How to make this feel like home?
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From old home to new - or new to old? What does it feel like?
Comments (30)I love old houses - the quality, the history (I was THRILLED when I saw the names of the owners of our then under 5 year old house on the 1930 census), and the style. If I don't win the lottery, I will never live in another "new" build (80's and up) because the vast majority of non custom built homes are just not up to my standards. Of the 4 new builds I lived in in my life, only two were decent. The last decent one had been built by a guy who had previously done commercial building. It was built to last and I have no doubt that one would still stand after a tornado. Because of the commercial background, the finish "prettyness" wasn't there, but those details were added later, by us. The last new build was a nightmare. The "quality" semi custom build was so lacking that I can't even imagine how much worse some of the mass produced really poor quality houses will last. Within the first 5 years the deck was partially rotting (no flashing between the house and it), the roof leaked at the chimney, many of the windows wouldn't work well and/or leaked at the top, lots of the trim wood was rotting out and the floors of both 1st and 2nd floor creaked in almost every spot as did the entire staircase. And then of course you had the "minor" issues like one couldn't use a hairdryer in the master bath before resetting the outlet in the upstairs bath if someone had used a hairdryer in it before the master bath. And the defective shingles requiring a complete reroof at 3 years is hard to forget. My brother has a friend who last year moved into a house in one of those new mass built neighbourhoods in South Carolina. Brand new. 6 months after moving in, a water pipe junction burst (iirc, they thought it hadn't been correctly connected or something) in the attic while they were on vacation and ruined most of the house and their items. The builder denied responsibility and the insurance company was blaming it on the builder since the house was still under "warranty" and it was turning into a huge mess, to say the least. New does not equal free of work and I'd rather strip wallpaper than deal with finding out what corners were cut....See MoreHow to make a dark home feel bright
Comments (24)I don't think I'm conflicting? I do want to add sources of light, I just don't want to waste electricity for the hell of it - I'm a housewife and it's just me most days, so to go from trying to save energy (and my electric bill) to adding in all sorts of lighting and keeping them on all day would be a big change for me b/c I'm used to using the natural light I have during the day - which in MOST rooms is enough, it's the lack of windows/outside views that bothers me most and that feeling of being closed in because of the lack of windows visually. But I DO want to add in some other types of lighting - I said I would be shopping for lamps :) I thought it was a good suggestion and lamps can also serve as accessories. Right now I have a very large mirror above my dining room table reflecting the light from my patios doors. I also have a mirror above my chair and a half upstairs reflecting the light from a window. I also have a mirror in my bedroom. I'm not sure how many mirrors is too many in a home? Also I didn't say that I don't want to add in lighter things - I'm just not going to re-paint or buy new furniture when I just painted and bought my furniture less than a year ago. My foyer, loft/family room and office are painted BM Manchester Tan and I don't think that color is too dark. The darkest color in my home is my living room which is Nantucket Gray - but I think it's cozy. And now that I think of it my master bedroom furniture is white. So I DO have a mix of dark and light colored things in my home. I just tend to lean toward dark when it comes to certain things - light fixtures, door knobs, counters for example. I think maybe I am using the wrong words or maybe I am just being confusing (I can easily be confusing! LOL) My house isn't super dark during the day - but I don't have a lot of windows and to me, just visually, the lack of windows and lots of wall make the house feel closed in. So I am trying to see what tricks there are to make it feel less closed in. I use the word bright but maybe I don't mean bright? Maybe it's just townhouse living and I need to get over it? LOL Skylights are a good suggestion - I have one in my master bath and it lets in a TON of light. Maybe that is something to think about for the second floor and for the upstairs bathroom. Sorry about the confusion I am causing. I think I have managed to confuse myself now!...See MoreHow to make it not feel like someone else's house
Comments (54)Here's my advice: 1. Start with paint. If you have a room that is not going to require a total redecoration, paint it. It's the least expensive way for big impact. 2. If you have a few rooms that you want to redecorate, like I do, pick a room. Start creating your design board or design album. It should help you put things together visually to get a sense of the feeling of the room. Once you get your design fairly solid, paint! 3. It's OK if some rooms that are not used a frequently remain a work in progress, but rooms that you use often try to finish. Living in unfinished rooms causes me anxiety! 4. Use this site. The people here are so helpful. They give you design advice, color advice, recommend cheaper options, etc. Here's some pix/links to give you an idea: My reading room, which is still in progress Kitchen Re-do. We did it ourselves. Well, everything but the back slash and granite. Total out of pocket $7250 Kitchen design album - these were just pictures that I would save for ideas http://partypooper.smugmug.com/Other/Home-design/12883677_n2q52#936728932_3mfPf Here's the Kitchen in Progress http://partypooper.smugmug.com/Other/Kitchen-in-Progress/12963085_mDSZn#967564981_Zspyi Here's the finished Kitchen http://partypooper.smugmug.com/Family/finsishedkitchen/13429183_MMPGm#977299982_5RsyH Paint does wonders! Dining Room before - yep it was a pink living room: Dining room now: Deck before Deck after Hearth room before Hearth room after but before the kitchen redo....See MoreHelp us make this house feel like a home!
Comments (30)Perhaps you were being "tongue in cheek" with your original post about making a home. If your house is the place where you drop your belongings with no concern, sleep peacefully when you get into your bed and turn out the lights, lock the door to the outside world, and enjoy your dinner, then you have a home. No amount of home decor is going to change that. Sometimes when I am on an airplane it occurs to me that I am looking down on so many homes where the people who live there are living in their own little bubble of security and comfort in their homes. When you are in your home, it seems so encompassing and comfortable. But, when you view it from so far above, you see how very small and it is and how it is just a small drop in a sea of others just like it. but, there you are in your own little, tiny space of earth, your own tiny, tiny piece of the planet that you "own". How can such a tiny piece of the earth be filled with so much that concerns us? There are so many floors, pillows, landscaping, plumbing, rugs, kitchen cabinets, bathroom fixtures that demand our attention, yet it is such a tiny and insignificant speck of earth!!!! Sometimes I imagine what my neighborhood would look like if all of the walls and structures disappeared and all that was left was just the people, suspended right there where they are doing what ever they would be doing if the walls were still there. It is hard to imagine just how many people are surrounding you when they are all in their houses. Can you imagine the solid block of humanity that would reveal itself if it were in a large dense city? But, they are all behind walls...homes, offices, etc........ until it all disappears. At this moment I am sitting probably less than 30 feet away from my neighbors who are doing what ever it is that they are doing. They are so close, but we can't see each other., hear each other. We are each in our own little homes, with walls. Home gives us such peace and a somewhat delusional sense of safety. I love my home, no matter the decor. It is full of what gives me comfort and refuge. Losing ones home has got to be traumatizing. I feel deeply for those who have lost their homes out in California recently. My family members lost everything in Katrina. Treasure your home....and add some teal colored pillows, for sure! You are very fortunate to have a nice home to retreat to....enjoy! Maybe I will fly over your home someday....See MoreSabrina Alfin Interiors
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