THANK YOU Carol23!!!! After looking at the pics at the link you provided it's a positive id and know I know how to approach it and to do it asap. To think I was afraid to suggest initially in my post that I thought it was a 'trash' plant. I knew someone at gardenweb would come to the rescue! I've really got to come here more often... :)

Looks like Indian Pink (Spigelia marilandica), a native plant. Here is a link that might be useful: Indian Pink

I believe it's Mirabilis jalapa, 4 o'clocks.

Well....I dunno where my post went but I sent it before campanula had replied...??? Anyway, had said to Gry...when I saw it, it looked sooo familiar to me but couldn't figure out why. Now I know it's because I already have the G. Lindheimeri Indian Feather 'Pink Fountain'. But it didn't do well last year (neglect) so had forgotten what it looked like. And when I bought it in fall of '09, it was nearly dead and on clearance so I've only seen it healthy for 2 seasons. But I didn't remember the foliage being that tall and lanky looking. Mine tends to mound more and then the flower 'stalk's get real tall. Then I said to casey & growlove that I could also see why they both responded the way they did. When I found pics of foliage on the Husker Red on Dave's Garden, the leaves looked much fatter. EXCEPT for one pic, which looked identical to my pic (except plant was a bit more mature). So I ended by saying I was still confused.....lol. But now there's campanula's suggestion of the 'Siskyou Pink' so that's making me lean towards Guara now. However, when I googled so I could compare the 'Siskyou Pink' to my 'Pink Fountain' to see the difference, I could not find any good pics of 'Pink Fountain' (the one I own now) but did find 'Siskyou Pink'. However, many of those look identical to my 'Pink Fountain',which has pink blooms -- yet other pics have a much more vivid fuschia bloom. So THAT has confused me, too... since I cannot seem to find pics of MINE (the one already have) to do a comparison. What I'm trying to say is, I know what mine looks like but can't find any decent pics of it - AND - I CAN find pics of the other one, but many of the pics look like mine. And why does this matter and what does it have to do with ID'ing the original plant? Well, nothing really...LOL. I guess I just want to figure out if what I have is really what I have (I still have the tag but we all know about how they can't always be trusted) so...if the mystery plant DOES turn out to be the 'Sysyou Pink', then I'll know it will look different than mine. Does that makes sense...???