I think a more updated fan, and a chandelier over the dining table (instead of a fan), would be two nice upgrades. You can get an updated/streamlined fan that you can use a remote control with.

Are you just interested in doing a minor update? What is staying? What can go?

We need more info....

What is the scope of your plans?

Cosmetic only?

Partial remodel?

Total remodel (and fix layout issues at the same time)?

Ultimately, a total remodel including removal of the walls where the stove is. However, we are going to prioritize bathroom remodel first. So in the short term, cosmetic and partial or minor item remodel. We are not married to any specific style but interested in light neutral tones. We would like to keep one formal dining room but unsure what to do with the other space.

I would not spend any money on this Kitchen if you are planning a full remodel. Anything you do now will likely be torn out and disposed of, so, ultimately, a waste of money. Just keep it clean and live with it until then

Meanwhile, I would start thinking about what you want to do with the three rooms. Planning, including figuring out design, etc., will likely take months to do it right. Start now and hopefully you will have it done when you're ready to take care of the Kitchen.

If you would like to start planning now, I recommend reading the "New to Kitchens? Read Me First!" thread: https://www.houzz.com/discussions/5972404/new-to-kitchens-read-me-first-2020-interim

Start with the Sweeby test and go from there.

One comment regarding order of remodeling...if your bathroom is serviceable, I would redo the Kitchen first as it's the most public-facing room and where you are most likely going to get the best return. However, it's up to you.

Good luck!

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