excerpt from book (The Collected Regrets of Clover) I am reading: 'If you want something you don't have,' he'd said 'you have to do something you've never done' I have always heard it the opposite way (If You Always Do What You've Always Done, You'll Always Get What You've Always Got), and the above is far more inspiring.

My wife and I enjoy cilantro and I grow it, but I also like the sitcom quote (maybe from ”Friends”), ”I’m calling you cilantro because you ruin everything”. tj

And talking about babies

Thanks, eld, for wising me up. When I first saw it, I had no idea what the pic on the right was showing about. o j