Anybody with Reverse Mortgage experience?
20 years ago
Featured Answer
Sort by:Oldest
Comments (8)
- 20 years agolast modified: 11 years ago
Related Discussions
Mortgage Lifter Naturally Whispy????
Comments (17)Well after more thought I am thinking that my problem might be due to the amount of sun the plant is getting. One plant is about 5-6 feet tall and not terrible wispy the other plant seems to be getting allot more shade (new spot this year for the container trying to sqeeze in an extra plant). I also attribute the leaves to me not using trays this year on my containers and letting them sit on the mulch. I think on the sitting on the mulch they may not drain quite as well and are retaining allot more water. Even though we are getting the heat 90+ I am going to try and water every other day instead of every day with 1/2 to 1 gallon of water a day and see if that helps. I have been reading of so many differetn heirlooms I want to try next year I have not decided on if mortage lifter will be in the top or not. Depends on the taste I guess....See MoreDon't Prepay Your Mortgage [Consumer Reports]
Comments (34)Hi Penny, Is it really better to always invest or save rather than pay down? Nothing is ever "ALWAYS" anything, of course. Paying your cash into your real estate equity rather than into safer, more accessible accounts, or accounts with principal protection guarantees, is primarily an emotional benefit for those who choose to do so. For these folks the emotional "feeling" is more important than the actual financial security... and that is FINE when the choice is made with eyes wide open to the risks of only getting halfway there and being trapped with remaining payments and no income or savings. What if you are older and almost living paycheck to paycheck and so can save/invest little...wouldn't it be best to reduce the debt? If you are older and living paycheck to paycheck then SAFETY RESERVES are exponentially more important than reducing your debt prematurely. CASH IS SAFETY... when you are swimming in excess cash, THEN you can safely eliminate the longterm debt. I'm a relatively recent lurker here, but would like clarity, as this is an area of great worry for me, a middle-aged, single first-time homebuyer. Since my 30 year fixed mortgage on my inexpensive home will have me making payments until my late 70's,I have felt compelled to pay what extra I could on the principal over the last 5 years, only reducing my loan about 2 years worth or so, so far. All of that hwile still living paycheck to paycheck? (Or was that a hypothetical of somebody else?) Far better to build up your safety reserves as fast as you can. A surprise stoppage of income for an extended period of time can never be "saved" by partially reduced debt... but accumualted cash CAN save your hide. Unfortunately, I recently stopped extra principal payments reasoning that I need to focus more on paying down my hefty student loans. I am nervous about having all this debt! Accumulate cash first, at least until you have enough safely saved to pay all of your total living costs for at least 12 months if you found yourself unemployed and without supplemental income sources. Once you have that safety net underneath you, THEN if you emotionally must, you can begin chipping down the debt balances. If you ultimately die in debt but never without the ability to pay... that is better than trying to live without cash but only partially debt-free. At any rate, I know that I will be forced to work until my mortgage is paid off...Given the circumstances, wouldn't it make sense to want to pay it off? Sigh, wondering if I'm doing it all wrong...Penny. It only "makes sense" emotionally, not financially. Go for safety and security FIRST, and you can go for the emotional good feelings later, when you can safely afford them. Good luck, and welcome to the boards! Dave Donhoff Strategic Equity & Leverage Planner...See Morebank-owned winterized home: inspection and mortgage questions
Comments (23)cordavamom: "He said as long as the house had power he could do an inspection on the whole house, he'd turn on the water etc. The bank is okay with him doing this. Winter is well over, (it's 77 degrees here today). the bank has made no mention of my son having the home re winterized if the contract falls through -- is this normal?" I can't speak for what is normal with a bank. That said, obviously if the house has power and gas, the electrical and HVAC system can indeed be inspectedand of course, roof structural, which are non-utilities dependent. However, IMO, the HI is a fool to turn on the water....as he is bargaining that there are no problems with the plumbing that could cause property damage. Granted, with a 3 year old home, the chance of that being the case is less than with an older home...however, with a foreclosure, all bets are off as far as the norm...as all too often foreclosed properties are damaged due to owners who want pay-back because of the foreclosure (such as those who were duped by the predatory lenders) or, in a divorce, people can get mighty vindictive. Sometimes the damage is obvioussometimes hidden. We had neighbors who divorced. They had a beautifully upgraded home, very well maintained; the hubby was the original owner of the house brand new, pre-marriage. They split because the wife was having an affair; she continued to live in the house with the children...then had affair guy move in with her. Needless to say, soon to be X was VERY upset...the house went into foreclosure. Wife and affair guy moved out. The bank held an open house through a realtorand we were shocked to see what had been done to the insidedamage everywherethe couple who bought it spent thousands on repairsand he was a contractor..so labor was not an issue. That said, your son needs to make certain that the HI carries errors and omissions insurancethat way, if any damage occurs once the water is turned on, the HI has the financial resources with which to cover it....in addition, your son should make sure that there is some sort of condition in the HI contract where your son cant be held for damages due to the HI turning on the water when he hasnt a clue as to whether of not there is a plumbing problem Last but not least, the water should be on for at least 48 hours prior to inspection, in order to determine if there are any leaks as water somtimes needs a while to circulate before some problems can become evident Last but not least, as you son has no claim to the property, the bank, as the owner/seller would be responsible for any required "winterization", unless your son signed something agreeing otherwise Hope this helps...See MoreMy Mortgage Company Neighbor... and the odd stuff it does.
Comments (19)There was never any indication of foreclosure and the house has not been put up for sale. It will be interesting to see how this plays out. The brother and sister, aged 98 and 94, were taken out of the house against their will. He had advanced cancer and she was legally blind and was trying to take care of him in this 3 story house with just one bathroom on the second floor. He could not get up or down stairs. and she, a tiny thing at 4' 7" and 75 pounds, could not care for his needs. A visiting nurse was the one who did what was necessary to get them out and into a nursing home. He died within a month and she lasted less than a year. She was a sweetheart, he however was not. The family said it had nothing to do with his age, he was spoiled by his mother and was nasty and arrogant all his adult life. His massive collection of antiques included some ancient Chinese vases, etc from the 14th century . Yet all the collection was stored in an old run down mansion that he rented. The 18 rooms were filled with all kinds of valuable pieces collecting dirt just piled around in no organization with just narrow paths to get through. It was unbelievable to see what was there and the way the two of them lived at home in virtual poverty. Home was a large estate that was sold of an acre at a time in order to support his habit. Ours was the last lot sold....See More- 20 years agolast modified: 11 years ago
- 20 years agolast modified: 11 years ago
- 20 years agolast modified: 11 years ago
- 18 years agolast modified: 11 years ago
- 13 years agolast modified: 11 years ago
- 13 years agolast modified: 11 years ago
Related Stories

WORKING WITH PROS3 Reasons You Might Want a Designer's Help
See how a designer can turn your decorating and remodeling visions into reality, and how to collaborate best for a positive experience
Full Story
FURNITUREHow to Find Great Antiques Near You
Experience the thrill of the hunt with these tips for finding the best sources of antiques in your area
Full Story
LIFECould You Be a Landlord?
Sure, the extra income would be great. But jumping blindly into owning a rental property could be disastrous. Here's what you need to know
Full Story
GREEN BUILDINGHouzz Tour: An Energy-Efficient Home for 3 Generations
This Australian house takes sustainability and accessibility to a new level
Full Story
FUN HOUZZDon’t Be a Stickybeak — and Other Home-Related Lingo From Abroad
Need to hire a contractor or buy a certain piece of furniture in the U.K. or Australia? Keep this guide at hand
Full Story
HOUZZ TOURSHouzz Tour: Modern Treetop Living in Sydney
Encouraging connections and calm, this Australian family home among the trees is all about subtlety
Full Story
KITCHEN APPLIANCESFind the Right Cooktop for Your Kitchen
For a kitchen setup with sizzle, deciding between gas and electric is only the first hurdle. This guide can help
Full Story
FURNITUREOld Furniture: Clean, Reupholster or Replace It?
A veteran upholstery cleaner weighs in on the options for found, inherited and thrift store furniture
Full Story
REMODELING GUIDESOriginal Home Details: What to Keep, What to Cast Off
Renovate an older home without regrets with this insight on the details worth preserving
Full Story
MIDCENTURY HOMESHouzz Tour: An Eichler's Interior Gets a Major Overhaul
Extensive interior work gives a 1973 home in California better flow and a brighter outlook
Full StorySponsored
celticmoon