Interesting article and an interesting thread over on Perennials. Watching my nieces and nephews play their Gameboys for hours on end and then walk around Uncle Bills farm, bored, because thereÂs "nothing to do" (which they did NOT say, when they were younger), I believe that Âextensive gardening is down. In general, the up and coming generations have been conditioned to accept as normal and necessary Instant Gratification in all things. Thank the Internet, Nintendo, cell phones, Blackberries and their kin, cable TV, same day Fed Ex, microwave dinners, laptops and a myriad of other devices and services that have made such expectations a virtual requirement in the business world, and now, the personal world. I am guilty of it myself. As a later Boomer, born in the year of Sputnik (that one stumps my nephews every time), I use most of those devices in my business. IÂve noticed that, while I work at maintaining my gardens, I do try to buy larger plants that will bloom sooner to feed the Instant Gratification beast within me. And, while my local Fed Ex and UPS guys could probably navigate to my place blindfolded, I still like to go to the local nurseries as much for the ability to walk out with what I want in my greedy little hands as for the whole visual/olfactory experience. There are a couple of other cultural trends that also play into these numbers, one that encourages them and one that might distort them. First, I believe that new housing in general has changed. Many first homes these days are condos or community-based, where landscaping is either non-existent or handled by a service under a management fee. So, individual purchases in these communities are down, since it not only is not encouraged, but can even be Âillegal to plant perennials. Many retiring baby boomers are moving to adult communities that have similar rules. And, even if gardening is allowed, with Arizona and Nevada being among the fastest growing states, you wonÂt see many Monarda in such gardens. Related to that is another trend I am seeing with respect to Ânext level up homes. I grew up in suburban New Jersey with the New York City skyline visible out my bedroom window. The entire area is classic post-WWII development zone. The lots are typical suburban ones on the order of 50 x 125 feet, some a little larger, some a little smaller. My parents bought a little cape that was just like all the others on the street, ala Pete Seeger. When my sister and I came along, they expanded up and added a second floor, as did most of the neighbors as THEIR kids came along. There was plenty of space on the lot for a swing set, an above-ground pool, a small vegetable garden, lots of border flower beds, a place to grill and entertain, etc. Now, when I go to visit my parents I see these houses, literally, being torn down and new, gigantic structures being built in their places. These new homes look like brick fortresses and take up as much of the lot as possible. WhatÂs left outside is a small deck for the grill and hot tub, and a small patch of grass that is shaded by the house. ÂGardening is limited to a couple of rows of Thuja Green Giant to shield the house from its neighbors and a Japanese red maple on the lawn. These places clearly proclaim that indoor living is more important that outdoor living. Even new developments seem to focus on big houses on little lots. The fact is that land is so expensive in these places that people (or developers) want the most bang for their buck and put up the largest houses that they can. So, homeowners are limited to a few pots of annuals around the deck. No wonder perennial orders are down. Second, are perennial orders really down? Do the data take into account the large numbers of purchase made over the Internet? And I donÂt mean from nurseries, whose sales would end up in the data. I mean from small-scale growers, who are most definitely not in the data loop. I buy significant numbers of plants on Ebay from people, who specialize in a few things and would probably fall under the old ÂMom and Pop designation. Multiply me by a few hundred thousand people and the numbers add up. Perennial sales COULD be close to historical averages, but the real numbers just arenÂt being reported. Finally, with respect to slowing down as one ages; yes, I guess it is a fact of life. BUT, I firmly believe that proper exercise and conditioning can stave off the rocking-chair-on-the-porch days for a good many years. I am trying to not just maintain but improve a 60-acre property by myself. The lawn care and weeding and planting and fence laying and chicken feeding and beekeeping all take their toll. But, I refuse to let a few aches slow me down. I DO notice that it takes me longer to do some things, but so be it. For example, yesterday I decided to spread some salted sand on my drive. Well, the tarp that I keep over the sand pile is no longer waterproof (humans are not the only things that age) and some of the sand was frozen solid. I couldnÂt break it up with the tractor, because the bucket is stored away, and I have the snow blower on the front with the sand spreader on the rear. So, I took a sledge hammer to it. It amazed me how tired my arms and hands became after only 20 or 30 swings of the sledge. This would not have been the case a few years ago, and probably not even this past summer. But, several months of no yard work and sitting in front of a computer for hours (like now) have made me a bit soft. So, it took me longer to break up the sand. So what? The experience is not going to make me give up loading and spreading sand. IÂll be back in form by June. And, in the interim IÂm adding some forearm exercises to my morning routine. Now, a serious injury would force major changes. But, lifting with the legs, moving small loads, etc. are the ways I try to avoid such pitfalls. I still need to carry 50 lb. bags of feed out to the barn, but I just walk a little slower and am more careful, when I swing the bag onto my shoulder. And, IÂm not trying to brag about what I do. Go over to the Farmlife forum and read about what THOSE people, who have real farms, do on a daily basis. At all ages. It is most humbling. I guess my point to all of this is that, yes, people may (or may not) be buying fewer perennials, but that may (or may not) be because there is less interest in gardening. New house design might be forcing a move to container/annual/small plot gardening. Sales might be underreported. Baby boomers might be slowing down, but that doesnÂt necessarily translate into reduced activity, just smarter activity, as many have posted. And, if sales really are down, so what? As others have pointed out, almost everything is cyclic. Look at the interest these days in cooking at home. Quite a change from the TV dinner era of the 60Âs and 70Âs and the take out/eat out era of the 80Âs and 90Âs. ThereÂs a reason the Food Network is so popular. Sure, some of their viewers are couch potato/cooks that watch, drool and then go open a Lean Cuisine. But, many others are taking an active interest in cooking real meals. The most popular shows may be ones that show meals that are fast/easy to prepare, but at least people are getting in front of a cook top and a mixer, again. Eventually, that person, who successfully made a 30-Minute Meal that their family and/or friends complimented, will tackle a standing rib roast. The same thing will happen with gardening. Contrary to some comments in the Times article, I see nothing wrong with nurseries offering Âpackages to get people started. Heck, there is so much information out there, thanks to The Internet, that figuring it all out can be quite daunting. A little help for a newbie is a good thing. Putting plants in the ground, nurturing and caring for them, even if pre-selected plants, is still gardening. Eventually, those people, who started small, will tackle their own gardening version of a standing rib roast (perhaps, a lasagna bed?) I truly believe that humans have a genetic desire to get their hands in the dirt and the dirt under their nails. There is something very basic about it that plays to the core of Who We Are. And, as creatures that have a concept of ÂbeautyÂ, gardening provides an even greater return, one that recurs with every bloom. Well, enough philosophy; I have to go out and take care of the chickens. narcnh

Petra: Now, MY memory may be fading, but I'm sure I saw a TV show in which a character's memory slips were blamed on not drinking enough water! Maybe it was "Doc Martin"? I think today's society is also so distracted by things older folks never were -- cellphones, computers, tending to both their children and parents, commuting stress. Our attention is so heavily divided that we can't successfully focus on one thing at a time. And we're still doing it when we try to sleep. Throw in chemical additives (food and otherwise), can't help but not be surprised. I'm not quite of the boomer generation, but for a few years now I've noticed cognitive slips -- searching for the right word, the right name, forgetting 1 of just 3 things I wanted at the store, things popping into and straight out of my mind ...

I feel bad for people who don't have the means to prepare for their retirement/aging. My Grandma is wanting to get into a retirement home, but doesn't have enough money to get into the one she wants. I just graduated college and can't help with my $100k+ in school loans. My brother can just barely support his own family. My sister has some money she is willing to pitch in, God bless her, and my mom may too. Otherwise, Gma is going to live with my mom, which is certainly not optimal. It's far away from all of Gma's friends (she can't drive any more), Mom's house would have to be modified greatly because Gma already has trouble up and down stairs and it's a 3 level townhome; more modifications would be necessary if she became wheelchair-bound. Gma will most likely go insane (and I am not exaggerating) being basically shut in while Mom is at work, even with the company of Mom's dog. Long term care insurance wouldn't help her at this point because she doesn't NEED any care- she just needs a safe and relatively active place to live where she can continue to socialize to keep her mind sharp. What's the answer? I don't know. Gma's boyfriend got into the retirement home by selling his house and by his kids pitching in, plus he has stocks that pay dividends and social security. Gma had already sold her home and was living off those profits for the last couple of years- she does have some stocks and of course SS, but she can either afford the buy in OR the monthly fees, but not both, and you need to afford both. Obviously, it's too late for Gma to do anything- she can't work, and her assets are what they are. Dh and I are trying to save up enough so this doesn't happen to us, but if we end up helping out my Gma or my mom or his parents, that reduces what we have to save for ourselves. My plan is to drop dead at work when I'm 85. It's not a good plan :(

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