I guess trades were on my mind, I meant to say thank you to Trianglejohn for making the arrangements. 1.I have a trade from yesterday that wasn't labeled just a little uncurled redish/green leaf exposed,in a medium small black 4"pot?the dirt is nice and dark with big chunks of bark mulch? Any clues? 2. A 3" black pot with seedlings(multiple)looks like it could be pepper plants-this dirt is also nice and dark potting soil with a little snail and birch seed thingys 3. The 6 pack of campanulas, any idea what type/color? ( label is a white plastic with black marker 4. Last question, I brought home a beautiful canna it is in a stryfoam planter,do you think it could stay in that or is the pot to small for the mature plant? Also do you know the name? Thanks again, Beth

Stacy, glad to hear that he is making such good progress. It will be a tough road ahead for a while, but I know you both will handle it well. Thanks for the update; keep them coming when you have time. Sue

Watch for personality changes, even very temporary ones. Most will show signs if they are using meth, and may be 'tweaking' right in front of you. It may not last long. Long time results may cause the hair and teeth to fall out. If she is using then she will need funds to buy, so watch anything that could bring her quick cash. If she wants to be around her friends, beware. They may help her feed her habit. A man who knows he is going to jail when caught has little to lose, so he may not mind commiting another crime. You may be able to get a protective order, but keep in mind that a PO is only a piece of paper and a bullet will go right through it. Where it helps is if he is arrested then a violation of the PO is an additional crime and he might be jailed more quickly. I hope Lee doesn't have friends that read KT, because you not only announced where she was, but announced to him that Tanner had lied to him. Remember, this is a public forum and anyone can read it. She may not remember how to function in a normal family situation any longer, so don't let her destroy yours. Call every agency you can and try to get her some help. You can't do it yourself. Just so you know, I have not experienced this myself but have worked in a field where I dealt with users, and my husband is still connected with two programs. Even with excellent programs, and a failure meaning certain jail time, not all addicts will be able to stay clean. In closing, please remember that no matter how good your children are, you can't take all the credit, and no matter how bad they are, you can't take all the blame. They have freedom to choose for themselves. Sometimes they make bad choices too often that leads them into addiction and they no longer can make a choice. Get her some help at the earliest possible time, and don't beat yourself up. She is an adult, just not a responsible one.

It's about 7-8 years, i think. took about 3-4 years of TLC then it took off the past 2 years.