Mother-in-law cottage...to build or not to build?
covenantbuilders
16 years ago
Featured Answer
Sort by:Oldest
Comments (11)
zone_8grandma
16 years agoallison0704
16 years agoRelated Discussions
Mother in laws disparaging remarks
Comments (35)I'm laughing reading these! It's amazing how rude people can be, isn't it? We get comments all the time from people. "When are you going to finish this, you should just bulldoze it and build new, yadda yadda!" I get so annoyed! I truly think that some of it is jealousy. Alot of people would be too intimidated to take on a historic home, and when they see what hard work can do, it gets them a little jealous. What makes me mad is the fact that if I were to make a comment about their ugly, lifeless, no character new home, I'd be a witch, but they can say whatever they want about an old home in the process of restoration! WTH?? That always makes me so mad! I don't have a MIL, she passed away years ago. My FIL is married, and she's a witch. She hates us and can be really jealous about our house. My FIL has a really old house, but there isn't a speck of character in it. The old woodwork is all gone, the outside is vinyl and has none of the original moldings, and the porches he put in are all concrete and he had aluminum columns which didn't at all go with the house. When new wife came in, she had the house resided and porch posts replaced the columns, but it still has no character, so she's really jealous of our place. Our local newspaper did an article on our home, and she NEVER has mentioned it to us, and we know she has seen it. We live in a small town, and she works in the village hall, and countless people have commented to us about it, and we know they have commented to her as well. I'm sure that made her blood boil! lol She gets the paper and so does the village hall, so she read it. She also won't come to our house for our children's birhtday parties. She conveniently needs a vacation every 4 months, just when our kids have their birthdays. She avoids our place like the plague! I find the silence and ignoring almost more annoying than mean comments that I could say a witty comeback to. My BIL also has made countless comments about our house, he's such a little jerk! I do give him comebacks. He's the one who is a childless bachelor that loves to give out child rearing advice as well! *roll eyes* He's an incredibly jealous person though. Anyway, I loved reading all of these! It's nice to have a thread to vent on! lol...See MoreMother in Law says DO NOT get black granite!! But I want it!
Comments (46)I came from polished AB pre-remodel and have now put in another black granite - not AB. I love black granite. The one i have now (blues in the night) is a black granite with cobalt blue flecks in it (like the gold flecks of Black Galaxy) and a few clear quartz veiny bits here and there. Yes, in my experience, black granite shows dust and crumbs. The AB showed it very clearly - it is slightly less clear in this new black granite because the flecks can disguise some of the crumbs. Personally, while I love my blue-flecked black granite, the polished AB was easier to maintain. Why? Because it showed the gunk perfectly and so it was easy to clean up. It's a kitchen counter! It ought to be clean! I don't like the idea of cooking on a grimy countertop. In my house, surfaces do get dusty (we probably need to vaccuum more often but we're not home enough to do so) and it is easier if the dust and grime shows up clearly so that it can be attended to. I clean my counters a lot more now because it is a touch less easy to tell if the counter is actually clean. NOt only that, but I wipe the counters down, obsess over a spot that turns out to be a granite inclusion, conclude as much, step back to see what I might have missed, revisit a few spots - oops this one's an inclusion, nope this guy was an actual crumb, bend down to change the viewing angle to find another perspective from which to find unattended areas - wipe down the areas I missed ... . Do you see what I mean? If you want your counters actually clean rather than just looking so, Absolute Black tells you exactly where to focus. It was easily the easiest counter I've had. I love Blues-in-the-night and would get it again and again and again because I adore those cobalt confetti-like inclusions. But even it - for all its black graniteness - is more work to maintain than the AB, in my own experience. A more detailed, dirt-hiding granite would make my head explode, I dare say....See MoreWhat to do about un-permitted "mother-in-law's apartment"? Michigan
Comments (9)Let me get this straight. You built a living space with no permits, are storing cars and trailers illegally, and now the public servant who is simply doing the job we're paying him to do is being a "dick"? I lived in Oakland county for a decade. Had a neighbor run electric and a hose out to his mother-in-law's 5th wheel parked in the driveway in a neighborhood of $400,000.00 homes. I couldn't get inspection to do a damn thing. Too bad this inspector didn't work for Orion township in 2011. Throw yourself to the mercy of the bureaucrats. Comply with the law. Pay for your mistakes. Don't whine and name-call. Thanks....See Moredoes anyone have plan ideas w/ 2-mother in law suites
Comments (117)CEM TOSA, I appreciate your experience and knowledge. I’m sure your home will be beautiful. I will do the best I can with mine. We are not rushed at this time to build. If we proceed with building now, I do realize the prices/economy will not allow the size or everything I love. But to dream and plan is the most enjoyable thing to me. We will see in a year or two what will be then....See Moresierraeast
16 years agochisue
16 years agocovenantbuilders
16 years agohoney11
16 years agoallison0704
16 years agoflgargoyle
16 years agomgaffneyla
7 years agoMatthew
7 years ago
Related Stories
HOUSEPLANTSMother-in-Law's Tongue: Surprisingly Easy to Please
This low-maintenance, high-impact houseplant fits in with any design and can clear the air, too
Full StoryCONTRACTOR TIPSBuilding Permits: What to Know About Green Building and Energy Codes
In Part 4 of our series examining the residential permit process, we review typical green building and energy code requirements
Full StoryAPARTMENTSHouzz Tour: Life in a Converted School Building
A son renovates a space his mother can call her own when she comes to visit
Full StoryGREEN BUILDINGInsulation Basics: Heat, R-Value and the Building Envelope
Learn how heat moves through a home and the materials that can stop it, to make sure your insulation is as effective as you think
Full StoryHOUZZ TOURSHouzz Tour: A Connecticut Beach House Builds New Memories
Extensive renovations make an 8-bedroom summer home ready for a family and many guests
Full StoryREMODELING GUIDESSo You Want to Build: 7 Steps to Creating a New Home
Get the house you envision — and even enjoy the process — by following this architect's guide to building a new home
Full StoryEARTH DAYHow to Build a Greener Driveway
Install a permeable driveway to keep pollutants out of water sources and groundwater levels balanced
Full StoryCOMMUNITYCommunity Building Just About Anyone Can Do
Strengthen neighborhoods and pride of place by setting up more public spaces — even small, temporary ones can make a big difference
Full StoryMOST POPULARMy Houzz: Hip Midcentury Style for a Mom's Backyard Cottage
This 1-bedroom suite has everything a Texas mother and grandmother needs — including the best wake-up system money can't buy
Full StoryREMODELING GUIDESDesign Workshop: Is an In-Law Unit Right for Your Property?
ADUs can alleviate suburban sprawl, add rental income for homeowners, create affordable housing and much more
Full Story
kateskouros