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This came in my email from a major local hospital . I had surgery at their women’s center a few years ago. This came from their Woman’s Health Center.

Presented with no further comment ”……Each year, about 1 in 10 people with a uterus are affected….”.

The urge to share this overcame the fear of fire..

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Oh my. I was just questioning why the Womens Health Center, when addressing their patients, womem, would refer to ”people with a uterus”. Why not ”’women with a uterus.

Ok. Never mind . Seemed odd only to me, I guess. Porkchop, it was an article on endometriosus.

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bpath
last year
Well, my first reaction was ”one in ten IS”. Then it hit me. Both show my age.
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rob333 (zone 7b)
last year
Oddly enough, I just read it as somebody who didn't have a hysterectomy. So what's wrong with the statement?
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raee_gw zone 5b-6a Ohio
last year
Rob333, subject-verb agreement.

I have noticed that even the NYT is getting a bit sloppy with grammar recently.
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Lars
last year
Considering that 1 in 10 people with a uterus means 400 million people, I can see why the plural verb was used.
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porkchop_z5b_MI
last year
You quoted a partial sentence without any further context other than it was something in an email.

Saying 1 in 10 people with a uterus may be a completely appropriate way to state what is actually being said -- for example, if they are comparing something about women with a uterus vs women without a uterus, you can't say "1 in 10 women" because, after all, not all women have a uterus (hysterectomy, anyone?), and there would be nothing wrong with using the word people here..
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wildchild2x2
last year
Does the health center only treat one woman or multiple women?
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Olychick
last year
I agree Martinca...it should read women with a uterus. I think "are" is correct.
dedtired
last year
Maybe because some people with a uterus self identify as male?
rob333 (zone 7b)
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People are is correct! I do a lot of proofreading and I know that that's correct.

Because people is plural. It's one of those tricky things.
rob333 (zone 7b)
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I'm going to follow up with what I just said:

"I have noticed that even the NYT is getting a bit sloppy with grammar recently."

This has been going on for a while. It's most noticeable in news articles, and it just breaks my heart. Why is nobody editing what's going online or on the air? Seriously?!
Annie Deighnaugh
last year
I think they are trying to be inclusive of transgenders who identify as male but still have female organs as well as women who may have had theirs taken out.

(Always reminds me of when we were young children and took the dog in for spaying, mom said she was having her 'puppy maker' taken out!)
OllieJane
last year
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I'm assuming it's a so-called "health center" that lives in an imaginary world. I'd stay far away from this place.
wintercat_gw
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martinca_gw sunset zone 24

That was just woke newspeak. Consider yourself lucky they didn't define women as "people with a bonus hole". You're not showing your age. You're showing common sense.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-12587857/How-dare-say-women-chestfeeding-bonus-hole-woke-gender-neutral-language-sweeping-NHS-medical-world.html
rob333 (zone 7b)
last year
Well now, that is a horse of a different color. I don't think accepting their verbiage has anything to do with age.

I'd rather love my neighbor. And if that means being woke, I am glad I align with His view of love. It's not up to anyone how you live, but you. That's why He gave us freewill to make our own decisions.
floral_uk z.8/9 SW UK
last year
Ah, the Daily Mail. Enough said

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