I like the purple chairs too, very much. The particular shade of purple you chose is rich and beautiful, but does not jar the eye. I like the idea of a purple chair overgrown with some beautiful vine, as though the owner had slipped off through a secret door and would come back a few moments later to find that three years had gone by. You can tell I am addicted to fairy tales. I also understand the urge to do something new with your garden, and I like the idea of the arbor and bench. After all, gardening is a craft that by its very nature invites change. If we wanted to work in a medium that stayed done when we finished it, we would take up quilting or woodcarving or welding. And indeed, some of us do those things as well. Rosefolly

Judy, you are leaving your house, and I slept in my new one. Soon you will be able to say this too. We stayed on our camping mattresses in our house. I didn't sleep well. Weird, as I usually sleep well on that mattress, but in a tent. Maybe I should have pitched mine? LOL We spent all day yesterday cleaning (sweeping out cabinets and washing them out). Sure is messy cleaning up after others. I am tired of that. I hope, yours will be clean enough to pass the white glove test. Enjoy your time with your son. "see" you soon. Moni

My neighbor's house had cedar shakes; they replaced them with cement shakes, like a Hardi plank. This kept the traditional style of their home, but allowed them to paint their house the color they wanted, and it is virtually maintenance free. After seeing that, we replaced our redwood lap siding with Hardi plank. We painted it, and after 6 years, it still looks great. We definitely don't miss the maintenance that the redwood required. I am sure you won't miss the cedar maintenance either. I would consider looking at that product and keep the traditional style look of your home with either shakes or lap siding. I would also do true architectural shingles on the roof. It adds such a beautiful dimension to the roof, and would add interest. They are more expensive, but have a long life. I do like the current color combination of your home, and I like the portico in the photo grapefruit1_ar posted. EIther the clean lines or the portico, it could go either way. Such a great classic style.

Ocotillo, I am truly very sorry for your loss. It is so, so hard, I don't have the words to even describe the pain. I'm sorry I didn't comment earlier but I think I was mentally preparing myself for what I knew we were probably facing with our Emma, and to read of your heartache and loss, and the kind messages of condolences, was more than I could bear.