Why is choosing tile so difficult?
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Comments (2)I would do painted white in the guest bath and something to match the fabulous wardrobe in your master bedrm in the the masterbath. I can't really picture the light maple, but I've never been a fan of maple cabs....See Morewhy is it so difficult
Comments (3)Thank you for your advice. He does have a VERY complicated past, but has taken anger management classes, and is getting back to working now. (after his kids got taken away he didn't work for 3 years, severely depressed) So on those things, he HAS changed. I thought things would get better because with time I would understand that past is past, and that his future is with me. It is very unlikely that he will see any of his kids before they turn 18, so the only way I will have to deal with them is court dates about child support and pictures on the wall. But even with these things I feel upset, and no matter how many times he assures me that he loves me, it doesn't seem to help. I also have problems trusting him, but he's swore never to lie again. Most of the lies he made was not to scare me away, and I can understand that, but I cannot forgive it. I tried to go several times before we got married, but he got so upset, didn't want to live anymore etc etc. I do know how much he loves and needs me, and I love him so much! He does everything he can for me, is very affectionate and always shows me how much I mean to him. But it seems like nothing is going our way. I don't have work status, he hardly makes the rent so we stay with his family, I don't know anyone here and no one in my family has met him. I can't go home for a visit because of the immigration process. I feel completely isolated, all while I have the most caring and giving husband. I do feel inferior to him, and I do know that he wasn't a model father. When I first met him, I had just ended my first serious relationship (4 yrs), with someone who had never been with anyone else, and was the same age as I. Maybe that's why I'm so resentful, I never had to deal with any of these things and was very naiv. Everything happened very fast, because of the distance (couldn't be with him unless we got married). It just feels like where he before would listen to my opinions, now just throws it away saying I'm only 23, I don't know this and that. It's probably true, but it hurts having my own husband say that. He's also very loyal, but can be pretty controlling. He even claims that taking the bus is too dangerous, and gets very upset if I want to go somewhere without him. These things are not the main issue though, that being his past. As long as you know someone needs you and loves you, and you love them, how can you just forget about the promise to be together for ever, and for sure ruin their whole world. He needed a new start and a second chance in life. I gave it to him, but am so full of regrets. People have mistreated him his whole life, and he's doing EVERYTHING he can. How do I find it in my heart to step up to the commitment I made when I married him, and not just think about him having four kids and how that complicated my life. I do love him so much. Sorry for writing so much, just needed to get it out....See MoreWhy is it so difficult to find and hire a pro for smaller remodel?
Comments (19)I usually agree with you, Sophie, but not on this one. I have a WONDERFUL handyman - he's worked for me now for about 15-18 years. He's in great demand in my neighborhood as he's an excellent workman, is honest and works quickly - no breaks to check his email or have a smoke or a drink. Mine prices jobs only by the hour. If one wants a set price, he tells them upfront it's going to cost them more as he's going to build in "surprise" money just in case. I think he charges $75 @ hr. He is not a licensed electrician but can do lots of small jobs - he has a brother who is and for big jobs they work together. He said he'd have to give up his business and do a 2 yr apprenticeship to be licensed in my state and that's just not realistic. He knows what he can and cannot do. He's invaluable. He much prefers doing small jobs and I know he makes a good living doing this. He was at my house today to hang a new door on a cabinet in my breakfast room. He also checked my whole-house generator, which he and his brother installed - it went on yesterday during a power outage of a few hours, but I saw a light on it I had not previously seen. So he checked it and it's due for a servicing which he will do later this week. If he could clone himself multiple times, all of his "clones" would be as busy as he is. He's who I call if a fence section blows down and I need help quickly. He installed inside storm windows on my basement Crittall windows - I'd have frozen if he hadn't. He has added outlets to rooms when I've needed them. He has repaired the trellis under a small deck off my DR. I can't even remember all that he has done but I would find life in my house very hard without him. He would never be happy working for someone else, and he would never tolerate the work ethic (or lack thereof) of any helpers. He's a one man band and he plays a VERY sweet tune!...See Moreshould white really be so difficult?
Comments (31)I agree with Lori and as a student of hers I also don’t recommend “cutting” colors. Why use a shotgun when a rifle is more effective. Jan has those years experience with tons of intuitive talent so do I. However, i have taken Lori’s Camp Chroma course and it has added immensely to my color knowledge and couple with my intuitive skills and experience I will forever use these new learnings. Thanks Lori! You say you want to stay in the BM Historical colors, but if you “cut” one of those colors you have by definition moved to a different color out of the “Historical” group. For starters i would prime the walls with Standish White. I am sure that is impacting all your perceptions. You have to do it anyway because that yellow will come through and distort the color you hope to achieve....See Morepricklypearcactus
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