Lack of Social Considerateness
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Comments (7)bob-tooley, you make a very good point and I am sure that many and equally good points can be made for either side of this argument. But can you ever convince the farmer who knows how caterpillars can undo his livelihood? Can you persuade the producers of horticultural plants (for beauty only) that caterpillars are not a menace? I forget the actual numbers but the leaf eating caterpillar's diet is about 72% water; carbon is about 50% of the dry matter. We may not be talking about a lot of organic matter. May I put out a consideration of my own? We discard an amount of any commercial food crop just for appearances' sake. I have a sense that this is about equal to the crop loss from pests of that crop. But who will or can cajole the average cook to accept the head of cabbage straight from the farm and do the final cleaning at the kitchen sink? If that can be done, we may well be able to take our share and allow the insects to take theirs. The payoff would be no chemical pest control....See MoreWhen to take Social Security?
Comments (2)Retirement appears less and less likely for many people. Wages have barely improved in decades and the cost of living is going up, tempting some people to retire overseas. It could be done, but there are a ton of plans one has to make first. One can always retire abroad for much less. It's good to think that Social Security still pays benefits to overseas retired persons, though taxes on that income in a new home country may apply as well as to the United States....See More'Aging in place' considerations - are they effective?
Comments (25)Prairie, You're right that so many services are available to the elderly -- yet a lot of people don't investigate their availability /won't use them. My grandmother, for example, welcomed Meals on Wheels but balked at calling the county's handicapped /elderly transportation van. Public transportation? That's for poor people! One of the reasons I'm pretty much sold on a certain building lot is that the neighborhood is connected to the town's "city center", which includes the town's senior center, the library and a pharmacy. We'd be able to walk (or golf cart) to these places without getting out on the main road. Physical therapy? After a serious illness my grandmother had physical therapy while she was an inpatient at a rehab facility, then she went twice a week to the hospital for some months. It did her a great deal of good. More recently my mother had physical therapy after surgery. Her therapist started her with "in bed exercises". He brought a board to her house, which he slid under her, and she did her exercises lying down. Then they moved on to the kitchen, where he had her exercise while holding onto the counter as a stabilizer. When she was doing her exercises alone, she "cheated" and held onto the sofa back instead so she could watch TV while she exercised. I think my mom was fortunate to get an A++ therapist, and he did her a world of good. Are you asking because you're trying to make sure you plan space enough for exercise in your house? BenjesBride, I don't know that I'd say the toilet is more important than the shower. I think you're more likely to be injured in the shower because of the water /possible slipping .... but you use the toilet more frequently, so you have more opportunities for accidents. Of course, the right answer is to make both as safe as possible! I think my girls' bathroom has a good set-up for an elderly person's toilet, and we're actually copying it for our future house. This is a random internet picture, not my actual house, but it's the layout I'm discussing -- I do like the color scheme and traditional look in this bathroom: The person using the toilet is a bit hidden from view, but the wall and the shorty wall provide plenty of space to anchor grab bars. An assistant could help an elderly person reach this toilet, then retreat a step to allow for some dignity ... without leaving the person completely alone. I'm thinking I want to make the pony wall thicker so it can also hold spare toilet paper. Using the same thought process, we're using solid pony-walls in our shower /glass only on the upper portion. Yes, full glass would look nicer, would make the room look larger, and would allow light to pour into the shower ... but a piece of glass can't support grab bars on both sides of the shower, and I like the idea of having bars all around....See MoreConsiderations for kitchen makeover
Comments (24)My excellent handyman contractor made sure to upgrade my apartment's main electrical panel, which is located at the entrance to my kitchen, when we redid the kitchen. The apartment is 39 years old and he simply said that a newer one with more power was needed. Not something my KD thought of. I made sure to put 4 outlets in every cabinet that has electricity, e.g., the appliance garage and the cabinet where my network router now lives. My breakfast bar is where my phone is charged. I put one of these under it, on the outside of the pony wall. It has one USB outlet and one USB-C outlet, the new standard. Eliminates the need for something to plug the phone into. https://www.amazon.com/Top-Greener-TU21548AC-Receptacle-Interchangeable/dp/B01FREZ8VE When I bought my apartment 38 years ago, the kitchen had a clean lined white cabinets with black slate floors. People couldn't understand why I replaced it, because it still looked good. My new kitchen? Custom clean lined white cabinets with a grey printed black porcelain floor. Avoid trendy colors, like all the grey, beige neutrals around. Think about solutions that have become cliches - like subway tile. Yes, it is clean and inexpensive. But... waaay overdone. Be brave - get something simple in a shape or that is dimensional! When I was looking for handles I saw variations of the same modern handle everywhere, in every country. So I bought something different. Think about what might lock you into expensive solutions forever, like a counter depth refrigerator. Buy appliances in standard, common sizes so you can always find good quality replacements. Good luck!...See Morebbstx
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