Goodbye old garden-Hello new garden
Susan Serra
15 years ago
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Comments (5)I sent you a email Alica,Please select on the name mastergarder2003 20 paks from my list and we can exchange address if this is ok. I had a hard time emailing you through your list so I typed in your email and sent a email to you and copy an paste my list to it. thanks Bon. Lmk. Thank you I hope this works ok for you....See MoreNew home,, Miss my old garden..
Comments (18)I know exactly what you're going through. I moved at the end of June last year and the grieving process was started by me being unable participate or even to look at these forums, or buy any gardening mags and flip through them. The thought of leaving my 5 year old garden which I'd created from nothing - was unbearable. I'd read many tear-jerking posts here about the subject, so I knew what feelings to expect but it was still very hard. A member of my family moved into my old home and I thought it would be easier but its almost worse. My husband doesnt know why I can't go back there maybe couple of times in the summer and "fix it up a bit" LOL. The new owner said she couldn't wait to add to it and put her own touches in it, but I can see that she's not really interested, and by September last year it was so weedy and overgrown that I suddenly found it easy to say my private goodbyes and move on. So I concentrated all my efforts on looking ahead and transforming this place. It's 3 times bigger than the old one, and is much much emptier, so here I go with a soccer field again. Just a bigger one. There are some perennials here but its weird... I still don't feel much of a connection to them. Almost like someone else's kids were dropped off at my house. So from June to frost last year I begrudgingly tended to the odd combinations of yarrow and lenten rose... of ditch lilies and clematis... swore at the huge patches of mint and wild violets, swore louder at the price of plants down here (how does 3 x sound?), and looked for some strapping young men to dig a few new garden beds for me. One of them looks a bit like a burial mound so I'll be re-shaping that as soon as the ground thaws. There is no connection between anything in my yard yet, so I will enjoy working on that this year. I really need to keep looking ahead, instead of mourning for the past non-gardening year. Threedogsmom is absolutely right - don't look back. A very dear friend told me this last year -- your garden is a reflection of you, your artistic expression and your beauty. Without you, it has neither of those things....See MoreNew gardener : Hello all !
Comments (2)I too am new here and have a ton of questions! Thanks so much for your help in advance. I have already gone through some old posts and feel like I learned a ton! Thanks Michele...See Morenew gardener just saying hello
Comments (5)Welcome!!! I too, am new to SFG. Last year, I paid for someone to dig some beds out around the foundation of the house, figuring I would plant perennials. When all was said and done, because of my impending divorce, I didn't want to spend money on perennials and instead, threw cuc's, tomatoes, eggplant, peppers and basil in the beds (if you haven't guessed yet, I am italian.) :-) They did so well and with that, I became addicted to gardening!!! This year, I am building four 8 x 4 beds in the yard. And will also use the beds around the foundation for more veggies. Why bother planting stuff on the sides of the house when I can grow something that we can eat??? It will fill in during the summer and nobody will see them in the winter. BUT, while my house may not be the nicest in the winter months, the impact my garden had on my neighborhood last summer was priceless. I am a newly single mom. I bought out my ex's equity in the house. As a single mom, owning a home is a little daunting. But my little garden helped me with that!!! Before having a garden, I didn't know my neighbors. Our houses are pretty far apart. Last summer, while bringing extra veggies to my next door neighbor, he introduced me to his next door neighbor. So I started leaving baggies of fresh veggies on his mailbox when I had extra. He in turn, introduced me to another neighbor and so on and so on etc. Now, a year later, we all know each other. And have since become friends. And knowing that I am a single mom with two little kids, they now look out for me. They have helped me tremendously. They help fix clogged drains. Taught me how to spackle. Told me to turn off water pipes going to the outside faucets in the fall. All the little things that you need to know when you own a home. They have even sent over the "construction" guys when they were doing home improvements to see if I needed help with anything. And sometimes, when I get up too late to bring the garbage to the curb, I find that someone else pulled it from the side of my garage and my garbage is taken out. Through my little garden and extra veggies that I gave away, I have gotten more help than I could ever hope from my ex!!! My intentions when giving away the veggies was simply that they wouldn't go to waste. I wasn't looking for anything in return and honestly felt that knowing and becoming friends with the neighbors was really nice. While I appreciate all of their help, nothing proved more important to me than last week. I was on the phone with a friend and happened to look out my kitchen window. And saw the mental, schizo, bipolar neighbor sitting at my outdoor table. In his boxers. And taking off his shirt. And it was 40 degrees out. I immediately called the cops. Then called my neighbor across the street and asked her if her husband could come over and stay with us until the cops came. He was here within one minute. I was comfortable knowing that a guy was in the house with us. But the wife called all of the other neighbors. Within five minutes later, I had 5 more people in my living room to stay with me. And another mom in the neighborhood took my five year old and three year old to her house while I waited for the police. The police came a few minutes later. I've never felt so threatened yet so safe at the same time. And it all stemmed from my few cucumber, tomato, eggplant, pepper and basil plants that produced too much!!!...See Morezeffyrose
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