When the greiving begins before death
My mother and I kept my grandmother at home, she went into hospice for two days before she died.
My Mother passed in her home.
My Husbands father had to go to the hospital for a few days when he passed.
I found it so much easier to grieve when they were with us before they passed on, it was almost like they went to the Lord slowly, and I was able to let myself grieve before they had actually gone away from us.
I wish for everyone to be able to slowly work their way into death, and I pray for all of you who had to endure the quickness of death.
I have been blessed with having my elders with me when they passed, now we are the old ones left.