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Simple Pleasures Of Childhood

13 years ago

What are yours or what are you reliving through your children and/ or grandchildren?

What are you taking away or trying to take away (re-learn to do) from those memories?

Yesterday while I was painting the rental belonging to the infamous George (DH's boss) I took a break on the back porch.

The house is tiny but situated on 3 acres w/ no neighbors on either side. There is a white vinyl split rail type fence that runs the length of the property and all along the back leading to rolling hills. No neighbors there either. The workshop where DH and George work is there too.

Our kids don't have the pleasure of a huge yard where we live nor being able to roam freely w/o constant supervision so I've been taking them w/ me each day when I go to paint.

So yesterday when I took a break I sat out on the back porch w/ a beer and just watched the children first walk on the fence side by side (w/ mini-me trying to keep up w/ her big brothers) for the entire length. It took forever and felt great.

Then DS1 found sticks for each of them and they went to 'war' w/ the tall skinny grass weed that pops up. It has a fat 'ball' on the top and they were yelling "Off w/ their heads" whacking at the fat ball part of the weeds w/ their stick, errr - 'swords' - screaming 'GET THEM! This is war!' and they'd all charge off in a row w/ sticks raised.

The shop windows were open and George heard them so he started setting off bottle rockets out the windows yelling back "They're advancing! Hurry what's our plan?".

And it was just such simple fun.

I don't think that I've ever slowed down long enough to just 'enjoy the moment' and not feel that I should be doing something.

Comments (10)

  • 13 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    What a timely post!
    As we speak I have my kettle on to make tea for a tea party with my girls. Rainy day here in NJ, so we are stuck inside. I stopped doing laundry, decided it could wait, and we shall have tea, in real china tea cups. Maybe I'll find a boa and tiara and wear it for the occasion :-P

  • 13 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    One of my favorite things was to make pine straw houses. We lived in the country and played outside from morning to dark. I would rake the pine straw into little short walls, like the blue print of a house. I spent hours making room after room. We would then play house, but really the best part was the building. No grandkids in sight, so I'm just taking a walk down memory lane.

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    1) Riding bikes until dusk. Hearing mums calling each child -- and my dad could whistle so loud that you could hear it all through the neighbourhood -- and hearing kids argue about going to bed when it was still light outside!
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  • 13 years ago
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  • 13 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

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  • 13 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

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  • 13 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    I grew up in a remote area just like Shannon and I relate to her river days. When my sister and weren't called 'The God Dust Twins', we were called 'The River Rats' in the summers. Our town sign post said Pop:125. We used to laugh and say they must have counted all the dogs, cats and flies to come up with that number. I went to a one room school with 18 kids total.

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  • 13 years ago
    last modified: 9 years ago

    I've been MIA for awhile but I'm back and this was so great to read! Love, love, love it! It was almost like I played w/ you all in a secret childhood peek into your life. How fun!