A picture really would help. You can upload one from a smartphone.

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Why not just use Alabaster? If you want to go lighter than Accessible Beige, then you’re heading into whites anyway. I’m not sure I’d want to add another white to the mix with Dover and Alabaster. I’d pick one of them and I like the look of all one white for wall and trim. Aesthetic white is the shade lighter than Accessible Beige. Or you could choose Dover, but I think it’s nice to have some contrast with cabinets. Dover looks yellow against any white that isn’t a creamy yellow.

I agree with jck910 on hardwood throughout. The color of your floors and table are very nice. New floors that color would look great with Scandinavian design. Do you have a budget? After flooring, I would look for 2 medium sized couches to start with. You can place them in an L shape or across from each other. Then a coffee table. Do a layout with cutouts on graph paper to check sizes. A nice rug will help bring it all together. Here is a colorful picture for inspiration and one showing some wall storage.