Cabinets arrived, how to negotiate the mistakes.
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Shiloh Cabinets arrived-builder ordered wrong glaze
Comments (2)Could you post a picture of one of your cabinets? What style is your home or decor? I like the darker glaze and when everything is together you might love it. Usually it looks nice when the island is in a dark wood color (will you have one?). You could try placing a couple of cabinets somewhere you can look at them for a few days to see if the color grows on you. After that, if you hate it, ask the builder to change it but if it were me, I'd change everything or let it go. In this case, I'd let it go but I'd negociate with the builder for an upgrade in something else (or maybe a credit)....See MoreDon't make the same mistake(s) I did thread.
Comments (88)Great thread. I've made many mistakes over the years. When I needed drapes for 5 very tall and wide windows, I thought I would save money by making them myself. I ended up buying 30+ yards of a synthetic moire on sale at a chain fabric store, along with drapery lining, and after making up one panel, found that even with lining, the light coming through the fabric made the color brighter and kind of gaudy. The bolt is still in an upstairs closet, and I found 96" crushed voile panels online that I like very much for about $20 each. Lesson: keep it simple. A couple of years ago, I hired a local designer mainly to help me choose paint colors and advise on accessories/tweaking. In the master bedroom, I had some custom green silk drapes that I never liked that much, and she talked me into spending the money to have them interlined and a printed fabric border added, along with custom shams with the same fabric. I had already spent $2000 on the drapes, and now I spent another $1000, and I still didn't like them. I took them down, and they and the matching euro shams are in the closet in the guest room. I put up natural linen-look semi sheers from target, and I like them better. Lesson: keep it simple, and don't throw good money after bad. We weren't using our formal dining room much, and the same designer suggested moving the dining furniture into one end of our large living room, and making the old dining room into a den and the old den into a home office, which was really needed. Since I wanted to replace the old LR sofa anyway, I moved the den furniture into the living room and had a custom ($$$)sofa made for the new den. It was not a huge space, and we tried to keep the sofa scaled down. When it arrived, the fabric was gorgeous, the style just what I wanted, but the seat depth was so shallow that it was not very comfortable. I had also slipcovered the old den chairs to go with the new sofa ($$). I ended up moving the new sofa to the living room, where it was more appropriate for perching ladies than lounging TV viewers, and now none of the colors I had chosen (with help paid for by the hour) for the LR and new den would work. Plus, the newly slipcovered den chairs (on swivel rocker bases, I love them) don't work that well with the old sofa color. Fortunately, I hadn't painted yet. Lessons: Don't buy furniture without sitting on it. Choose paint colors after you are certain of your fabrics. Don't let your designer talk you into stuff you don't really need. Keep your major pieces fairly neutral. The worst was the master bath update. I had chosen tile for the walls and floor, and the tile vendor gave me a couple of names for the installation. The guy with the higher quote was very highly recommended but I went with the other guy because he said he could also do some other work I needed done. Even though I had a gut feeling I was making a mistake. He did a horrible job on the tile, broke my toilet, and disappeared. I had to buy more wall tile and pay another contractor to replace it, and I'm still stuck with a bad job on the floor. Between the cost of doing the job, redoing the job, and buying a new toilet, I could have had the better contractor do the job, and replaced the vanity and sink as well, and upgraded to a better tile. Lessons: A jack of all trades might be a master of none. Go with your gut. Ask contractors for their license numbers and CHECK IT online with your state to see if it's in effect. I've made more, but these are the recent highlights, LOL. I feel better having confessed them here....See MoreWhat to do if there is a mistake with your cabinet order?
Comments (21)I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but if you were my customer and you had agreed to the payment terms up front, and then refused to pay the rest of of the agreed upon fee at the agreed upon time (delivery) then I would not deliver the cabinets to you. I would be perfectly fine with you and your contractor opening and inspecting each and every box before receiving that check, but there is no way that I'd leave there without the money you agreed to pay me. Especially since you're not using my installer, and installation by an inexperienced contractor is typically where most damage to cabinets occurs. If you were using my installer, then the contract would have been negotiated with his fee due upon completion, and that would be your "leverage" that you feel you need. Reputable companies get that positive reputation because they satisfactorily handle situations like this every day. It's normal for most companies to agree to replace a damaged door or box because of "shipping damage" without even inspecting the problem. THey just send new. If a large percentage of an order is claimed to have shipping damage, then the manufacturer may want to inspect the cabinets before replacing them, to assess the source of that damage. If there's a problem on the line, or with packaging, they want to know in order to be able to correct that and keep it from happening with other customers. If an order is claimed to have larger "issues" such as being the wrong color, or wood, then everyone gets involved, and the signed paperwork of the contract comes into play. If the consumer simply isn't happy with the order, then it becomes a more nebulous issue, depending on what that unhappiness stems from, such as the mix of hearwood/sapwood in a cabinet order (not just a single door). Those issues rarely happen with a quality company that correctly qualifies and educates their customer on what to expect. In other words, companies that have good reputations built them on dealing with any and all of the issues you may fear will happen with your order. They'll handle whatever comes. If they're a good company, that is. However, you don't renegotiate the terms of a contract with any company after you've signed that contract. If you wanted to have a holdback, then the time to do that is during the negotiation of that contract so that all parties can agree to the terms. Holding back funds won't help you with a poor company, they won't care anyway as they'll already have made their profit and on to the next, and it somewhat insults a good company that you don't consider them reputable enough to do the right thing without a sword hanging over their head. If you had negotiated holdback in the beginning, that'd be fine, but to do it after the fact isn't going to sit well with most. You can always ask, but if they decline, then you'll have to decide how you want to handle the situation. Because if you refuse to pay them for the product, then YOU are in violation of the contract and that can have all kinds of adverse affects from a ding on your credit to criminal charges or court costs for a civil proceeding. I'm not saying that it will escalate to that dramatic a level, but the potential is there. This is why written contracts are so important and should be signed only after you understand and agree to the terms of that contract....See MoreCabinets arrived different than agreed on, what do I do?! Help!
Comments (121)I can't add to the great cabinet advice here, butI can speak to your timeline. Stop it! You *want* the house to be finished before you move in, but that's a wish, not a necessity. You will make far better decisions and deal better with the problems that arise if you set that timeline aside and just deal with what needs to happen. You can live without floors, but they are a pretty big deal (I hated the weeks on bare concrete floors post-flood), so get your floors down. Since you are paying for your GC's services, why exactly does he get to tell you that he 'won't' do floors until cabinets are in? That may be his preference (just as yours was to have this all completed before move-in), but that is just the way he wants to do it (less flooring that way), and as someone once said, 'you don't always get what you waa aant'). Here's what we determined we actually *needed* to be able to live in our post-flood house: walls, floor, and one functional bathroom. Get your flooring down. Toilet, sink, shower or tub. I second the suggestion to get an inexpensive pedestal sink or cheap big box vanity in the interim. You can sell it afterwards. One or two long folding tables in your kitchen work pretty well for prep, drying dishes, etc. One or two metal storage racks (on wheels if possible) such as Metro Commercial or Metro Kitchen from Container Store work wonders to temporarily replace cabinet storage. Helpful hint 1: you don't have to unpack ALL of your kitchen utensils, cookware, dishes, etc. Unpack only what you need, place on shelves, go about the business of living and take your time and make sound, non-emotional, non-urgent decisions about how to resolve the cabinet crisis. You have time, you just need to stop telling yourself that you *must* have this completed by x-date. Helpful hint 2: I love Container Store but the reference to their product was just a reference - you can find similar shelves at Home Depot, Lowes, or even Craig's List or a restaurant supply. Breathe....See Moremamadadapaige
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