Gifts for the "elderly"
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Comments (4)George, Of course this will make everyone laugh because it is exactly the tradition you'd expect from my family: tomatoes. Well, and peppers too. Of course, tomatoes are mostly a warm season crop, but there was not a Sunday or Wednesday in my life during the tomato-growing season that my dad didn't carry a "sack of tomatoes" to church to give to somebody. And, of course, after all of us kids grew up, moved out, got married and had our own homes and families, Dad always had tomatoes for us if we weren't raising our own surplus of tomatoes to give him. After his death, you wouldn't believe how many people spoke so fondly of Daddy and his big brown sack of tomatoes. The big brown paper sacks are mostly gone from grocery stores now, but back then my Dad would fill up a big brown sack and carry that sack around in his arms after church, dispensing tomatoes right and left. After his Alzheimer's began to impact his gardening and we'd moved to Oklahoma, I'd occasionally drive down to Fort Worth and take him a big bag of tomatoes. Did he keep them all for him and mom and my brother's and sister's family who lived nearby? Nope. He took them to church and passed them out. He passed them out so freely and with such joy that he sometimes forget to give them to my brother and sister, so I remedied that by taking them their own sacks of tomatoes....and I know that sometimes my brother would give some of HIS tomatoes away....the ones I'd just given him.....because he wanted to share them with his friends and neighbors. I can't think of my Dad and his garden without picturing him with a sack of tomatoes in his arms after church. Going further back than Daddy, my grandparents always gave us a bit of everything they raised too, especially pickled beets and pickled cucumbers. (My mother didn't garden nor did she can, although my dad did both.) A trip to my grandparent's house meant sitting around snapping beans or shelling peas, and bringing a whole mess of them home too. And my grandfather loved taking us outside to show up how his garden was doing. My favorite thing that Papaw grew when I was a child was popcorn. He kept the kernels in a huge one-gallon jar in the kitchen and I thought it was magic that he could grow popcorn. Some of my friends had grandfathers who grew sweet corn, but I was the only one who had a popcorn-growing grandpa. Over the years, we have given many gifts from our garden, but not necessarily the same ones from year to year: salsa, tomato sauce, canned jalapeno peppers, jalapeno jelly, peach jam, strawberry jam, etc. I have made herbal wreaths and swags and given them as gifts, after once receiving an herbal swag as a gift from an elderly woman when I was a young newlywed. Some years, I cut and dry flowers, and then turn them into flower arrangements and wreaths to give as gifts. Some years, I have done the same with dried herbs, or ristras of dried chile peppers. I also have made soap and even paper, incorporating herbs and flowers from our garden. And, of course, I have made gifts of plants, cuttings and seeds many times. To me, half the fun of gardening is sharing the many wonderful kinds of "produce"--sometimes in their fresh state straight from the garden or fruit tree, and sometimes as ingredients in wreaths, herbal products, etc. I had aunts and uncles who gardened and freely shared their fruits and veggies throughout the growing season, and gave canned veggies and fruit jams, jellies and preserves at the holidays. Sometimes I make our firefighters fruit cobblers from fruit we've grown, or fruit pies or muffins. Also, eggs are one of the "gifts from the garden" that we share. Sometimes, the chickens lose their minds, make a nest in the mulch, and start laying eggs in the veggie garden itself.....and then the eggs really ARE from the garden. I think a lot of people are more thrilled to receive a carton of eggs than a sack of tomatoes, because "fresh, home-grown eggs" are such a rarity, especially guinea eggs. I agree that such gifts are priceless--whether you are on the giving or receiving end of the process. This coming summer, my cousin and her husband will be planting their first vegetable garden ever at their "new" (to them) country place in the upper Hill Country of Texas. It has been on their "to do" list ever since they bought 15 acres of pasture and began converting it to their own little slice of heaven on earth three years ago. Now that all the animal barns and corrals are in place and the houses are done (85-year-old aunt in one house, cousin and her DH in another, and their daughter, and her DH and DD in another), they are adding chickens and a veggie garden next year. So, it is great to see another part of the family preparing to carry on the gardening tradition. And, of course, she won't be starting her new garden alone....I'll be there with advice, seeds, cuttings and plants. The love of gardening itself is a precious gift, and being able to share it with others is truly a blessing. Dawn...See MoreAnd speaking of gifts......
Comments (4)Agnes, do you mean one like to linked? It's far superior to the little aluminum 'zimmers" (as they are called in England) with small wheels. The larger wheels can better roll over surface irregularities, and the zimmer's little wheels can actually be dangerous, catching on every small thing on the ground. For some people, tho, the problem is that Medicare only pays for a zimmer-style walker, and you can't apply the cost to an upgrade, either. You can shop around for a good price, too. When my mother needed one, we found that the local medical supply store's price was more than twice what we paid online, with free shipping, no less. My client who is on a very restricted income got one from the manager of her apartment complex, left when another tenant moved into a nursing home. So it's good to ask around. My friend calls it her Cadillac. ;-) Thanks for mentioning this Agnes, it's a great idea. Here is a link that might be useful: Rolling walker...See MoreJust need some encouraging words
Comments (16)The past 4 years I have been involved in helping the Salvation Army with the Elder Tree program. I am with another organization and we have donated money to help out with gifts for the elderly. It is amazing how much help is needed after the people bring in their gifts for the angels they have chosen. It is also heartbreaking to read their wish lists. They ask for stamps, toilet paper, paper towels, snacks and fruit. Maybe a pair of pajamas or slippers. My friend and I go out shopping for the things that are needed to fill in the empty spots and get treats to go into their gift packages. My friend works for the county and works in the Hud Housing and other elderly facilities so she knows a lot of the folks that receive these gifts. She says it is such a joy to see the faces of these elderly people when they tell her what Santa has brought them. We always come away with a warm feeling that we have helped someone less fortunate than us. It also puts you in the Christmas spirt and makes you aware of all that you have to be thankful for. There are many places to volunteer at Christmas. Our grandchildren in Tucson go and help out at the soup kitchen instead of having a big meal at home. It teaches them to help others and to be thankful for all they have. I hope you will find a way to make your Christmas bright. Enjoy your family and grandchildren as they are part of you and your dear husband....See MoreLast last minute gifts for elderly or disabled gardenerss
Comments (3)Tom, I have used that tool while gardening. It does make it more enjoyable. The problem is my garden ends up looking very disorganized with crooked rows and such....See MoreSueb20
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