorced. Up till this point in time, Jake knew nothing about Tenley's marriage/divorce. So, when Tenley sat down with him to tell him something "serious," she first said, "I'm pregnant" just to break the ice. She quickly followed it with "that's a joke," but since the clip/scene never aired, the viewers never got an explanation as to why we saw Tenley saying that she is pregnant.

Manipulative editing to get the viewers to keep watching...
Kathsgrdn
16 years ago
I have to watch this show still, was working late Monday night. Bad day at work. I'm another one that doesn't really know why they watch. Really dumb show.
User
16 years ago
This show is scripted and phony but I still watch. I like Ali and am not wild about either finalist. I think he picks no one.
Pawprint
16 years ago
I think he has to choose one girl to propose to? But I wonder if they are still together today, because the filming ended months ago.

I don't think the show is scripted like a soap opera, but I have a feeling that A LOT is suggested or encouraged. I started doubting parts of the show with the Roselyn episode we just saw. The show wasnÂt live, so if they wanted to edit anything, they could have. It sounded like defamation of character, but I bet they canÂt sue. I dunno.
susanjf_gw
16 years ago
thanks lindsey!
User
16 years ago
We'll soon see, won't we?

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