I've never had luck finding either here. Look at my post "ubid.com" on the Conversations page.

Your bathroom looks great so far! We used WM in our kitchen, and in looking for paint colors for our glass BS, we found that greenish grays or blue-green greys looked best with the WM. (Charcoal also looks good, but probably would not work well with your floors.) Take a look at Dusty Dream (DE6312) by Dunn Edwards. The sample we tried looked great with the WM. We went one shade lighter (Haze Blue) for our BS because we have walnut cabinets and wanted a lighter shade on the walls, but Dusty Dream would look great for cabinets, IMHO. A couple of the darker shades on that swatch card could also work well. One card over, Grey Flannel (DE6319) was also a color that looked really good with WM. Here is a link that might be useful: Dunn Edwards

We will have white cabinets and absolute black honed granite. However, I think our solution will work for soapstone. My husband did not want a white backsplash - he thought it would look too sterile. When we met with our decorator on thursday, we came up with a very, very light green subway tile. We are going to mount it in a heringbone pattern (if I spelled that right!). We will pull in some more color (darker green & whitish cream tile) over the stove. It will be very subtle, but at least something different. We picked out the vermouth color. See this page: http://www.decor-n-tile.com/IMAGEgallery28.htm (it is at the bottom) I hope this helps!

FYI, here are some of my inspiration photos. I love the red accents in this first one (my compliments to SoonerMagic--I hope it's OK that I'm re-posting this) but I'm just not sure if white subway tile might be too stark in our kitchen. Our cabs are white rather than off-white, there's no window above the sink and there won't be much painted wall showing. If we went with this color scheme we'd probably do something like BM Bennington Gray on the walls. Not certain if we'd use the contrasting grout or go with something whiter. I like how the beige-y backsplash in this 2nd photo adds a little more color to the room. Was thinking a subway tile in this shade might still work nicely with red accents (with paint in a similar beige shade): A third option would be to do a grayish paint (BM Gray Owl?) and go with a subway tile in carrara marble something like the one below (sorry--I'm not sure whose pic this is). The problem is I'm not sure that would coordinate well with the red in our dining room. It's also a cooler color scheme than I'd originally planned. Any thoughts? Our floors are hardwood, by the way--similar to the color in pic #2 or just a touch lighter. Thanks again for all the input!