Got photos???

Yes this is the house the body color is the one on the left

Those 2 grays look identical to me.

FWIW, while a pale gray is classic for exterior color, the darker grays seem to be falling out of favor now. Are you sure you want to commit to that?

Yes outaide it comes across as a midtone maybe a touch darker.

The picture is not a good one sorry

It can be difficult to reproduce colors over the internet. Have you looked at the color combo suggestions at the paint makers' websites yet? They do provide coordinating combos to help their customers, and I find them useful.

https://www.benjaminmoore.com/en-us/paint-colors/color/hc-168/chelsea-gray

P.S. There are some online tools at paint dealers' sites that allow you to upload a photo and try on different paint colors - can't recall which ones tho...

Are those the only shutters? Take them down. They are not necessary and are undersized for the window.

Agree.

Yes cant seem to find a dark charcoal soft black on the wensite

I feel your pain! We were just dealing with a similar issue. I stained my cedar house a similar dark color like yours. We went from chocolate brown to a dark taupe gray. Anything lighter then the color we chose did not do justice to our wooded lake property. But in your situation that color might be too dark gray? If your sold on that color I would not do shutters. Trust me just went through the shutter issue and removed them today. If I were you I would also trim down those shrubs to open the front window area. I told my friend picking house colors is like planning a funeral. It was that STRESSFUL!

Yes its stressfull. The bushes are already gone will not put shutters back up

Your home is beautiful. I can't wait to see it finished. Best wishes.

Too dark, too light - who knows! Just get some sample paint and LARGE panel at least 4 x 4, maybe several, move them around to different parts of the house, at different times of day. That's the only way you will get any kind of real answer about whether the color scheme works well for y our house or not (and really, that should be main criteria, not whether trendy or not).

My concern is more that the proposed colors look way, way too similar to your roof color so for that reason I would take it either lighter, or yes, maybe darker - or maybe some other-blue gray that leans more into blue than gray - ie something that relates nicely to roof color , but is distinctly different.