Help! Why are male gouramis committing suicide?
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My 19yr old son commited suicide
Comments (15)I am so, so, sorry for your loss. We would love to hear all about Justin and see a picture of him also. Please feel free to tell us all about him when you feel like it. I too, lost a 19 year old daughter.I know you probably feel like you can't live another 5 minutes. I promise you, as time goes on it will get a little easier. If you would like to meet my 19 year old who is in heaven with your son, click on the site below. Lu Here is a link that might be useful: Christin Cosby Memorial Web Site...See MoreMale to Male Cord
Comments (25)Definitely #1. Your electrician is a hack, plain and simple. For one thing, properly-educated, trained, licensed electricians follow the electrical code, which this guy clearly does not. They also don't tend to learn much from the low-voltage guys. The need for safety extends beyond you. What if somehow the cord gets unplugged accidentally? Say you're moving some equipment around in the closet and something snags the cord. Now you've got a live end floating around. What you are talking about doing is, like it or not, both unsafe and illegal. Your electrician needs to be, at the minimum, cursed out. If this particular project is any sign of how he does other work, sued-into-oblivion might not be too severe. IT'S AGAINST CODE. YOUR ELECTRICIAN EITHER DOESN'T KNOW WHAT HE'S TALKING ABOUT OR IS LYING TO YOU....See MoreUnderstanding suicide..why why why??? :(
Comments (51)So sorry to hear about your friend. DH is currently hospitalized for a severe clinical depression.One of the reasons I decided to get him in to the hospital was that he was talking of hopelessness,and that he couldn't see any way out of it.This sent alarms off in my mind.Dr's had allready experimented with a couple of anti depressants that wern't working for himHe was fortunate that I noticed and reconized the symptons right away.Since his depression started in June,I had read everything I could find which I'm sure helped me a great deal in making the decision.He did admit to the Dr that thoughts of suicide had crossed his mind,so it was a huge relief for me to have him in a safe place where he was being helped and monitered 24/7. Some people either don't have the support of family,or are able to hide their despair so well that the family isn't aware of how desperate they are. I've had two close friends who have recently lost a close family member to suicide,so I see the pain it leaves the family with first hand. I would imagine it's a feeling of total hopelessness that in the end drives them to commit this final act. DH is making progress ever so slowly,but at least for now I know he's safe. Hugs..Granlan........See MoreGordon Ramsay ('Kitchen Nightmares') Committed Suicide!
Comments (26)Yes, LOL the title of the post made me go WHAT??? and the go that's gotta be a hoax. But in fairness, the headline on the article was extremely poorly worded, albeit not unusual for the source. I suspect tabloid sensationalism. The main point to me though is that Cerniglia was on the show 3 years ago! For the sake of argument let's say he did get upset with being told he's running things into the ground. It took 3 *years* for it to be the last straw? Nothing happened in between to make him jump? I doubt it. Rachel's death came a year at least after being on Hell's Kitchen for what, only 4 or 5 episodes? I'm sure there's other shows whether they be Orca Windbag, Dr. Fail, Springer's Trailer Trash Tryouts or any number of shows where people have committed suicide sometime after their appearance and nobody suggests a connection to them. Suicide happens. Unfortunate, but it does. Some examples: ⢠Ryan Alexander Jenkins, a former participant on VH1 reality series "Megan Wants a Millionaire" and "I Love Money," was found dead in a Canadian motel room amid allegations that he had earlier murdered his ex-wife in a most gruesome way. ⢠Paula Goodspeed killed herself in front of Paula AbdulâÂÂs house after she was bounced from auditions on "American Idol.â â¢ Growing Pain's "Boner" committed suicide in a Park. ⢠Cheryl Kosewicz, killed herself after being bounced from the show âÂÂPirate MastersâÂÂ. Her suicide happened just two months after Kosewicz's boyfriend, Ryan O'Neil, committed suicide himself. I won't go on but âÂÂSupernanny", "Wife Swap", "The Contender", âÂÂCelebrity Big Brotherâ and more shows have had people commit suicide after their appearances. Anyone who watches his shows closely should see that Ramsay is a very caring and compassionate person. He harps on people to do their best but when someone is really down, he really tries to build them up. What's the first thing he does when the winner of Hell's Kitchen walks through the door? Every time I've see him grab the loser before the other is through the door and console them, tells them how well they performed and the like. Lost in the kerfuffle is that Ramsay and Cerniglia have stayed in touch since the show. I suspect people don't understand that these shows are edited. There's hours upon hours of tape cut down to a 20-30 minute show run in 1/2 hr to an hour. The editors control what you see and you need to be careful about how you base your opinions from that limited info. I went back and watched that episode again. Cerniglia is a person who probably would have been far better being an employee than a boss. He stressed out very easily at least at the time. And watching the way Ramsay handled his wife was very heartwarming, though not unusual. Here is a link that might be useful: Campania episode of Kitchen Nightmares...See Moreskygee
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