My First SP, RMV, Naming Names
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Hoya sp. Flat stem has a name
Comments (4)I have this hoya and for me at least it seems to be a rather slow grower,even though I heard it grows fast. My plant is just over a year old and came to me as a 2 node rooted start.I think I now have about 6 nodes and a wait list of about 15 or so people who wish to get cuttings so some of them are going to be waiting for quite some time unless this hoya picks up the pace and starts growing like wildfire!!! Out of the 400+ hoyas that I have in my collection,only about a half dozen tend to be sluggish growers for me. one good thing about this plant is that it seems to be an early bloomer. Mine bloomed last year as a small plant and just like praetorii and lasiantha this one also produces peduncles at just about every leaf node. I don't recall the exact $$$ amount that I paid for my flat stem on Ebay but I can tell you that is was no small amount of money!!! dmichael...See MoreDoes my first tree Peony have a name? Pls help to ID!
Comments (7)Though I'm far from being an expert about peonies in general, or especially so the "tree" ones, I've read only a few articles about the Chinese Tree Peonies, and that emphasized the way they're grown moreso than the actual varieties offered, though just reading on the topic, the flower forms are generally quite different I guess, with the Chinese ones being much more doulble , without the more open centers in most Japanese ones. The major difference in one article emphasized the fact that the Chinese ones being offered may be rooted cuttings rather than the most frequently offered grafted Japanese ones found offered by most U.S. sources. There was also some discussion about proper planting depths for the grafted tops to root, and perhaps to remove or NOT to remove the herbceous rootstocks once the grafts have rooted well. Having tried that once, I no longer do, though perhaps in the long run , it might be advisable. A long topic of debate , that might prove to be however? At any rate, perhaps more of the Chinese varieties will be offered in the future, though I'm not familiar with any of them right now. As for the "unnamed" status of many plants offered by various nurseries, I'd guess it's just a slick way of offering various cultivars and hybrids, without worrying about those "touchy" pattents etc. or at least that's been my suspicioun in most cases. I guess in general it's thought that if any "unnamed" plant is offered cheaply enough, most folks aren't at all concerned about precise names for their plants?...See MoreSP adoption-changing last name of 11 yr old
Comments (15)I can't really speak on adoptions and name changes but I can say that my father was a bit upset that I did not choose to change my name back to my maiden name after I divorced my DS's father. I explained to him that I thought it could be a bit confusing, considering my maiden name and married name differed by only the first letter. I was afraid of the confusion it would cause, having a different name from my children yet at the same time our names were so similar. Now being remarried, my children's names and my name are completely different by every letter...When I did first marry my DH, I do have to say that my eldest DS said that he felt "out of place" and wanted to have his last name changed to DH's last name. That was a difficult time for him...suddenly he started writing DH's last name on his school papers. Based on this, I would say it is important to get a real answer from your son about what his thoughts are on this. It would be a little confusing changing his last name on school records, doctor's records, etc, but not really much different than a woman having to do the same thing after she marries and her name changes. As for him feeling later on that he may have betrayed your side of the family, there is always that option of changing it back. The real questions are: How does he feel about it now? How do you feel about it now? And how does DH feel about it now?...See MoreCalling Parents By First Names...
Comments (26)I started calling my mother by her first name sometime around my late teens. I have no idea how it started - I think it started as a joke when we were bowling together. It became a natural thing, same as calling someone by a nickname. It wasn't disrespectful, it wasn't because she wanted to be my equal. She never minded but I think it threw some people off when they heard it (funny how people make judgements about such a thing). Until she died a couple of years ago, when I was over 40, I still referred to her as 'Mommy' within the family. I'm sure that threw people off too(seeing a grown woman ask her even more grown sister in a store 'Where did Mommy go?' LOL)...See Morejaxondel
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