That's really something that you've planted SO many trees, Pam! I know you'll enjoy watching them all grow. I think by far the best book for a butterfly beginner would be The Life Cycles of Butterflies by Judy Burris and Wayne Richards. They're brother and sister, and Judy posts on the Butterfly Forum occasionally. The book explains the basics of butterflies, gives examples of their host plants and some of their favorite nectar plants in the authors' area (Kentucky) and has some of the best pictures of eggs and caterpillars out there. Her book includes just about all the butterflies you'll find in the coastal Virginia area. I'm sure its available at Amazon.com, and you might find it at a local book store. I've been weeding and pruning my garden today - hopefully, I'll get it finished soon! Sherry

There is no problem composting the leaves or wood chips from the Sweetgum, "Liquidambar styraciflua", tree. Handling the leaves and wood can, often, give that turpentine odor but it will dissipate over time.

I'm with your wife. But, here's a link to some info on 'Florel' - hope your trees aren't too big - I'd hate to think about having to spray some of the monsters in my grandmother's yard or our place at the lake when I was a kid Here is a link that might be useful: Florel

You might post on Garden Exchange, Plant Exchange, or Seed Exchange. Best luck!