Best Advice for Making a House Offer
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Comments (26)Unless you are willing to have very little free time or privacy, and can't shell out large chunks of your money, then pass on the house. Your dream home could be a nightmare. After moving into a 1970's home, we've been hit by bad "surprises" that a standard inspection missed. We were new to the process, but have become experts and know what we'll do next time! We are stuck with $20,000 in repairs. The inspector didn't even look in the attic to report that we had no insulation over 4/5 of house! An electrician discovered it while re-wiring something. We later found out from a neighbor that it had also had a fire. During showings and inspection, the floor was covered with furniture and rugs, so we didn't notice how uneven it was until we moved in. We trusted his assessment and got burned. We don't know if litigation is even worth it. One contractor gave me the wisest advice... Next time you buy, hire a roofer, a basement company, an electrician, a plumber and an exterminator to look over the house. Even if you are spending hundreds more, you may be very glad to have bargaining power or the knowledge to walk from the deal. Bad news has a way of waking you up from a dream. Hope this helps you!...See MoreHad 3 offers for home, none of them proceeded. Need Advice.
Comments (8)We are under contract with the second people to view our home and everything is proceeding well. However, we were also under contract last year after just about the time you've been on the market. (Unfortunately the deal fell through due to an unforeseen problem which the inspection turned up.) Anyway, our experience last year as first-time sellers taught us a lot. There are definitely lulls. In fact, we're learning something even this time around. Last year, we had tons of traffic for about a week, but no offers. This was excellent traffic for our area. Then... NOTHING for 5 weeks. Zero showings. Then a decisive drop in price, and showing activity picked up, multiple offers. However, we were never sure that it was the new price which drove the increase in traffic. Showings dropped off at a point when apparently everything dropped off everywhere, and our price change coincided with a pick-up throughout the area. This year, we decided to go in closer to our lower price, but still about $10K above our final contract last year, even though the market is about the same around here this year. We got a full price very "clean" offer in about half a week (which is insanely fast for my area.) The agent took his time changing the status of the property, and we have heard that in that time, we got no requests for showings, despite the property appearing to still be completely available. School's about to end around here, or has ended in some places. This is a bit earlier than we went on the market last year, and I think this is yet another time of year when everything in the area drops off. If you are worried about people wondering what is "wrong" with your house - I would include an artfully worded statement in my public remarks, something to the effect of "Buyer financing fell through, back on market." I see this sometimes. It's better not to have something like that, if you can help it, but if need be it can help to off-set a negative impression. This post was edited by lizzie_nh on Mon, Jun 16, 14 at 15:46...See MoreBest advice I have to offer, and it's FREE. Take it or leave it.
Comments (15)MKroopy, the fact of the matter is, yes, it’s a step parenting forum, but the MAJORITY of people that come on here are women talking about their BF/SO/Husband. First you say it's not a dating forum, but a step parenting forum, yet later on you say that there's no difference between dating someone and being more of a father to someone's child than their own father and that it's just a technicality. And you're right, for all purposes you are a step parent, in the same situation as all the other people that post on here that are dating someone with kids. So surely you can see how when someone is in a relationship with someone who has kids, issues are going to come up. The fact that they are just dating doesn't negate their need for advice. And I never said you deserved to be cheated on. I said "So who's fault was it that your wife cheated on you, twice? Her's right?" I thought the answer was obvious, it wasn’t your fault your wife cheated on you, that was HER fault. The same as it’s the man’s fault when he lets his kids misbehave, when he spoils his kids, when he lets his exwife harass his current wife. The person who is at fault here is usually the bioparent, which in most scenarios presented on this forum, is the MAN. And the advice to run a background check or talk to someone’s ex-wife was given ONE time, and not by the OP or in this post. You claim the women on this forum are bitter, yet the only person who constantly feels the need to drag out the story of how their spouse cheated on them, is you. You may think telling your story proves that you never paint all women with the same brush, yet constantly telling what she did to you over eight years ago could be considered bashing as well. If you truly didn't harbor any ill feelings toward her, you wouldn't have to mention how she "cheated on me several times, cost me my marriage, a couple hundred thousand dollars, and most importantly the ability to sleep under the same roof as my kids 7 nights a week, which is how I thought it would always be when I had kids" - suuuuuuurre, that doesn't sound bitter at all. I could trot out my story of all the terrible things my ex-husband did to me, but I’ve MOVED ON with my life. "If you don’t like my posts don’t read them.” Great point and I think you should take your own advice. If you feel like the posts on here are man bashing, then don’t read them! This post was edited by Amber3902 on Fri, Mar 14, 14 at 9:43...See MoreWill be making an offer on a home - need advice
Comments (27)I guess I'm more aggressive than most of you. I'd have countered somewhere about $416-418k figuring that their counter was the first move on their part and they were probably figuring you might come back and split the difference. They either accept (my guess), come back splitting the difference again -- right about $420, or say $423k -- best offer and you haven't lost anything. Once you are negotiating, they are invested in making the deal too. BUT, if you really need to get the house or don't have the patience for negotiating, it's not enough to lose the house over. Assuming you accepted their offer -- hope things go smoothly for you....See More- 4 years agolast modified: 4 years ago
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